Attract A New Girlfriend

The Female Magnet Exercise – 

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend

So, what kind of beautiful women DO you want?

For magnetically attracting beautiful women into your life with this exercise, list all the qualities and characteristics of the kind of girl you want to attract. If you know what these characteristics are, you will be more successful because you’ll know what to look for.

What kind of women would you like to have? Do you want an explosive one-night stand or a hot, passionate relationship? Take your time and list as many qualities as you want in a woman.

Here are some examples:

“I like a woman who is very sexual and is always eager to have a wild time with me in bed. I also like a woman who is down to earth and doesn’t expect me to pay for everything… a woman who is happy and open. I want a woman that knows when to get dirty but also knows when to act like a lady. Someone who keeps in shape and has a great body and nice breasts. Oh yeah, and one that treats me like a god!”

Now to do this female magnet exercise for attracting beautiful women,

Think of the qualities you want in a woman that you listed earlier

Begin to focus on feeling the presence of the kind of woman you’re wishing to attract. Imagine that she’s right there, right in front of you.

As you do this, focus on the feeling of being connected to her.

Imagine a cord of green sex energy coming from your chest to her breasts, connecting both of you… focus in on this feeling.

Imagine a cord of yellow sex energy coming from your eyes to her eyes, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of red sex energy coming from your groin to her groin, really connecting both of you now, as you really focus in on this feeling.

Imagine a cord of orange sex energy coming from the top of your stomach (the area where you feel butterflies) to hers, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of blue sex energy coming from your throat to her tongue, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of gold sex energy coming from your forehead to her lips, connecting both of you. Really focus in on this feeling.

Focus on all six sex connections and a feeling of well-being

As you focus on the feelings of the six connections, notice what happens as you double the intensity of the feeling
 
Now in your mind, switch places with her. Step into her body, feeling what she’s feeling, and have her step into your body, feeling the six sex connections.

Hear her thoughts listing your best qualities from the inside of her mind.

Step back into your body, continuing to feel all six sex connections.

Send her the feeling of anticipation toward the day you meet in the near future.

Count to yourself from 1 to 5, saying, “Now I will count from 1 to 5. And when I do, I will awaken, feeling much better than I have ever felt before…1… 2… 3… 4… and 5.”


Do this female magnet exercise no more than twice a week for attracting beautiful women. 

Go on about your normal life… you’ll find yourself drawn to go to new places… trust your intuition and follow this. When you meet this woman, she may or may not be everything you wanted. That’s ok. Just repeat the exercise, but be clear in the qualities you want in a woman.

This relates to the baseball player imagining his homers. You need to SEE a goal to get to it. The more concrete the goal, the better your chances.

You alert yourself – on both conscious and subconscious levels – to recognize the lady you want and you’d be surprised how many guys miss her because they’re too busy worrying about something else during the crucial moment.

And you make chance encounters with the right type of woman and attracting beautiful women MORE likely just be exercising the encounter.

How To Kiss On First Date

How To Kiss On First Date

If you are excited about a first date, that you have planned, then learn how to kiss on the first date. Women never forget the first time that they kiss a man, so you want to be at the top of your game. In the heat of the moment, it is easy to forget what you are doing, so you need to have a solid plan before you try to kiss on a first date. Having a plan ahead of time will put your mind at ease when it is time for that big first date kiss. Follow these steps and you will have a memorable kiss on your fist date.

Carry breath mints with you. The first thing you need to know about how to kiss on a first date is that you have to have fresh breath. Just like a woman won't forget the first time you kiss her, she also won't forget if you had breath doing your first kiss. Carry a small pack of strong breath mints with you, so you can pop them in your mouth throughout your date. Many guys make the mistake of chewing guy to keep their breath during a first date. However, many women are turned off by the sound of chewing gum.

Ask her if you can kiss her. This might sound dorky, but women actually love it when a man asked permission to kiss her. To kiss on the first date, you need to gaze into your date's eyes and ask her if you can kiss her. If you look into her eyes and are sincere when you ask her, she is sure to give you permission to kiss her on the first date.

Slowly press your lips to her lips. Lean your face to her face and slowly press your lips to her lips. To kiss on a first date your lips need to be moist. If your lips are dry, lightly lick your lips to moisten them before you press them on her lips. To get her even more excited, run your hand slowly through her hair, while your lips are touching her lips.

Open your mouth and move your tongue in her mouth. Once your lips are on her lips, you want to slowly open your mouth and put your tongue in her mouth. When you do this, lightly run you tongue over her tongue. Once your tongue is in her mouth, put your hand on the back of her head and pull her closer to you to deepen the kiss.

Let her take the lead. Once you have followed the first four steps on how to kiss on a first date, you will be ready to let your date take the lead on the kissing. If she starts kissing you hard and fast then follow her lead and kiss her fast and hard back. If you notice that she is letting her lips linger on your lips then follow her pace and keep the kisses long and slow.

How To Attract Married Women

How To Attract Married Women

If you would like to meet a woman, but do not want to deal with the hassle of commitment, then follow these steps and learn how to attract married women. While some may consider it wrong to try to attract married women, it is really just a simple way of satisfying both your needs and that of the woman, without the burden of a long-term relationship.

To attract married women, follow these simple steps:

To attract married women, you will have to consider what may be missing in her marital relationship. Most women report that they miss the excitement and passion of dating, and that they would like to receive more compliments from their husband. That is where you come in. In order to attract married women, you have to be the one to give her what she is missing at home. Smother her with compliments and praise. For example, tell her that she is beautiful, comment on her hairstyle, or marvel at what a graceful walk she has. Or, if you feel bold, let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Even if she does not act right away, she will be thinking about the things you've said.

Become her confidante. If you are already on friendly terms with the woman, you can spend quality time listening to her problems, and offer advice on how she can improve her relationship. Women are attracted to men that can sympathize with their problems, and they are naturally drawn to men that offer solutions. By being the strong man that she turns to when she is feeling down, she will come to see you as a sexual being.

Remember that women are very emotional creatures. By tuning in to their emotions, and opening up a sensitive side of yourself, you can learn how to attract married women. Most women have extramarital affairs because they feel unfulfilled and under appreciated at home, thus, if YOU can make her feel good about herself, that may be the only thing you'll need to do to attract her.

If a woman is satisfied at home, there will be no need for her to look to the comfort of another man. Thus, don't feel guilty for wanting to learn how to attract married women. You will only be helping an otherwise lonely woman.

Sexually Hypnotize Women Into Doing Anything Using These 3 Easy Elements

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Use Porn To Get a Threesome With Two Chicks

Use Porn To Get a Threesome With Two Chicks
You’ll also want to keep a collection of adult films in your bedroom.

Adult films help to legitimize new sex acts in a woman’s eyes. When she sees others on film doing particular sexual acts, it helps make it okay for her to do them as well.

If you want to get a woman into threesomes, adult films are a great way to plant the seed of the idea into her mind.

If the woman is wary to give blowjobs, through adult films she can watch other women perform oral sex on men and live vicariously through these sexual women on film until she becomes more comfortable with the act.

If you want her to deep throat you, adult films showing deep throat demonstrate how it’s done and what’s possible.

Since adult films are such a great Blissnosis teaching tool, establish early on that watching porn is natural and a normal activity you share together. Within the first month after sex you should be watching a movie with her or emailing explicit pictures back and forth to each other.

If you have a computer, keep some movies on your desktop where she’ll be able to find them easily. If she says, “I found some videos on your computer,” tell her, “Yeah… did you see the one with the belly dancing girls? That one in particular is my favorite.”

If a woman asks if you have porn on your computer, tell her “Yes.” Then bend her over into a submissive position and dry hump her. Don’t make any apologies for your sexual desires as a man, and that includes watching naked women on film.

Of course, if you’re already well established into your relationship and you suddenly introduce the idea of watching adult films, your woman may feel threatened. She may see adult films as sexual competition rather than as a way to expand her sexuality.

That’s why it’s best to introduce your woman to “woman friendly” films first. Watching a white chick getting triple banged by three black dudes behind a dumpster can come later.

You want to start off with films that are fun to watch regardless of the sex and that she’ll feel comfortable with– and yet hardcore enough that they’ll make her sexually excited.

Start with an adult film that has a cover box that doesn’t scream porn, a film geared toward women that emphasizes a sexy environment, sexy costumes, and sexy relationships over than just straight fucking. The best adult films aren’t cheap flicks shot in a motel room. The best films tell interesting stories that tie the sex scenes together with an erotic plot and characters.

To introduce her to the idea of watching an adult movie, just tell her, “Hey my friend Bob recommend a video to me. He told me it’s about this oversexed vampire chick that seduces women and that it’s really great to watch. It would be so sexy for us to see an adult film together.”

Once the hot scenes come on, use your hand to stroke her pussy while you verbally pace the action in the movie. If it’s two girls kissing each other say, “Ooh, you like to watch that. You like to see two girls kissing, that gets you so hot. Touch yourself baby!”

When two men are on one woman at once tell her while you masturbate her pussy, “Ooh yeah, you like to watch that, two men fucking a woman, that turns you on doesn’t it.”

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend

The Female Magnet Exercise

So, what kind of beautiful women DO you want?
For magnetically attracting beautiful women into your life with this exercise, list all the qualities and characteristics of the kind of girl you want to attract. If you know what these characteristics are, you will be more successful because you’ll know what to look for.

What kind of women would you like to have? Do you want an explosive one-night stand or a hot, passionate relationship? Take your time and list as many qualities as you want in a woman.

Here are some examples:

“I like a woman who is very sexual and is always eager to have a wild time with me in bed. I also like a woman who is down to earth and doesn’t expect me to pay for everything… a woman who is happy and open. I want a woman that knows when to get dirty but also knows when to act like a lady. Someone who keeps in shape and has a great body and nice breasts. Oh yeah, and one that treats me like a god!”

Now to do this female magnet exercise for attracting beautiful women,

-Think of the qualities you want in a woman that you listed earlier

-Begin to focus on feeling the presence of the kind of woman you’re wishing to attract. 

Imagine that she’s right there, right in front of you.

-As you do this, focus on the feeling of being connected to her.

-Imagine a cord of green sex energy coming from your chest to her breasts, connecting both of you… focus in on this feeling.

-Imagine a cord of yellow sex energy coming from your eyes to her eyes, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of red sex energy coming from your groin to her groin, really connecting both of you now, as you really focus in on this feeling.

-Imagine a cord of orange sex energy coming from the top of your stomach (the area where you feel butterflies) to hers, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of blue sex energy coming from your throat to her tongue, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of gold sex energy coming from your forehead to her lips, connecting both of you. Really focus in on this feeling.

-Focus on all six sex connections and a feeling of well-being

-As you focus on the feelings of the six connections, notice what happens as you double the intensity of the feeling

-Now in your mind, switch places with her. Step into her body, feeling what she’s feeling, and have her step into your body, feeling the six sex connections.

-Hear her thoughts listing your best qualities from the inside of her mind.

-Step back into your body, continuing to feel all six sex connections.

-Send her the feeling of anticipation toward the day you meet in the near future.

-Count to yourself from 1 to 5, saying, “Now I will count from 1 to 5. And when I do, I will awaken, feeling much better than I have ever felt before…1… 2… 3… 4… and 5.”

Do this female magnet exercise no more than twice a week for attracting beautiful women. Go on about your normal life… you’ll find yourself drawn to go to new places… trust your intuition and follow this. When you meet this woman, she may or may not be everything you wanted. That’s ok. Just repeat the exercise, but be clear in the qualities you want in a woman.

This relates to the baseball player imagining his homers. You need to SEE a goal to get to it. The more concrete the goal, the better your chances.

You alert yourself – on both conscious and subconscious levels – to recognize the lady you want and you’d be surprised how many guys miss her because they’re too busy worrying about something else during the crucial moment.

And you make chance encounters with the right type of woman and attracting beautiful women MORE likely just be exercising the encounter.

Quick Success To A Girlfriend Through Baby Steps

Quick Success To A Girlfriend Through Baby Steps



You want a girlfriend or get laid more but not sure where to begin?

Sometimes you need to give yourself a 30 day challenge.

You commit to a goal for 30 days.

Maybe you’re going to say hello to a girl each day for 30 days.

Or you’re going to go out to a nightlife spot every day for 30 days.

Or you’re going to work on speaking more loudly every day for 30 days.

Or your challenge could be that you’ll be less reactive in your interactions for 30 days, or you’ll persist longer than you would normally, and do that for 30 days…

But a 30 day challenge that you’ll carry out every single day, for 30 days.

And during those 30 days, you absolutely commit that every day, no matter how you feel, whether you feel good or bad, or inspired or unmotivated, or you feel energized or not, you will partake in your 30 day challenge, and go up to the girl and say hello, or work on your voice, or hit the nightlife spots.

Every day, without fail!

Your brain might resist during those 30 days, but you just force yourself to do it.

And the reason to do a 30 day challenge, 30 days consecutively in a row, is that you want to build momentum.

Momentum Is Key

Let’s say you want to work on approaching women. If you just go out once a week, well those other 6 days you lose all your momentum!

So when the 7th day to go out comes back around, you’re not going to feel like doing. You’re not building a habit. And you just feel really rusty again on that 7th day.

It’s just like if you want to learn a new language, say Spanish. How fast can you really learn it, if you just study once a twice a week? You’re not going to become fluent.

Or with bodybuilding. You’re not going to get sexy strong if you just hit the gym once or twice a week. You lose momentum on those in-between days you’re not working out. So every day you feel rusty again.

It’s like jumping into a cold swimming pool. If you jump in everyday, the cold pool it never feels WARM. But you’re more likely to jump into the pool tomorrow if you did it today.

So what we’re really talking about is building up macro-momentum for 30 days.

Why 30 Day Goals Work Best

And a 30 day challenge is really a great way to build and develop a new habit. We all know that starting and sticking with a new habit the first week or two is the hardest part. But once you overcome the initial inertia holding you back that first week or two, it gets much easier to keep going.

So forcing yourself through for 30 days is about how long you need to take to really see improvement and build a new habit for yourself.

Also, 30 days is a reasonable goal. I can say hello to new girls every day for 30 days, and then I can quit and go back to my old habits. That’s easier than committing to a permanent change in habits, and it doesn’t seem so hard anymore. Do it for just 30 days, and then quit. Meet girls for 30 days, and then I can slack off.

Those 30 days will still require commitment, persistence, and discipline, but it’s not so hard as committing to a big permanent change. It’s just temporary to strengthen your habits in a positive direction. And you can count down the days until you’re finished.

So you get the benefits, you get macro-momentum, it’s long enough to build up and strengthen better habits, and yet you can count down the days until you’re finished. You can handle that.

And then you’ll have 30 days of success behind you. So you can then, if you feel like, commit to a new 30 day challenge. But this time it will feel a lot EASIER because you’ve already built momentum and you’ll have more experience and confidence to continue with a new challenge.

The First Days Are The Hardest

The key to completing a 30 day challenge is to continue despite feeling the ups and downs. Anytime you start out on a new habit or discipline or change in your schedule or routine, at first you’ll feel inspired the first day or two.

You’ll be eager to go out and say hello to girls on the first day of the challenge.

Than a few days into it, you won’t feel so motivated anymore. But that’s the most important time to stick with your 30 day challenge and force yourself to go through the motions.

Then a few days after that, you’ll have continued building the momentum, and you’ll feel enthusiastic again.

And then your enthusiasm will waiver, and then it will come back again. But you’ve got to stick with it for 30 days through the highs and lows.

And by the end of the 30 days, it will just feel more like something that you just do, like a regular habit, and your brain stops resisting or rollercoasting, and it just more accepts it.

And then you’re done, you’re finished, and then you can decide to give yourself a new, and modified 30 day challenge.

So that’s an easier way to learn how to pickup girls, by giving yourself challenges and focusing on 1 or 2 things you really want to focus on at a time and breaking it down into more manageable chunks.

The Newbie Challenge

Sometimes I like to go on a 30 day challenge for myself, where I straight up take the mentality of being a total newbie again. A student of the game. No ego allowed here. As if it were my first day ever going back out again. A newbie-style mission of taking my lumps.

Going out every night or every day, 30 days in a row.

Forgetting everything I did in the past, any accomplishment, any fuck-ups, it’s like I’m starting the slate clean from the beginning as if I have no history.

And going out for 30 nights in a row is pretty awesome. It’s all about building up momentum.

The first week is pretty tough of course. You get run down and tired and sleepy from not sleeping enough. Or you feel like your balls are getting busted and it’s a hard slog.

But if you stick with it, you’ll find that at the end of 30 days you’ll be just itching to get back out there and it will become the most anticipated part of your day.

It’s pretty simple. Sunday through Wednesday just hit up a bar for happy hour and stick with it for an hour or two to keep some social momentum, keep your social muscles alert and active. And talk to whoever you can find just to work those social muscles.

Thursday, Friday, Saturday, those are your nights to SHINE. That’s because that’s when the hottest clubs typically are open.

And you’ll see a real payoff from going out all week on the Mondays and Tuesdays and Wednesdays, because when you hit the weekend, instead of being rusty, you’ll already have social momentum right out of the gate, and you hit the ground running on the weekends.

And what’s cool about socializing every day for 30 days is that you’ll find talking to girls becomes more of an *automatic* process. Because you become so used to it, and since you’re going out every night your brain just comes to accept that it’s going to happen, no matter what.

And of course your criteria for success has to be really simple, as if you’re starting out all over again. And that’s just to open. The conversation just needs to last two minutes. And if you open, you’ve won the game.

Understanding Habits And Motivation

And if you don’t feel that you have the motivation to do a 30 day challenge, you’ve got to remember something about motivation.

Motivation is based on habits. And developing a new habit is all about momentum. If you want to develop a new habit, like going out and meeting girls, you’ve got to develop momentum.

So the first week will be very rough. You won’t feel like going out, because you don’t yet the motivation, you don’t have the momentum yet, you don’t have the habit yet. So the first week is rough, you’ve got to rely on willpower.

But after the first week, you’ll have the habit of going out, the momentum, and it will become easier and easier until after the 30 day challenge it will feel like a normal, everyday part of your life and will become much easier.

So seriously, a 30 day challenge of going out every day is something you want to DO for yourself. And it’s only 30 days, it’s not forever. That’s why you can do it.

And I guarantee you, there’s not a single guy in the world who does a 30 day “going out” challenge who regrets it, every guy finds it to be a great, growing experience for the better and is glad for having pushed himself to undertake the challenge.

An Easy Pick Up Formula To Attract Younger Hotties With Frames, Threads, and Nonverbals

An Easy Pick Up Formula To Attract Younger Hotties With Frames, Threads, and Nonverbals


So how do you seduce a girl – what is a good formula?

First, it started with Inner game—> which this is then outwardly expressed through body language, the sub-communication that all woman read.

Inner game and body language is what hits her reptilian circuitry to telegraph that we are the prize (or are of only miniscule size).

Finally comes “outer game”, which is used to tactfully lead a woman from point A to point B. Outer game is mainly used to handle contingencies and obstacles that will arise in social interactions.

However to execute the master plan you need attitude, confidence, and the belief that you will close the deal. So bottom line, project high status body language and an attitude nonverbally.

The Inner Game, or your attitude and body language, is by far the most important factor for seduction mastery in Night Clubs.

I want to talk about the importance of:

-Dominant Frame Control
-Adding value to open, engage, and attract women in mixed sets
-Multiple Thread Theory
-Importance of Leading and escalating the interaction with a woman

So let’s start with the most important concept,

Dominant Frame Control

Remember the one with the stronger belief system and reality dominates those in the vicinity.

What does this mean: Be contagious like cancer, suck the oxygen from the room. “All eyes on me baby” …Get it. Elvis has walked in and I am here to give all of you women my sexy offspring but first I am going to see if you have what it takes to interest me legitimately, offsetting the face value, make up and fake up induced stares that most guys fall trance to simply by a woman’s looks.

Also, when you walk into the club, act like you own the place. Socialize with everyone. Come as if you have your hands full already, like you’re already sexing 10′s , models, high class, A list women of exceptional quality and beauty.

See, what this does is when you talk to a woman, she can feel that you are pre-selected and are just here to have fun and bring the vibe and party to the others.

Remember, women can feel if you are sexy or not to others. When you are just out to fuck around, be playful, fluid, mis-interpret, and be ballsy, it implies a “chilled-out middle finger in the air mentality.” And believe me, women know and decide “Non verbally” before you even open them if you are sex-worthy.

That is why I advocate Inner Game. So beef up your body language and non verbal components. That is why the first phase of my 7 point model groups all of these nonverbal factors into their own phase called the “PRE OPENER – VALUE CALIBRATION” phase where we beef up our nonverbal value. How?

How To Build Nonverbal Value

-Chat up everyone.

-Flash Game – Have girls in your near vicinity engaged by you, embracing you.

-Laugh and vibe with your wing.

-Talk to everyone – ADD Value to other people’s lives.

-Remember the mentality “Don’t look for the party.” You bring the party to their lonesome soles.

-Talk to and engage women, then merge that set with a hotter set or just next the “Pivot” set for the set with the hotter women and it will open so much easily.

-Act as if you are already sexing two or three model-type women. You already got your hands full and are just here because you are bored. Let me ask you, if you had 9 bottles of coke in your fridge, would you care about scoring the tenth bottle? No.

-Misinterpret everything a woman says as wanting you, as wanting to take you home.
IF a woman shit tests you or acts rude, then laugh it off.

-Add value to the group; Remember you are the party and are bringing it to them, not going to them for the party.

-So, when you approach a group, bring value to them. Tell them cool stories that have DHV spikes that demonstrate your alpha traits indirectly to the women and subtly convey that you have higher value than the males in the set.

-Make the guys feel good about themselves but in a very smooth way that simultaneously raises your value in relation to theirs.

-Make the friends or cockblocks feel great about themselves.

-Actively show disinterest to the target, but at the same time… do not ignore her. That is not what group theory is about. You need to “bait her and keep her in set” by bait & hook comments like “Oh shit what is up with your hand”. Or “Hey let me ask you something daddy’s girl…”

A lot of guys make the mistake of completely ignoring the Object Of their Desire. This will make her bored and she will think that, you like the males and are gay or
like her average friends






How To Touch Escalate

Also lead the interaction and touch escalate. How do get a nice gradual touch escalation curve? Here is how:

First, touch her from the very beginning. SO you appear to be just a touch guy from the start and so when you touch her later, it doesn’t surprise or freak her out.

Also remember, you must escalate the interaction and LEAD HER.

She expects nothing less from you when given an open window. If you don’t take that window, you will be in the LJBF (Let’s just be friends) or even worse “DMS” (Dancing Monkey Syndrome).

A lot of guys spend too much wasted time and energy on attracting a woman. That is not needed. Especially in clubs, you don’t need long ass routines, just RFT (Rapid Fire Threads). A lot of it is your attitude, your playful vibe, your charismatic tone, body language and your non-excusing personality to get close to a woman and touch her that will attract her. Also smile, have piercing eye content, engage all sets, groups, win them over, be the loudest, coolest mofo on the block, and that’s it!

How To Build Connection And Comfort

And remember that attraction is only a means to get her to want to connect with you. It is not an end in itself.

For instance, when I get a positive vibe from a woman, I always lead her to the bar and move her around to get her used to the idea of…

Building comfort with me.
“Venue changing with me”
We get drinks together.
Or lead her by the hand to a couch.
Also you must lead her all the way around and through obstacles.


How To Lead A Woman

For instance, on Monday at this upscale lounge, I took my girl by the hand to the bar where a couple of lamo’s were trying to talk to her. So I grabbed her by the hand and turned her to face me and her back to them. She expected that, to be lead by touch and body movement. She went to buy a drink for her girlfriend at the bar and instead of letting her give her girl the drink, I said, “Here sweety I’ll give it to her”. This way I “locked her in” with the beer bottle. I know she will not go away. We went up to her girlfriend and after giving the drink, I had to disarm the obstacle. So after vibing with her for a bit, I said “Okay we (me and my girl) will be there. Come join us”

She was cool with that. Now my student, due to his lack of experience, wasn’t able to engage the friend and on top of that she was mercilessly being hit on by a crew of drunken’ British boys, so the logistics got a bit sticky. But here is the point.

-Always lead your woman
-Guide her
-Dominate the situation for her
-It is your job to keep you and her in a “bubble,” and move her down the seduction tunnel.

Another example, I ran into the two hot Vegas Deluxe show girls type models and just grabbed them and said, “Hi remember me. How are you guys. Come let’s finish our photo.” They were so into it. Then a whole bunch of guys started seeing me doing it and wanted to get their picture with the hotties, so I said girls “Go make ‘em happy… it will make his day I am sure”.

So after a quick snapshot, the other guys were trying to game them. I just grabbed my hotties by the arm, arms around both waist, led them close to me and SNAP! It was on. DO you guys see this… that you must lead, a woman is very turned on by a guy who

Dominates the situation with her
Demonstrates more alphaness and survival value and “infectiveness” to male competition.
Remember, lead the men and the women will follow.

Bottom line, I just took them, guided them, led them away, all with a stronger frame. I didn’t acknowledge anybody else in the vicinity or other guys, or anything else.

Multiple Thread Theory

The whole goal of a pick up is to move the girl from a non-sexual disposition to a playful, flirtations, and sexual direction. How do we do this without creeping her out? Multiple threading.

Here is what most men do:

Guy: “Hey girls, what color do you like pink or blue?”

Girl: “I like blue.”

Guy: “But why, blue is boring.”

Girl: “Yeah, but it is also…”

See how the guy is talking logically and boring her. He is setting up a very bland, friendly frame with her. So what he will do is sequence into asking her for her number… but with no sexual innuendos being implied, no flirtation, and no playfulness. She will feel awkward and will think he is socially inept.

Remember, you must turn the conversation from the opener into things that will make you flirt with her, turn it into a sexual direction, and make you close the space with her and touch her. Here is how it works:

Guy: “Hey girls, what color pink or blue?”

Girl: “Blue.”

Guy: “Oh my god… you are conservative aren’t you…? Goody two shoes…”

Girl: “Why do you say that?”

Guy: “I can see it in your water hands. Do you know you have water hands?”

Girl: “What is that?”

Guy: “Here give me your hands, let me show you… but first let me ask you… what do you have going on for you more than your looks? I mean you are cute but so what…”

See how you are multi-threading from the opener with each thread slowly getting closer to getting her contact info, an isolation, turning it sexual, intimate, and flirtatious?

When Women Want to Have Sex With You

When Women Want to Have Sex With You

How do you know when a woman is making advances to sleep with you ?

Some women seem to do the things that you think mean they want sex, like invite you to their apartment after a date, but what does that behavior really mean ?

If I'm understanding you correctly, you're confused about the signals she's throwing off at you, and you'd like some better indicator as to whether you should try to sleep with her. Is that it ?

This is interesting, because there are typically two sides to this situation:

1-The guy is aggressive and goes forward - often times too far too fast - to get sex from a woman. He gets rejected out of haste and poor approach.

2-The guy is watching for every indication to go forward before he actually tries. As a result, even when she does want sex, he misses out by not taking an opportunity when she presents it.

It's tough. How do you REALLY know when she wants sex with you ?

Some guys will interpret her inviting him inside as meaning that she wants to get naked and do the wild mambo. Others will not believe she's really into it or wanting them unless she's tearing off her own clothing.

Well, consider this: It's rare that a woman will want sex with you while you're not in the preliminary stages of touching and foreplay. She's not just going to walk across a room and reach out to tell you to bang her. She's usually going to need a good amount of warming up before you get on the raceway. Even if she has mentally made up her mind to sleep with you, you would still have to go through the physical motions of the initial steps.

When a woman puts you in a circumstance where sex is possible, it does NOT mean that sex is ASSURED. She's only giving you an opportunity to move forward and progress.

When a woman invites you up to her apartment, she's not saying she WILL have sex with you. She's only leaving the possibility open, which is always hers to revoke. The opportunity is there, if you know how to take it.

It's up to you to watch for and use the opportunity.
Now, your goal is still the same. You must WORK to the goal if you want to sleep with her. Your effort translates into sexual gratification.

In another way: You will still need to go through the progressive steps of seduction.

When you're in her apartment, you need to go from getting the drink or ice-breaker over to sitting on the couch. Try to get music going. Then get to touching. Then to kissing.

From there, you need only handle the progression the way I've instructed in the e-books to keep things moving toward your goal.

Once you've worked through the physical steps, moving two steps forward, one step back the whole way, you'll get the true indications as to whether she will sleep with you.

(Just make sure you're prepared for the event when it happens...)

You see, you're going to do one of two things when it comes to meeting women and seduction :

Learn because you had the sense to build and invest in your own understanding - possibly because you wound up getting the crap kicked out of you by the women out there, or
NEVER learn - and suffer for the rest of your life.

And I'm not talking about learning some weird voodoo ritual that hypnotizes her with special magic words - because THEY DON'T EXIST! Beware of the snake oil out there that promises you INSTANT success with women. That only happens in porn movies and with hookers.

Men have also been taught that if we're not successful with women, it's THEIR fault. "I just can't understand WOMEN." "WOMEN are so different." "I just don't get why WOMEN act so strangely." "She must be a lesbian."

No, she's probably NOT a lesbian, dude. (Even if you hope to watch her with another woman.)

The truth is that women are acting just fine. Women consistently misbehave in ways we can analyze and understand. We men are simply not learning enough about THEIR motivations, or what actually is going on beneath the surface.

How to Make a Connection With a Woman

How to Make a Connection With a Woman


Men who are able to read the signals that women send out are less likely to be successful in getting dates than those who continue to misread these flirting signals. Truly, there are signals that spell a win for any guy who can sense it as soon as possible. Some guys, though, fall for the ploys that girls use to get free drinks from the men they reel in with smiles and fake interest.

To avoid falling prey to a woman’s charm and being taken for a ride without getting a single phone number back, you have to have the upper hand in any interaction with a woman. Read on for some more tips on how to do this.

1. Make her believe you understand her better than she thinks.

The effect of a cold reading can be scary and exciting for some women. It’s uncanny when a man can seem to read her after a few minutes of talking. She ends up thinking she might be too transparent, or you’re this superman who has x-ray vision and extra-sensory perception. Or, she could end up thinking you really are meant to be together, and meeting in the club like this is fate.

If you have her dancing to your tune and hanging on to every word you say, you can take it farther and tell her that you may be soul mates. Women are into those kinds of things.

When women are flustered by the ‘truth’ in your words, she either gets defensive or she opens up totally. Either way will work for you. Cold reading is a skill that requires you to think fast on your feet, and change your stories or predictions according to the woman’s reactions.

2. Push her buttons.

Teasing a girl you like should feel familiar; you’ve been doing this since you were in kindergarten. While there are many differences between pulling a girl’s pigtails when you were a lot younger and blatantly teasing a woman you just met, the principles behind these actions are similar.

The goal is to make her react, to challenge her, and to make her look at you in a different way. When you push a woman’s buttons, you get her attention and more importantly, you keep her hooked on you. Most women think of the interaction that ensues after a bout of teasing as ‘making a connection’, which is the most important thing in dating.

You don’t have to believe that skill in dating and picking up women comes only after you’ve dealt with rejection in every shape and form. Even if you’re new to dating, you can make a connection with a woman as long as you handle the interaction smoothly.

When is the best time to hug or kiss a woman

When is the best time to hug or kiss a woman


It depends on the situation, but don't think of it as "hugging, kissing, or shaking hands." Think of it as basically physical touching, and do it whenever it could come off as the most natural thing to do.

For example, when talking to a woman at a bar (which might be crowded and noisy), lean in and talk very close into her ear while touching the side of her arm or elbow. This type of touching is also known as a "kinesthetic approach", kino for short. You want to a women, soon after meeting her, to feel comfortable (and possibly aroused) with this type of touching from you. It displays to her that you are a sexual being and are not afraid to move in close or make contact.

Don't treat touching like a business affair, treat it like subtle animalistic human contact. Your hand stroking her hair, touching her hand, arm around her shoulder, whispering in her hear and making sure your lips brush against her lobes. That sort of thing. Obviously not done when first running into a woman on the street but over time with practice you'll learn when the right time is.

But keep in mind that if you wait too long before first starting kino, it may come off as unatural. First and foremost, you want to be congruent with how you act.

How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

A club can be a particularly frustrating place to meet someone, with all the noise, the crowd and the business of the participants. In fact, most women don't go to clubs to meet men. Yet, many men go to clubs to meet women. Here is a step-by-step guide on the best way to increase your chances of success.

Steps
1. Arrive early. By midnight, most people have already coalesced into groups, making them harder to approach.

2. Start conversations with people in the line-up. A good start is to ask someone if this is the event you are looking for.

3. After entering through the door, make eye contact with the first woman there. Again, "is this the event?" is an opening that will work. Since she's by the door, chances are she has just arrived and is also looking for someone to talk to.

4. Whenever you meet someone, ask if she's there alone or with friends. Then ask to meet her friends. Chances are she'll be happy to introduce. They tend to prefer the group dynamic in this setting.

5. Once you get names, and a few minutes of chit chat, move on. This shows them that you're not desperate and that you have things to do. You can come back to them later as someone they already know.

6. After moving away, you may need to write down the names you just got for later reference.

7. Whatever you do, DON'T BE A WALLFLOWER. Guys who stand against the wall looking longingly at the women gets you pidgenonholed as a typical desperate guy they like to avoid. If you get stuck in such a position, move from it to another vantage point every few minutes before you get another project going.

8. If you feel like resting, find a seat away from the crowd.

9. Have things to do: Bring a camera, explore the place, check out the bathroom, buy a drink, get a napkin. Have a look of Destination on your face. What does this look like? Simple: Just take a look at the busy-looking women as they go from place to place on some seelingly crutial mission.

10. If you see people you know, go over to them. They may end up introducing you to more people.

11. Talk to bouncers and security people. This makes you look important. These people are often bored and will be happy to talk to you.

12. Bring an entourage. It makes you attractive if you are part of a group.

13. If possible, come with a "wing-woman." A wing-woman is an attractive woman who is only a friend. This makes you look attractive.

14. Find someone to dance with. For this, an older or less attractive woman is ideal. They will be happy to dance with you and you will attract the attention of the young and pretty ones who are wondering why you chose this one as opposed to them. When the dance is over, compliment your partner and excuse yourself, then approach any one of the cute ones who will now be looking at you.

15. Talk to female wallflowers. They are open to meeting someone. Even if she is older or less attractive, engage them in conversation. This will make the cute ones wondering (same as #12).

16. Walk around with a big cool looking drink. This will get you attention. Ask the bartender for a recommendation on this.

17. Go outside. They stamp your hand so you might as well use it. Outside there is less competition and a it's less crowded and you can occasionally find a lone woman taking a break or a smoke.

18. Instead of asking for a phone number, ask for a business card. If she says she doesn't have one, ask if she has email.

19. Don't be satisfied with one email or phone number, even if you think she is the "woman of your dreams." Most women will not return a phone call from a guy she met at a club.

20. Make sure to circle around back to the women you met at the beginning. At this point, after missing you, they will be more open to talk.

21. The next day, email all the women. Give them some sort of way for them to remember who you are, and give them your phone number and tell them when you will be available.

Tips
1. If a woman insults you, just say "whatever" and turn away.

2. If a woman displays childish or otherwise condescending or inappropriate behavior, do not feel like you have to play into it: Simply say: "I thought you were interesting, but I see I was mistaken. Good evening," and then turn to walk away. If she's descent she'll apppologize and pull you back.

3. If you see a couple who looks like they might be just friends, try introducing yourself to the guy first. He'll introduce you to her if he's her "wing-man."

4. Don't feel like you have to spend the whole evening talking to one woman. She's there to be with other people too. So if things are going well, ask for an email.

5. Come clean, groomed and wear a nice, pressed, expensive looking dark shirt.

6. If a woman makes eye contact, go for it.

7. If a woman avoids eye contact, you have just been rejected. Move on.

8. If someone indicates that he or she would like to talk to you, for example, by making eye contact, talk to him or her even if you are not interested. This will make you look as busy as anyone else, and makes it look as though you didn't come there to meet pick up women.

9. Don't dance too much by yourself. It makes you look alone. If there's one song you must dance to, do it where you're not too noticeable.

10. For picking up women on the dance floor itself, see the wikihow on how to pick up a woman on a dance floor.

11. If you find yourself with nothing to do, look busy and important: Check your email, text your friends, call your mom, etc. If you don't know what "busy and important" is supposed to look like, just watch the busy and important women doing those things.

12. When choosing a woman to take your picture, pick one who has her own camera. This way (a) she probably knows what she's doing, and (b) after she takes yours, you can continue by offering to take one of her.

Warnings

1. Don't try to pick up the bartender. She's busy. If you must pick her up, only try it either very early or very late if she seems to have time.

2. Keep in mind that most women at clubs are not there to meet new people but to have fun with people they already know.

3. Realize that YOU WILL GET REJECTED as a matter of course by at least some of the women you approach. Some women enjoy the power surge of rejecting someone and get themselves all dolled up just to attract their next victim(s). If you cannot handle this, you should find other places to pick up women.

4. Beware of boyfriends. If you see a couple very close and lovey-dovey, give them space.

5. Occasionally, a woman will be downright rude and insulting. Learn to deal with this.

6. Don't wear cologne. It may attract women you don't want, and turn away others you do want.

7. Do not invest any emotion into any one individual, or the entire project in general. Remember that women who go to clubs are probably too vapid and superficial for the long term anyway.