How Reckless Sexual Intent Makes Women Get Horny For You, Even If You’re Damn Ugly!

How Reckless Sexual Intent Makes Women Get Horny For You, Even If You’re Damn Ugly!

So, how do you make women feel horny and wet between the legs for you – even if you’re not the best looking guy?

What most men do, is that when they see an attractive woman that they like, they actually bury their sexual feelings and desires deep down inside of them.

They look away from the girl, maybe they just peek at her from the corner of their eye, but they don’t want the woman to know that she’s checking her out.

Or, the guy goes up and says hello to the woman, maybe opens by asking her opinion about something, and maybe tells a story or joke to make her laugh. But he still hiding his sexual desire to fuck her by being super friendly, and as a result the interaction doesn’t have any sexual tension, it doesn’t have any sexual undertone or vibe.

He’s not being raw and masculine, so the woman cannot feel raw and feminine in return. He has no chance awakening a primal lust in her.

So the guy might be liked by the girl, but she’s putting him into the nice guy “let’s just be friends” category because no hard attraction is being sparked.

And the reason that guys hide and bury their masculine sexual intent is because they want approval from the girl, they want to be liked by the girl. They’re more worried about being liked then to actually get the girl into their bed. They want to be liked more than actually risk a rejection by showing their true feelings of attraction.

And when you do this, it’s very easy to get the girl to giggle and laugh, but generally the interactions won’t go anywhere farther than that if the girl doesn’t know why the fuck you’re talking to her.

Sexual Intent And State Transference
And remember that concept that whatever you feel, the girl will feel. If you’re hiding your true intentions, and you remain completely asexual, not only will that make you feel lame yourself, but the girl is not going to feel sexual for you in return.

If you want a woman to feel that hard, I-want-to-fuck-this-guy feeling, you have to go there first.

If you want a girl to feel that tingle of lust, you have to go there first. You lead her state.

On some level, you need to feel that testosterone fueled fury, that fire blazing up through your body of sexual intent.

On some level, the girl has to feel like you are deeply attracted to her.

On some level the girl has to feel that she is in imminent danger of being fucked.

On some level, she has to feel like you would follow her to the ends of the earth to pursue her all the way to better.

On some level, the girl has to feel like a sex object and this is going down at any moment.

And you expressing your sexual intent openly will allow her to feel that rush of underlying sexual tension.

And you’ll generate that hard attraction, because finally she’s meeting a man who’s not afraid to project that kind of energy, who’s not afraid to express the truth, was not afraid to be real with her, who’s not looking for her permission to express himself, a man who makes no apologies for having a Dick. She’ll feel that sexual tingle because women are inherently, biologically attracted to men to take the lead in goal for the girl’s permission to act recklessly.

Embrace The Sexual Man In You

Because remember women want to be fucked. They want men with masculine dominance and masculine intent to fuck them. Women want to meet a real man with every intention of bending them over. And women love to be physically dominated and checked out shamelessly. It makes them feel feminine.

So the first thing is, to embrace that identity of being a sexual man.

That you were born with a Dick, and you make no apologies for your sexual desires as a man. But you won’t bury your true self or your true feelings or your true desires, but you let them shine through and you make no apologies for it.

You embrace that role as a man who lets women know what he’s about and why he’s talking to her. Any make no excuses for being a sexual guy. Any make no excuses that fucking hot girls and expressing yourself is your manifest destiny.

And again, like I said before, that open expression of your masculine sexual intent, is what the game is really now. Because that’s where the fun, and the rush, and the feeling of youth and vitality and happiness and that you’re 10, comes in. It’s not in getting laid. It’s not in getting the girl. It’s who you are, expressing your raw masculinity, and taking complete reckless action that defines you as a man and will sustain you day after day and ground you in fun and motivation.

And by doing so, women will feel that shine through, and feel hard attraction as a result just as a side effect of who you are.

How To Express Sexual Intent

That begs the question, what is then a sustaining motivation to keep going out, to keep meeting women week after week, and just having sex as merely a side effect of who you are — without getting laid been a conscious and the goal?

What can you do to feel alive, to feel vital, to be happy, to have fun, despite whatever else is going on, despite if sex is happening or not — and yet you’re still attracting massive quantities of women in your life, as a side effect of who you are?

Your goal each day, and your motivation for going out, is most healthy and sustaining when it’s about being a man who expresses recklessly his masculine sexual intent. That’s the magic formula to stay motivated and be healthy about this.

Reckless sexual intent is looking hard-core into a woman’s eyes, and then her lips, and then at her breasts, checking out her body shamelessly as he talked to her.

Reckless sexual intent is running up to a woman and telling her that she’s the cutest thing on the planet as he smiled big and say it with 100% conviction.

Reckless sexual intent is speaking loudly and dominantly with breaking rapport tonality.

Reckless sexual intent is ignoring a woman’s tests and powerfully plowing through like a steamroller over all opposition to express yourself to her.

Reckless sexual intent is imagining putting your one hand on her breast and another hands on her but in pulling her in for a wet kiss as a speaker.

Reckless sexual intent is making women feel like they are in danger of immediately being fucked if they were to be alone with you.

Reckless because you take action without permission. Reckless because you take action to try to create a social disaster in dealing with the consequences only later.

That’s the core sexual expression that makes you feel like a raw, alive, blood coursing through your veins, masculine man. And that’s what will ultimately make you feel a rush, feel alive, feel young, feel happy, feel complete freedom, feel proud about yourself and happy that you are you, that you can make women feel this way at your will. You feel like a man.

Sex Cannot Be The Only Goal

Regardless of whether sex comes from that, because the sex cannot be the goal. Getting laid cannot be the goal. Pining after a girlfriend cannot be the goal. Expressing your sexual masculine intent can be your only goal for the day. And when you express your sexual intent, shamelessly, recklessly, without permission from anybody, that’s far more powerful then the act of getting laid itself.

And that’s what attracts women as a side effect of who you are, and you can just allow the sex to happen when it comes, without reaching for, without grasping for, without dreaming about it, without it being part of your agenda, in your head as some thought based goal. Because the thought based goals set in the future come into the present moment and destroy it. Thought-based goals basically cancel out your happiness for today because of the goal you feel you haven’t succeeded, you feel you aren’t complete. So self acceptance and happiness go right out the window.

But if you’re out there, in the field, taking action, expressing your sexual masculine intent to women, that’s its own reward because that’s what will make you feel awesome and feel like a complete man. It’s not getting approval from the woman in the form of getting laid that will make you feel that way.

So your motivation to go out each day is to recklessly take action. And if you’re doing that now, you’ve reached the pinnacle. You are already there. You don’t need to achieve anything more. Just enjoy that. Just enjoy that you are a man who takes action. And that’s all you need to be. Enjoy the rush. Enjoy the adrenaline. Enjoy feeling young and vital. Enjoy the power. Enjoy that you’re leaving. Enjoy that you’re making women blush, making women smile, making women slap you, making women run away, making women flustered, making women fall head over heels, and just getting all these crazy intense reactions from women.

And listen, this is why so many relationships fall apart. Because the guy was originally motivated to get laid or find a girlfriend. So he gets into a relationship, has his girlfriend, and gets laid.

But — he loses his opportunities to express his masculine sexual intent. He’s prevented by his new girlfriend from going out and expressing himself to women or expressing his desires to women. and yes, the relationship he’s in is comfortable, but he starts to feel neutered. He starts to feel a longing. He starts to feel something is missing. But something is missing.

Because a man is most fulfilled when he’s expressing his sexual intent, making women feel that hard attraction, blowing up girls realities, and acting recklessly and dominantly.

It’s not about the girl. It’s not about the sex. Those things don’t last. What it is about is you, and who you ar, and how you act – that’s what lasts. That’s what brings you lasting fulfillment and joy, happiness, and motivation to keep going out.

So your goal is really, each day, to go on expressing your sexual intent with recklessness, without seeking permission to do it, and cleaning up the social disaster and consequences afterwards.

That is far more sustaining because every day is a new opportunity to live in the moment, to have fun, and have loads of success.

Speed dating

How to succeed at speed dating

Speed dating is one of the easiest, fastest and most fun ways to meet a lot of women in a single evening.

If you’ve never tried speed dating before, it’s a little bit similar to the game called ‘musical chairs’. Basically, the women are seated at tables and the men rotate around the room until each man and woman has had a chance to meet each other. You will sit and talk to a woman for about 5 to 10 minutes and then you’ll hear a signal that tells you it’s time to switch and you’ll move to the next woman.

Each person is given a ‘score card’ and if you like a woman (or several women) and would like to get their contact information, you will mark their name(s) on the card. And if those same women also have an interest in seeing you again, they will mark your name down.

At the end of the speed dating event or soon after, the event’s organizers will compare the cards. If the women you meet are also interested in you, you will each get the other’s contact information (e-mail or phone number). And then you contact the woman to talk further or to arrange a date.

However, if she likes you but you weren’t attracted to her or vice-versa, then neither of you will receive the other’s contact information. No rejection worries there. These events are often held at bars or clubs and there’s usually a nominal fee to participate. You can find speed dating events in your area advertised in your local newspaper or the Internet.

The best part is that if you’re not feeling it with a particular woman, your ‘date’ will only last a few minutes. Plus, even if you have to talk to a woman you’re not interested in, it’s a great way to get you relaxed and ready to talk to a woman you do you like. Okay, now that you know the basics, let’s get down to how to succeed at speed dating.

Of course you’ll want to look your best. That doesn’t mean you have to wear a suit (unless it’s appropriate to the event), but you do want to wear something nice and be properly groomed.

Since the women will be meeting many men, you’ll want to make a memorable first impression. This is the perfect time to stand out from the crowd by using your sense of humor and teasing her a bit. Just be sure not to use the same jokes and teases with each girl since you often will be sitting close to the last woman you spoke with and if she overhears you, you don’t want her to think that you were giving her a line. Lines are lame.

To come up with some funny to say, you might notice what a girl is wearing and say (with a smile), “That’s looks like an expensive outfit. I don’t know – you look kind of high maintenance to me…” Or you might take a similar tact and say something like, “My wife forced me to do this…she’s at home waiting to see how man yes’s I get…”

The point is to tease her, shock her, say something funny and throw her off her game a bit so she laughs and remembers you.

The subject of what you do for a living will invariably come up. This is another chance to stand out and not give a boring recitation of what you do for a living. For instance, if you are a construction worker, you might say something like, “I play in the dirt all day and build things…” Or if you’re an accountant, you might answer, “I make sure that the numbers add up and I help people to get rich.” If you’re a student, you might comment, “I spend my day working on my future…”

No matter what you do, just figure out a way to discuss your occupation in an interesting and unusual manner. Remember, you’re not at a job interview, so don’t hog the conversation and don’t be formal – it’s supposed to be fun and interesting. Get her to talk about herself and listen to what she’s saying.

Even if you’re not attracted to the woman you’re talking with and spot someone more striking a few tables over, don’t keep glancing over at the other woman. You’ll get to her soon enough. Women rarely attend these events by themselves and that gorgeous gal you’ve been eyeing, might turn out to be the friend of the girl you’re ignoring. When they compare notes later, if the beautiful woman thinks you were rude to her friend, even if it was because she was the object of your attention, you’re probably going to be a goner. So focus on the woman you’re with. It’s good practice and good manners.

When you’ve been talking to a woman you do like and you realize that your time is going to be up, smile and say, “Finally – I get to talk to someone else! That was the worst 10 minutes of my life!” Then tell you’re kidding and say, “No, I’ve enjoyed talking to you…you seem pretty cool. We should chat again sometime” and get up and leave.

It’s just that easy. Why not give speed dating a chance and practice your skills with women?

Online Dating - Pros y Cons online dating

Pros and Cons of Online Dating

If you haven’t been dating in a while, if you’re new to dating or if you’re want to improve your skills with women, online dating can sometimes be a good stepping stone. The truth is that online dating is best used in combination with actually going out and talking to women in bars.

However, since many guys are interested in online dating these days – let’s have an honest look at the pros and cons.

Online dating wasn’t very popular before the late 1990s and early 2000s, but today it has become a much more viable option to make initial contact with women. Unlike in the past, you’ll find that there are more women who are also looking to meet their match online. It’s no longer just the homely girls who frequent the online dating sites. Many beautiful women, especially those with busy careers, are now finding that meeting someone online suits their busy lifestyle. After all, they don’t have to get dressed or deal with the noise and crowds generally associated with the club scene and they can better fit it into their schedule.

Today, there are free sites with many active members, but sometimes paying a small fee with give you access to women aren’t being flooded with messages by free users.

While you can correspond with women internationally and nationally, some sites will give you the option to search for women within a short drive from where you live. It’s a good feature, because unless you’re ready and willing to move to the other side of the world if you become serious with the woman, or you simply don’t want to have to spend a fortune traveling back and forth to date, you might want to limit your search to a girl who is relatively close to you; at least within the same state, country or region. Remember, if you’re going to have a true relationship with, or at the least, have sex with your new lady, you’re actually going to have to be in the same room. (Online sex doesn’t count for anything).

Let’s cover some of the other pros and cons.

Pros

You can target potential women not only by looks, age and location but also by common interests.

Before you even begin corresponding with the woman, there is usually some information on her available on the site that will make ‘starting a conversation’ easier.

You can talk to many women at the same time.

On the outside chance you don’t hit it off with a woman you like; you’re only a few key clicks away from your next potential conquest. No fear of rejection there.

You can determine how quickly or slowly you want to get to know the women. Although, due to the removed nature of online dating, people have a tendency to open up more quickly about themselves.

You can apply your skills of flirting online before going out into the real world to experiment.

When you finally do meet in person, you’ve already established a relationship or at least have a familiarity with each other.

Cons

Women aren’t always honest when they put up their photo. You can’t tell how recent her picture is or if it is really her. Some women feel that once you get to know them, their appearance won’t matter as much so they are deceptive about the photos they upload.

You can easily get into the bad habit of using online dating as a substitute for going out and meeting women in person.

Some sites charge a recurring fee, while others are ‘pay as you go’. You could end up spending a lot of money over the course of a year.

The so-called ‘relationship’ you build with a woman online (sometimes over months) might not match the actual relationship you have once you meet in person. Many guys report feeling worse when they rejected by an online love than if they got rejected by a woman they met briefly in a bar.

Most women use online dating to boost their self-esteem, so they are more confident when they meet guys in person. The check their online dating accounts before going out on the town to see all the adoring messages from guys (sometimes 100s of messages per day). Most guys say the same thing, “Hi, you’re beautiful – I’d like to get to know you” and boring stuff like that.

Online dating has to be one of the slowest ways to get a girlfriend when compared to just walking up to women in bars, shopping malls, etc and starting a conversation. Online dating relationships tend to take many months to build up, whereas you can get a phone number in one minute by walking up and talking to a woman in person. If you fear approaching women, watch this free video on how to overcome any fears or anxiety you might feel before walking up.

Going on a date

If you do decide to use online dating and score a date in the real world, make sure you take proper precautions so you aren’t stuck on a date with an overweight woman or a psycho chick. Choose a public place with lots of people and plan for it to be a quick initial visit such as meeting for drinks, lunch, coffee or some other arrangement that will allow you to make a graceful and speedy exit if necessary. You don’t want to spend several hours at dinner with a woman that you have no real chemistry with. On the other hand, if you’re enjoying yourself, you can always extend the time of your date.

Online dating can be a great way to meet women as long as you don’t substitute online dating for the real thing. The best way to use it is in combination with actually going out on weekends and talking to women in bars. Talking to women in bars is the fastest way to improve your conversation skills with women as well as your confidence. Women EXPECT to be approached in bars and they WANT it. You are doing them a favor by approaching and talking to them, so don’t ever feel bad about it in anyway.

Sex Tourism

Sex Tourism

Sex tourism is the act of traveling to another location for the purpose of having sex with prostitutes. There are many countries known for this, including but not limited to Costa Rica, Thailand, Cambodia and Kenya. Las Vegas is a popular sex tourism location in the USA because prostitution is regulated by the state.

France's culture minister, Frederic Mitterrand, wrote about his sex tourism adventures in Thailand in his autobiography, "The Bad Life". Frederic sparked a controversy after he wrote about sleeping with young boys on his trips abroad while lamenting about the atrocities of human traficking. Unlike the regulated sex industry of Las Vegas, Thailand depends on slavery and human trafficking to fuel its prostitution profits. The Thai government has been working with western countries such as the United States to alleviate the problem.

The sex tourism industry of Costa Rica is composed of more willing sex workers than in some other countries. Like Las Vegas, Costa Rica regulates the sex industry as an alternative to prohibition. Unemployed mothers often sell their bodies in cities to feed their kids and send them to college. The demand for such jobs skyrocketed after the global economy sunk in 2008. Thousands of women from neighboring countries moved to Costa Rica to cash in on the sex tourism trade. By 2010, there was a shortage of sex tourists to help them pay their bills as the market became saturated.

The child sex tourism industry is alive and well in Kenya, where the government officially denies that the industry exists. Mombasa is a major tourist destination in Kenya, especially for men looking for young boys to sleep with. The poor kids in Mombasa are usually bribed by pimps to prostitute themselves. Some bars even allow these kids to drink despite underage drinking laws. Officials rarely enforce such laws. To them, the leniency boosts the economy. Mombasa once had a thriving economy due to normal tourism. After a violent election and a sunken economy, this once thriving city turned to sex tourism to keep from going bankrupt.

How To Get A Girl In The Mood

How To Get A Girl In The Mood

So you just called that hot girl from the dog park and she agreed to a third dinner date tonight, and now you’re wondering how to get a girl in the mood. Depending on her personality, this may be a lot easier than you’re thinking. Here are a few tips to get you closer to your goal.

Don’t be pushy. If your aim is to get a girl in the mood, it’s very important that you don’t allow yourself to come across as being pushy. If you can’t hold a normal conversation without constantly hinting at having sex, you’re never going to get any. Same rule applies to being overly touchy. If you want to get a girl in the mood frequently touching her with no reason at all is going to sabotage your plan for fun.

Compliment her. Everyone loves a good compliment, especially women. Although, the type of compliments you offer can make or break how successful you are. Make sure you’re listening to what she has to say, and compliment her on achievements and other things that are not necessarily visibly noticeable. Try to stay away from compliments that are geared toward how she is looking. Unless your date is incredibly shallow, telling her that you adore her dress is not the way to get a girl in the mood.

Create a romantic atmosphere. Romantic is in the eye of the beholder- for some, a romantic night out is the characteristic expensive dinner date with wine. Although, others may find that a cozy night sitting in front of a warm fire is more to their liking. If you have already gotten this far into the relationship as wanting to know how to get a girl in the mood, you should already have gotten the gist of what her personality type is.

Just go for it! After you’ve done your best at not being overly zealous, taken the time to compliment her and worked at creating the right atmosphere, just go for it! Try initiating it with a sensual shoulder rub or by deepening a kiss. Regardless of how you decide to initiate some further intimate fun, just remember not to be hesitant. Women like a man that knows what he wants and doesn’t waste time beating around the bush. If you have already been successful in your attempts to get a girl in the mood, she’ll more than likely let you know about it by reciprocating!

There are many different ways to get a girl in the mood. Most of them depend entirely on her personality and of course how fast you are trying to move. The best piece of advice you can follow is to just give it a try! The worst that can happen is she tells you that she isn’t ready to move that far yet.

How To Attract Married Women

How To Attract Married Women

If you would like to meet a woman, but do not want to deal with the hassle of commitment, then follow these steps and learn how to attract married women. While some may consider it wrong to try to attract married women, it is really just a simple way of satisfying both your needs and that of the woman, without the burden of a long-term relationship.

To attract married women, follow these simple steps:

To attract married women, you will have to consider what may be missing in her marital relationship. Most women report that they miss the excitement and passion of dating, and that they would like to receive more compliments from their husband. That is where you come in. In order to attract married women, you have to be the one to give her what she is missing at home. Smother her with compliments and praise. For example, tell her that she is beautiful, comment on her hairstyle, or marvel at what a graceful walk she has. Or, if you feel bold, let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Even if she does not act right away, she will be thinking about the things you've said.

Become her confidante. If you are already on friendly terms with the woman, you can spend quality time listening to her problems, and offer advice on how she can improve her relationship. Women are attracted to men that can sympathize with their problems, and they are naturally drawn to men that offer solutions. By being the strong man that she turns to when she is feeling down, she will come to see you as a sexual being.

Remember that women are very emotional creatures. By tuning in to their emotions, and opening up a sensitive side of yourself, you can learn how to attract married women. Most women have extramarital affairs because they feel unfulfilled and under appreciated at home, thus, if YOU can make her feel good about herself, that may be the only thing you'll need to do to attract her.

If a woman is satisfied at home, there will be no need for her to look to the comfort of another man. Thus, don't feel guilty for wanting to learn how to attract married women. You will only be helping an otherwise lonely woman.

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Get One Night Sands With Young Girls In Bars And Clubs

10 Tips To Get One Night Sands With Young Girls In Bars And Clubs
Here’s 10 awesome tips to increase the number of one night stands you’re getting.

Tip #1 – Let Go Of Judging Women
Let go of judging women. Just let go of it. There are no tens. There are no nines. There are no eights. There are no sevens. Just women talking, women dancing, women being women in the background of your musical kaleidoscope of many colors as you smile of the wide smile. They’re just there as part of the show, part of your movie. But you don’t judge them. You don’t rank them. It’s not that important.




Tip #2 – Drop Your “A – Game”
Drop all game. Clear your mind of all canned routines, all canned pick up lines, and all tactics. No game at all. Just relax, smile and let everything go.


Tip #3 – Quit Thinking Ahead
If you want more one night sands, quit thinking ahead. Be dumb. Be a moron. Like a dumb little kid who can’t plan ahead. But be like a child who’s fascinated by music and colors. Being like a child who’s fascinated with his own self amusement. Your head should have nothing, and your body should have a good feeling watching your own movie and smiling ear to ear.


Tip #4 – Relinquish Control

Relinquish control. Just let it go. Don’t try to control anything in the environment. Don’t try to control getting indicators of interest. Don’t try to control how you look. Don’t try to control how you come across to anyone. Don’t try to control your emotions. Don’t try to control your fun. Don’t try to control the situation in any way.

Just trust. Trust that by standing there like a champ, that by smiling, and that by watching the fun of the kaleidoscope, that this ease your purpose and that’s all you need to do. Nothing more needs to be done. So just relax into the exercise and nothing more. Just let everything else go and relax.


Tip #5 – Drop Perfection

If you want one night stands, drop perfection. Just relax. Embrace all of your faults, whether you’re fat or skinny, or broke, or balding, or you don’t feel you’re an awesome conversationalist, or whatever it is. Just accept and embrace all of your imperfections and let go of it all and don’t try to fix anything. As long as you smile and stand like a champ that’s all you need to do. That’s perfect as it is.


Tip #6 – Let go of Negative thoughts
And if you have any negative thoughts, let them go. That’s something you’re choosing and you can choose otherwise.

That which is passed, has passed. Don’t bother about it. Don’t carry it as a burden. Otherwise the past will come into the present and destroy all the fun.

To give attention to the past, or to resist the current moment, or to think negative thoughts, is to play with the wound. And when you play with the wound it starts to bleed.

In the past and negative thoughts corrupts you because he gives you expectations. You become thoughtful, but not fun. You become cunning, but you’re not intelligent.

In memory is a dead thing. Memory is not the truth and cannot ever be the truth, because the truth is always in the present. The truth is the kaleidoscope. Memory is only the persistence of that which is no more. Everything he know of the past is already gone. It is part of the graveyard.

So if you have any negative thoughts at all just relax and let them go. Again, that’s something you’re choosing and you can choose otherwise. Just relax, let go, enjoy the show, smile, and stand like a champ, and you’re golden.


Tip #7 – Don’t Resist The Situation

And don’t resist the situation. Go with the flow. Everything is cool and fun to you, you’re just enjoying the music and the lights and the show. It doesn’t matter how loud the music is. It doesn’t matter what kind of people are there. It doesn’t matter what time it is. None of these small details matter.

Don’t go against the current of existence. Don’t be that guy going upstream fighting the river. Nothing that exists is against you.

Just have a total acceptance of what is in front of the. Accept the moment you are in. Accept the moment of what’s happening right now and enjoy it. It just is what it is.

No girls there? Just laugh and watch the colors. Someone bumps into you? Just laugh and watch the colors. You’re tired? Just laugh and watch the colors.

Simply enjoy being there. The moment is enough and you’re not going anywhere. Be present and be in the moment. Like that child.


Tip #8 – Don’t Seek Her Permission

And this is the most difficult. And that’s to drop all permission seeking. You have permission to stand like a champ. You have permission to have a huge dumb smile on your face. A big smile from ear to ear. You have permission to have your own fun.

So stop caring about what other people think. That’s permission seeking. And just funking do the exercise. Even if it feels uncomfortable at first, and it very well may. Just keep on smiling in your mind will naturally let go of the permission seeking and naturally free itself all on its own.

And remember, you’re not doing this to impress anyone. You’re not smiling to attract the girls. You’re not standing like a champ to get indicators of interest. So don’t be looking for any indicators of interest. Don’t be looking to see if any girls are looking your way. You’re not doing this to make them like you. You’re not doing this to make them except you. This exercise is for you and your mental health alone.


Tip #9 – Drop Your Rules For Being Happy And Having Fun

So you want to meet girls for one night sands. But I mean why not, for no reason, just feel happy right now? What’s stopping you?

No matter where you are, you can generate a cheeky happy smile inside in under a second, no matter what you’re doing. You can create fun from absolutely nothing. You can create loads of fun just by amusing yourself.

You see we have too many rules about when we can feel happy. The conventional thinking goes, “well, when I’m in my sweet spot, yet I can be happy, but when the rest of my life occurs, I have to be normal.”

More people think, they have this rule, “I can be happy, but only when I’m talking to girls.” Or they think, “I can be happy only when I have the approval of girls. They’re laughing at my jokes.”

So we live in a results oriented, goal oriented, desirous, grasping framework where we think, “things should be like XY and Z. and then, and only then, will I be happy. If they are not like exactly XY and Z. then I’m going to be normal are unhappy.”

But here’s the thing. Girls are attracted to positive guys who aren’t dependent on a girl to make them happy. Women want a guy who is positive on his own. After all you don’t want to meet a girl that’s depressed all the time, or just feels blah, unless you’re making her laugh. You want to meet a woman who is perpetually bubbly and positive and happy most of the time. That’s a quality that you want in a quality woman.

And being positive yourself is a prime contractor to women, and the foundation to being able to take action. So you should be able to be happy and positive alone and even for no reason, and not just when you get approval or positive reaction from girls.

Yes, you can feel fun and joy without a hot girl on your arm and without even speaking to anyone. It may seem impossible — how can you feel the party vibe and be smiling and happy and excited at a social party without having girls or friends to talk to?

Then again, you can play sports without a bench of cheering fans can’t you?

You can sing while walking down the street without an audience, can’t you?

So why can’t you enjoy yourself at a party having your own fun, without the attention of a girl?

Look, there’s no reason you can’t be sitting alone in a room and not be radiating a great positive energy, feeling happy, for no particular reason.

The lesson is this — you should always be able to draw state from within yourself and not have to rely on the ever changing external environment to get your positive emotions. Because in a bar or club, or on the street, you could be talking and having a great conversation one moment, and the next moment you’re all by yourself. And if you’re drawing your state from the external environment, that’s going to be one hell of a roller coaster of constant ups and downs.

So you have to be the source of your own good emotions, regardless of what’s going on around you. You always remain positive under any circumstances, you always remain feeling happy and smiling. And you don’t change your state for anyone or anything.

Tip #10 – Drop Your Agenda And Stop Being Outcome-Dependent
You have to drop your agendas. You’re not out there to find your dream girl for. You’re not out there to get your Dick wet, even for a one night sand. You’re not out there to get indicators of interest or to be looking for approval from girls.

Because when you go out there with that based agendas, that’s how you kill the fun. When you go out there desiring, grasping, living in the future, a future which is a real, future which just leaves in your imagination, that comes into the present fun of the moment and destroys it. And you can’t enjoy the present moment where the party in the fun actually lives.

That desiring grasping mind burdens you. It disturbs you. And the thought-based mind is always wavering. it’s always doubting.

So he don’t want an agenda based, desiring mind. No, you have a kaleidoscope mind, a mind like a child’s, a child who giggles and laughs when an adult place peekaboo with them.

No agendas, you have no thoughts, you just let go and relax and enjoy a the color show, you enjoyed the music show. And you stand there tall like a champ with a big smile on your face, and just having loads of fun with it. Completely in the present moment.

And that’s called detaching from the outcome. And when your goal, when your outcome, is not in the future, when there is nothing to be achieved, when your only mission is to celebrate within the psychedelic pretty colors of the kaleidoscope and the music, you have already achieved just by being in the present moment. That is exactly what allows general anxiety to melt away because you’re no longer living in the future, you just surrender yourself to the present moment. And that’s where relaxation comes. That’s where the fun comes.

Because tension only arises when you are chasing something. Tension only arises when you are assuming were expecting something. Where is relaxation and fun arises when you are simply allowing something in the immediate present to happen like watching the kaleidoscope.

Neither the past nor the future exists. All you have in your hands use the present. And when you live in the present unburdened by the past, unburdened by future agendas, that’s when you can smile and lived in the music and have fun – AND the one night stands will come to you.

When you abandon all expectations, when you abandon all grasping, when you abandon all resistance to the present moment, you will have fun.

That doesn’t mean you stop moving. But the moving will be toward a future, exactly. The moving will be as series of nows, each with a direction, but not so attached to a destination that the fun and beauty of the present moment is lost. You just let each moment of enjoying the miraculous dancing colors of the kaleidoscope to be as fun and as for filling and as ordinary as the next. And the one night sands with cute girls will come.

Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

The fact is, any red-blooded 85 year old man would make love to a teenage, 18 year-old girl if given half the chance and given her blessing.

And yes, it’s perfectly NORMAL to desire far younger women.

Any guy who says, “Oh I wouldn’t ever sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way.

Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women.

And women are most sexually fertile when they hit puberty at around age 14, and continuing into their early 20s.

As a man, you’re programmed over millions of years to be attracted to young women coming right into puberty, with their budding breasts and widening hips.

And most men, regardless of their age, are exclusively attracted to younger women.

You’re not going to see Hugh Hefner cavorting with 40 year olds, even though he’s over 80.

So it doesn’t make you “bad” or “creepy” to desire far younger women. Men have always secretly desired very young women and they always will, regardless of what others think of it.

Yet many will label an older man “a pervert” for even admitting he’s attracted to younger girls.

That’s ridiculous.

Advertisers rub hyper-sexualized, young women into our faces non-stop to sell products, and then society tells us it’s wrong and shameful to admit our desire for them.

If 18 year-old girls were attractive back when you were 18, why wouldn’t you still be attracted to them because you’re 40? Or 60? …or 80!

So ignore those who think there’s something wrong with being sexually attracted to younger women, even ‘barely legal’ women. It’s both natural and normal to sexually desire them, and you shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your natural desires as a man.

Instead, EMBRACE your God-given sexual desires and embrace your male sexuality. Make no apologies to anyone for it!

What Younger Girls Really Think About Older Men

And here’s why, as an older man, you can actually pick up younger women, far younger women like 15 or even 25 years younger than yourself, and why women actually like, and in many cases are looking for, older men.

Or when if you’re a younger guy, say 25 and you are attracted to that 18 year old hottie, you shouldn’t be self-conscious about going for her, or even if you’re 35 or 45 you can make it work.

In fact, it’s very normal for hot young girls to date older guys. And most women are dating or are married to older guys, and sometimes much older guys. This is fact. This is reality.

Because the attraction switches are different for women than it is for men. We’re looking for youth, appearance, looks in women. But women are attracted to a myriad of factors. They’re looking for a guy you leads, who can get physical with them which means your confident, and they’re looking for indications of status and power.

And looking older, particularly if you are still eating healthy and you workout and look halfway decent, is an indication to women of status and power. Age indicates maturity and decision making ability. And women are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability, and emotional maturity.

And every woman’s secret wish is to be taken care of. I don’t mean just economically, but to find a guy that unconditionally loves her, is faithful to her, gives her attention, and is dedicated to her and making the relationship playful, fun, and make it work.

And that’s not something most younger guys are really in a position to do. Younger guys are still sleeping around, aren’t faithful, aren’t into self-development or figuring out how to make relationships work. So most young girls are very disappointed in their relationships with young men. It’s full of drama and disappointment.

And these young girls feel an older man won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.

Why Young Girls Are Easier

And most older guys who are say 25 to 50 years old think of younger women as being age 25 to 30 or so. But actually, the very, very younger girls like ages 18 to 22 are sometimes the MOST attractive to older men.

In fact, a girl in her early 20’s is often easier to game than a girl in her late 20’s or early 30’s.

Because a 21 year old girl is just out to have fun, she’s looking to have new experience, and dating a much older man is just another one of those experiences she’s looking to have. She’s in that experimental age and she wants to explore.

But by the time a woman hits 30 and she’s still single, she’s feeling that biological clock ticking. They feel the pressure that they’re not so young anymore and that their beauty is fading. A woman is 29 or 30 or 31 is looking more for a man who’s closer to her own age because she’s more desperate now to settle down and get married and have kids.

So actually, if you’re an in-shape 45 year old, you can actually get more interest in many case from a woman who is 21, as opposed to a woman who is 31 who feels her youth slipping away and is more resistant to older men.

And as far as the younger girls, you know some of these girls ONLY want a guy their own age.

BUT these girls tend to not be as feminine and have lower sex drives. The more sexually open, sexually driven, crazy-for-experimentation driven, and hyper feminine and sexual girls tend to go for older men and bad boys. They tend to like older guys, and that type of young girls also is much better in bed.

So usually you have better luck with the more feminine, hyper sexual girls than the young girl who is more frumpy and unfeminine.



Older Men Are Better For Younger Women

And really, objectively, younger women are generally better off with older men.

You’ve got more to offer her. Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, more varied sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed.

In fact, studies show that the relationships that last, and marriages that are least likely to end in divorce, is when the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man. When the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man, relationships tend to be more stable.

So if you’re an older guy, and you take care of yourself physically, you’ve actually got some big advantages when it comes to getting far younger girls and you’re most likely a better fit for a younger girl than a boy her own age.

So don’t feel shy or shameful about desiring or seeking out younger women, it’s perfectly natural, good for you, and good for the girls too.


Older Guys – Avoid Being The “Nice Guy”!
 
Older guys especially get wrapped up in doing “Nice guy game” with younger women.

Nice guy game is looking for indicators of interest from the girl before you’ll talk to her or move forward.

Nice guy game is looking for permission to do anything with the girl.

Nice guy game is being too much of a sweet, sweet grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl.

Nice guy game is all light conversation, asking her questions, but there’s very little conversational leading or getting physical or touching the girl.

Nice guy game is all about reacting to the girl instead of physically leading the girl, or leading the conversation.

Nice guy game is all about trying to impress the girl by not doing anything wrong, instead of not giving a fuck what the girl thinks.

Nice guy game is all about being super friendly with a big smile on your face… but in a supplicating, kiss-her-ass kind of way.

And that’s the problem with older guys in particular, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational but not physical, they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.

And they’re just that nice older man to talk to, but ultimately kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like their Dad and not enough like a bad boy.

Basically, you have to run the same game at 35, at age 45, at age 55, at age 65, as if you were the bad boy kid at age 25. The game doesn’t change based on your age when you’re hitting younger girls.

And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue.

You’re not going to find any lines or outer game routines that makes it okay for you to approach younger girls. It’s all core attitude, beliefs, entitlement, vibe, and manhood that attracts both younger women and older women to you.

Don’t look for IOIs either

Particularly this waiting for permission or waiting for IOIs (“Indicators Of Interest” )from the younger girl will just sink you completely.

And that’s because, although younger women are attracted to older guys for what they can provide, like more maturity and experience and status and power, younger girls will generally NOT approach you or give you indicators of interest of permission. They make you do ALL the work.

And that’s because what holds a younger woman back, is not what she thinks of you being an older man, but fear of judgment from her friends and peers.

In the same way women fear being labeled sluts if they like to have sex, so they don’t act overtly sexual, they don’t want to be labeled negatively by their friends if they blatantly go after an older man by giving him all sorts of IOI signals to come on over.

So younger girls will generally HIDE their interest from older men for fear of being judged, even though it’s something they’d secretly like to try.

That’s why, as an older man, the ball is completely in YOUR court to go up and talk to the girl, to lead the conversation, and to lead her physically because the much younger girl will in general do nothing to help you. It’s all on you, and being the super nice guy, waiting for permission, light conversation man will generally get you nowhere with younger women.