Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide
The fact is, any red-blooded 85 year old man would make love to a teenage, 18 year-old girl if given half the chance and given her blessing.
And yes, it’s perfectly NORMAL to desire far younger women.
Any guy who says, “Oh I wouldn’t ever sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way.
Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women.
And women are most sexually fertile when they hit puberty at around age 14, and continuing into their early 20s.
As a man, you’re programmed over millions of years to be attracted to young women coming right into puberty, with their budding breasts and widening hips.
And most men, regardless of their age, are exclusively attracted to younger women.
You’re not going to see Hugh Hefner cavorting with 40 year olds, even though he’s over 80.
So it doesn’t make you “bad” or “creepy” to desire far younger women. Men have always secretly desired very young women and they always will, regardless of what others think of it.
Yet many will label an older man “a pervert” for even admitting he’s attracted to younger girls.
That’s ridiculous.
Advertisers rub hyper-sexualized, young women into our faces non-stop to sell products, and then society tells us it’s wrong and shameful to admit our desire for them.
If 18 year-old girls were attractive back when you were 18, why wouldn’t you still be attracted to them because you’re 40? Or 60? …or 80!
So ignore those who think there’s something wrong with being sexually attracted to younger women, even ‘barely legal’ women. It’s both natural and normal to sexually desire them, and you shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your natural desires as a man.
Instead, EMBRACE your God-given sexual desires and embrace your male sexuality. Make no apologies to anyone for it!
What Younger Girls Really Think About Older Men
And here’s why, as an older man, you can actually pick up younger women, far younger women like 15 or even 25 years younger than yourself, and why women actually like, and in many cases are looking for, older men.
Or when if you’re a younger guy, say 25 and you are attracted to that 18 year old hottie, you shouldn’t be self-conscious about going for her, or even if you’re 35 or 45 you can make it work.
In fact, it’s very normal for hot young girls to date older guys. And most women are dating or are married to older guys, and sometimes much older guys. This is fact. This is reality.
Because the attraction switches are different for women than it is for men. We’re looking for youth, appearance, looks in women. But women are attracted to a myriad of factors. They’re looking for a guy you leads, who can get physical with them which means your confident, and they’re looking for indications of status and power.
And looking older, particularly if you are still eating healthy and you workout and look halfway decent, is an indication to women of status and power. Age indicates maturity and decision making ability. And women are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability, and emotional maturity.
And every woman’s secret wish is to be taken care of. I don’t mean just economically, but to find a guy that unconditionally loves her, is faithful to her, gives her attention, and is dedicated to her and making the relationship playful, fun, and make it work.
And that’s not something most younger guys are really in a position to do. Younger guys are still sleeping around, aren’t faithful, aren’t into self-development or figuring out how to make relationships work. So most young girls are very disappointed in their relationships with young men. It’s full of drama and disappointment.
And these young girls feel an older man won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.
Why Young Girls Are Easier
And most older guys who are say 25 to 50 years old think of younger women as being age 25 to 30 or so. But actually, the very, very younger girls like ages 18 to 22 are sometimes the MOST attractive to older men.
In fact, a girl in her early 20’s is often easier to game than a girl in her late 20’s or early 30’s.
Because a 21 year old girl is just out to have fun, she’s looking to have new experience, and dating a much older man is just another one of those experiences she’s looking to have. She’s in that experimental age and she wants to explore.
But by the time a woman hits 30 and she’s still single, she’s feeling that biological clock ticking. They feel the pressure that they’re not so young anymore and that their beauty is fading. A woman is 29 or 30 or 31 is looking more for a man who’s closer to her own age because she’s more desperate now to settle down and get married and have kids.
So actually, if you’re an in-shape 45 year old, you can actually get more interest in many case from a woman who is 21, as opposed to a woman who is 31 who feels her youth slipping away and is more resistant to older men.
And as far as the younger girls, you know some of these girls ONLY want a guy their own age.
BUT these girls tend to not be as feminine and have lower sex drives. The more sexually open, sexually driven, crazy-for-experimentation driven, and hyper feminine and sexual girls tend to go for older men and bad boys. They tend to like older guys, and that type of young girls also is much better in bed.
So usually you have better luck with the more feminine, hyper sexual girls than the young girl who is more frumpy and unfeminine.
Older Men Are Better For Younger Women
And really, objectively, younger women are generally better off with older men.
You’ve got more to offer her. Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, more varied sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed.
In fact, studies show that the relationships that last, and marriages that are least likely to end in divorce, is when the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man. When the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man, relationships tend to be more stable.
So if you’re an older guy, and you take care of yourself physically, you’ve actually got some big advantages when it comes to getting far younger girls and you’re most likely a better fit for a younger girl than a boy her own age.
So don’t feel shy or shameful about desiring or seeking out younger women, it’s perfectly natural, good for you, and good for the girls too.
Older Guys – Avoid Being The “Nice Guy”!
Older guys especially get wrapped up in doing “Nice guy game” with younger women.
Nice guy game is looking for indicators of interest from the girl before you’ll talk to her or move forward.
Nice guy game is looking for permission to do anything with the girl.
Nice guy game is being too much of a sweet, sweet grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl.
Nice guy game is all light conversation, asking her questions, but there’s very little conversational leading or getting physical or touching the girl.
Nice guy game is all about reacting to the girl instead of physically leading the girl, or leading the conversation.
Nice guy game is all about trying to impress the girl by not doing anything wrong, instead of not giving a fuck what the girl thinks.
Nice guy game is all about being super friendly with a big smile on your face… but in a supplicating, kiss-her-ass kind of way.
And that’s the problem with older guys in particular, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational but not physical, they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.
And they’re just that nice older man to talk to, but ultimately kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like their Dad and not enough like a bad boy.
Basically, you have to run the same game at 35, at age 45, at age 55, at age 65, as if you were the bad boy kid at age 25. The game doesn’t change based on your age when you’re hitting younger girls.
And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue.
You’re not going to find any lines or outer game routines that makes it okay for you to approach younger girls. It’s all core attitude, beliefs, entitlement, vibe, and manhood that attracts both younger women and older women to you.
Don’t look for IOIs either
Particularly this waiting for permission or waiting for IOIs (“Indicators Of Interest” )from the younger girl will just sink you completely.
And that’s because, although younger women are attracted to older guys for what they can provide, like more maturity and experience and status and power, younger girls will generally NOT approach you or give you indicators of interest of permission. They make you do ALL the work.
And that’s because what holds a younger woman back, is not what she thinks of you being an older man, but fear of judgment from her friends and peers.
In the same way women fear being labeled sluts if they like to have sex, so they don’t act overtly sexual, they don’t want to be labeled negatively by their friends if they blatantly go after an older man by giving him all sorts of IOI signals to come on over.
So younger girls will generally HIDE their interest from older men for fear of being judged, even though it’s something they’d secretly like to try.
That’s why, as an older man, the ball is completely in YOUR court to go up and talk to the girl, to lead the conversation, and to lead her physically because the much younger girl will in general do nothing to help you. It’s all on you, and being the super nice guy, waiting for permission, light conversation man will generally get you nowhere with younger women.
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Friday, July 6, 2012
My 5 Essential Rules For Finding Happiness – The Easy Way!
My 5 Essential Rules For Finding Happiness – The Easy Way!
I want to give you five essential rules I like to live by for having happiness. These five points guide a lot of my habits and thinking and they work – so listen up amigo!
Rule #1. Seek Feeling Arousal
Guys have different objectives. Some guys their objective is to find a girlfriend. Other guys want to find a soul mate. Other guys want to fuck 100 girls. Other guys want to fuck 10 girls and then get a girlfriend. Other guys want a threesome with two girlfriends. Some guys want validation from women, to be liked by women in general. Other guys want a blonde, or an Asian, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever.
So we pursue one of these goals in the pursuit of sexual happiness or a sexual satisfaction.
However, my argument here is that they’re all slightly off goals in a way if you’re seeking maximum sexual happiness.
The secret to living a fulfilling happy life for a man is, instead of chasing a type of woman or a type of relationship, what you should instead seek is arousal.
Creating arousal in yourself and creating arousal in women.
You’re going to feel the most satisfaction when you’re feeling increasingly aroused or creating arousal.
Examples of Arousal
For instance, let’s say that your next door neighbor is a 45 year old woman, and you’re not particularly attracted to her. But if she goes out of her way to seduce you, like show up at your door dressed in high heels and lingerie, and she’s wild in bed – that will arouse you. And you’ll have an awesome time and an awesome experience, even if she isn’t “your type”.
Or if you’re at a club, and you meet this girl that you would rate a 7 out of 10… let’s say cute, but nothing special… if she falls head over heels for you, and starts making sexual advances on you, that will arouse you and you’ll start liking her a whole lost more. You’ll experience a lot of happiness.
Or seeing a girl walking down the street in high heels and a tiny dress… that can arouse you. You suddenly feel pumped up, alive, energetic.
In all 3 cases, it’s sexual arousal that brings what I would call “happiness”.
Arousal at its most basic level would be taking interest in someone, then feeling stimulated or excited, feeling a connection with someone, and at a higher level would be physical arousal and feeling turned on.
That’s why I really like clubs and bars. There’s lots of opportunities for creating arousal in women and feeling arousal yourself, particularly physical arousal.
You can meet many women quickly and get physical and feel that arousal of connection and physicality, even if the girl you meet is, on the surface, quite average looking or no model.
And that arousal, I believe, to a man, is the root of happiness, feeling that arousal is the highlight of the day.
Same with having a new girlfriend. You meet a girl, and early on in the relationship and she sexually arouses you. You want to bang her silly every day. Being sexually aroused, stimulated, excited gives you that “being in love feeling” and sexual arousal and pleasure, and that’s when we feel most happy.
Indeed, in surveys people report that they’re most happy when having sex – the height of being aroused.
Now, the problem with long-term relationships is that after a year, you can typically get bored fucking the same girl day after day, she doesn’t turn you on like she used to, and you start to miss all the girls you could be meeting. What you’re really missing however, is that feeling of arousal… feeling aroused yourself, and the joy of creating arousal in women, that mutual arousal.
So you start longing to meet new women, for the fun of the hunt, for the fun of having sex with a new girl.
So, my recommendation is, instead of looking for a girlfriend, a soulmate, or looking for a particular type of girl like an Asian girl, a blonde, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever you tend to like – think about happiness in terms of creating AROUSAL both in yourself and the girl.
It’s actually that sexual arousal vibe that will bring you happiness and good feelings, independent of whether you’re in a relationship or not, independent of the physical characteristics of the girl.
In other words, just be creating arousal in women in bars and clubs, even on very average-looking girls, anywhere in the world you are, you can have a lot of fun. You DON’T need to be chasing a particular kind of woman of relationship to be happy.
Rule #2. The “Testosterone Buzz”
I call it the “testosterone buzz”, or having the “sledgehammer arms”.
One of the best feelings in the world is having a low-level testosterone buzz that makes you feel manly, energetic, and young. It’s something you had naturally as a teen, but lose quickly in your 20s.
So what I do is I hit the gym and hit the gym HARD. By working out fast and hard, I get this awesome, completely natural, testosterone rush or “buzz” that I can keep through the day which keeps me feeling energetic, enthusiastic, motivated, masculine, and sexual.
I also call it getting “sledgehammer arms” too because when I work out consistently and workout hard, I feel as if my arms are two huge sledgehammers that could break through a concrete sidewalk if I felt like pounding it apart.
And note it’s a gut *feeling* and not a physical characteristic of my arms – the feeling can come and go.
But a testosterone buzz can make you feel like a giant walking cock, as if a girl alone with you is in danger of being roughly fucked without mercy.
Now, lifting heavy weights and eating clean is KEY to my game.
Besides looking good and buff, working out makes me feel alpha, dominant, action-taking, and generally not giving a FUCK.
So instead of trolling around looking for permission to talk to a girl, I step up, naturally.
Getting ogled, stared down, eye-fucked, approached, and complimented by girls doesn’t hurt either. It feeds and fuels your narcissistic fire and deservedness.
The gym also fuels a champ posture. Looking in the mirror a lot and having all that blood rush through your body while pounding the weights makes a guy stand up straight and proud like a Superman. You walk like a King. And girls notice that – and notice BIG.
So yes, I love the buzz high the gym brings, and how the girls react with their wide-eyed “splay my legs and raw-dog penetrate my pussy” look.
Rule #3. Indulging All Your Sexual Fantasies With Women
The testosterone buzz from hitting weights like an athlete also fuels a man’s drive for hot, rough and wild sex.
Instead of “connecting” with a girl, you’re driven to simply bang her wet dripping pussy, into multiple O’s.
It fuels sexual fetishes, like having the girl dress herself in sparkling or bright stiletto heels and a super short micro mini-skirt to show off her legs and manicured pink nails.
And taking her out in public or to a hotel room and give her rough, nasty sex while talking dirty to her, or having her talk filthy back.
Rule #4. The Giddy Freedom Of An Anti-Girlfriend Nihilism
99% of men who get into pickup are “nice guys”, who want to find a “nice girl” that will “like them back”, and get a girlfriend … and be done with it.
Even the “players” and “PUAs” secretly just want to find a “steady girlfriend” or a “Perfect 10” or “soul mate” and drop out of meeting girls.
But there’s WAY too much variety out there, and it’s never been better to be a single man!
I call this particular approach “anti-girlfriend nihilism.”
This means no desiring of a girlfriend, on any level, for any reason, whatsoever!
According to this frame, women have one role – to fulfill a man’s sexual fantasies. Nothing more, and nothing less.
What’s more, being an unrepentant sexual carnivore takes a HUGE weight OFF of a man’s shoulders. It means you can chase down and fuck ANY girl, plain or pretty, as there’s NO chance it will ever be taken further.
It means you have NO fear and NO outcome dependence, because even if you met your “perfect girl”, you’re not invested in how it turns out anyway.
And since you’re not “searching” for anything, you actually get GIDDY on a daily basis… that the world is your oyster and ALL women are fair game!
So when I hit up a city, my attitude is that I’ll indiscriminately bang my way through the entire town.
P.S. It doesn’t mean you CAN’T have a girlfriend, but you DO need to be free from the outcome of trying to impress her, win her favor, or make her like you.
Rule #5. Every Day Free From Bullshit, Drama, and Time-Busters
Most guys fill up their life with time-consuming drama and bullshit. As Anthony Robbins says, “Most people major in the minor things of life.”
A guy buys a new car and he’s now a slave to his job to make the payments.
Or a guy is worried about how to approach girls “correctly” and instead dicks around the issue for years.
Or a guy watches the entire 100 hours of “Heroes” or whatever.
It’s even worse when you get a girlfriend.
Most guys want girlfriends – not just for the sex – but because they’re bored with themselves. They need something to do, like dote on a girl’s “needs”.
So instead of frittering away his time, he begins frittering away his time on the girl.
Girlfriend wants you to drive her here and there. Girlfriend wants you to hang with her friends. Girlfriend wants to watch lame movie. Whatever – it’s typically endless. And guy loses his time playing provider for his time-sucker vampire girlfriend.
No way.
If I’m not doing what I love – getting outdoors, working out, meeting girls, or having kinky sex with them – all fun, relaxing, and pleasurable for me – I’ll have nothing to do with it.
So my anti-girlfriend nihilism keeps my time my own – and free from the usual time constraints 99% of other guys have.
That’s my core philosophy… five great rules to live by. Give it a try.
I want to give you five essential rules I like to live by for having happiness. These five points guide a lot of my habits and thinking and they work – so listen up amigo!
Rule #1. Seek Feeling Arousal
Guys have different objectives. Some guys their objective is to find a girlfriend. Other guys want to find a soul mate. Other guys want to fuck 100 girls. Other guys want to fuck 10 girls and then get a girlfriend. Other guys want a threesome with two girlfriends. Some guys want validation from women, to be liked by women in general. Other guys want a blonde, or an Asian, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever.
So we pursue one of these goals in the pursuit of sexual happiness or a sexual satisfaction.
However, my argument here is that they’re all slightly off goals in a way if you’re seeking maximum sexual happiness.
The secret to living a fulfilling happy life for a man is, instead of chasing a type of woman or a type of relationship, what you should instead seek is arousal.
Creating arousal in yourself and creating arousal in women.
You’re going to feel the most satisfaction when you’re feeling increasingly aroused or creating arousal.
Examples of Arousal
For instance, let’s say that your next door neighbor is a 45 year old woman, and you’re not particularly attracted to her. But if she goes out of her way to seduce you, like show up at your door dressed in high heels and lingerie, and she’s wild in bed – that will arouse you. And you’ll have an awesome time and an awesome experience, even if she isn’t “your type”.
Or if you’re at a club, and you meet this girl that you would rate a 7 out of 10… let’s say cute, but nothing special… if she falls head over heels for you, and starts making sexual advances on you, that will arouse you and you’ll start liking her a whole lost more. You’ll experience a lot of happiness.
Or seeing a girl walking down the street in high heels and a tiny dress… that can arouse you. You suddenly feel pumped up, alive, energetic.
In all 3 cases, it’s sexual arousal that brings what I would call “happiness”.
Arousal at its most basic level would be taking interest in someone, then feeling stimulated or excited, feeling a connection with someone, and at a higher level would be physical arousal and feeling turned on.
That’s why I really like clubs and bars. There’s lots of opportunities for creating arousal in women and feeling arousal yourself, particularly physical arousal.
You can meet many women quickly and get physical and feel that arousal of connection and physicality, even if the girl you meet is, on the surface, quite average looking or no model.
And that arousal, I believe, to a man, is the root of happiness, feeling that arousal is the highlight of the day.
Same with having a new girlfriend. You meet a girl, and early on in the relationship and she sexually arouses you. You want to bang her silly every day. Being sexually aroused, stimulated, excited gives you that “being in love feeling” and sexual arousal and pleasure, and that’s when we feel most happy.
Indeed, in surveys people report that they’re most happy when having sex – the height of being aroused.
Now, the problem with long-term relationships is that after a year, you can typically get bored fucking the same girl day after day, she doesn’t turn you on like she used to, and you start to miss all the girls you could be meeting. What you’re really missing however, is that feeling of arousal… feeling aroused yourself, and the joy of creating arousal in women, that mutual arousal.
So you start longing to meet new women, for the fun of the hunt, for the fun of having sex with a new girl.
So, my recommendation is, instead of looking for a girlfriend, a soulmate, or looking for a particular type of girl like an Asian girl, a blonde, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever you tend to like – think about happiness in terms of creating AROUSAL both in yourself and the girl.
It’s actually that sexual arousal vibe that will bring you happiness and good feelings, independent of whether you’re in a relationship or not, independent of the physical characteristics of the girl.
In other words, just be creating arousal in women in bars and clubs, even on very average-looking girls, anywhere in the world you are, you can have a lot of fun. You DON’T need to be chasing a particular kind of woman of relationship to be happy.
Rule #2. The “Testosterone Buzz”
I call it the “testosterone buzz”, or having the “sledgehammer arms”.
One of the best feelings in the world is having a low-level testosterone buzz that makes you feel manly, energetic, and young. It’s something you had naturally as a teen, but lose quickly in your 20s.
So what I do is I hit the gym and hit the gym HARD. By working out fast and hard, I get this awesome, completely natural, testosterone rush or “buzz” that I can keep through the day which keeps me feeling energetic, enthusiastic, motivated, masculine, and sexual.
I also call it getting “sledgehammer arms” too because when I work out consistently and workout hard, I feel as if my arms are two huge sledgehammers that could break through a concrete sidewalk if I felt like pounding it apart.
And note it’s a gut *feeling* and not a physical characteristic of my arms – the feeling can come and go.
But a testosterone buzz can make you feel like a giant walking cock, as if a girl alone with you is in danger of being roughly fucked without mercy.
Now, lifting heavy weights and eating clean is KEY to my game.
Besides looking good and buff, working out makes me feel alpha, dominant, action-taking, and generally not giving a FUCK.
So instead of trolling around looking for permission to talk to a girl, I step up, naturally.
Getting ogled, stared down, eye-fucked, approached, and complimented by girls doesn’t hurt either. It feeds and fuels your narcissistic fire and deservedness.
The gym also fuels a champ posture. Looking in the mirror a lot and having all that blood rush through your body while pounding the weights makes a guy stand up straight and proud like a Superman. You walk like a King. And girls notice that – and notice BIG.
So yes, I love the buzz high the gym brings, and how the girls react with their wide-eyed “splay my legs and raw-dog penetrate my pussy” look.
Rule #3. Indulging All Your Sexual Fantasies With Women
The testosterone buzz from hitting weights like an athlete also fuels a man’s drive for hot, rough and wild sex.
Instead of “connecting” with a girl, you’re driven to simply bang her wet dripping pussy, into multiple O’s.
It fuels sexual fetishes, like having the girl dress herself in sparkling or bright stiletto heels and a super short micro mini-skirt to show off her legs and manicured pink nails.
And taking her out in public or to a hotel room and give her rough, nasty sex while talking dirty to her, or having her talk filthy back.
Rule #4. The Giddy Freedom Of An Anti-Girlfriend Nihilism
99% of men who get into pickup are “nice guys”, who want to find a “nice girl” that will “like them back”, and get a girlfriend … and be done with it.
Even the “players” and “PUAs” secretly just want to find a “steady girlfriend” or a “Perfect 10” or “soul mate” and drop out of meeting girls.
But there’s WAY too much variety out there, and it’s never been better to be a single man!
I call this particular approach “anti-girlfriend nihilism.”
This means no desiring of a girlfriend, on any level, for any reason, whatsoever!
According to this frame, women have one role – to fulfill a man’s sexual fantasies. Nothing more, and nothing less.
What’s more, being an unrepentant sexual carnivore takes a HUGE weight OFF of a man’s shoulders. It means you can chase down and fuck ANY girl, plain or pretty, as there’s NO chance it will ever be taken further.
It means you have NO fear and NO outcome dependence, because even if you met your “perfect girl”, you’re not invested in how it turns out anyway.
And since you’re not “searching” for anything, you actually get GIDDY on a daily basis… that the world is your oyster and ALL women are fair game!
So when I hit up a city, my attitude is that I’ll indiscriminately bang my way through the entire town.
P.S. It doesn’t mean you CAN’T have a girlfriend, but you DO need to be free from the outcome of trying to impress her, win her favor, or make her like you.
Rule #5. Every Day Free From Bullshit, Drama, and Time-Busters
Most guys fill up their life with time-consuming drama and bullshit. As Anthony Robbins says, “Most people major in the minor things of life.”
A guy buys a new car and he’s now a slave to his job to make the payments.
Or a guy is worried about how to approach girls “correctly” and instead dicks around the issue for years.
Or a guy watches the entire 100 hours of “Heroes” or whatever.
It’s even worse when you get a girlfriend.
Most guys want girlfriends – not just for the sex – but because they’re bored with themselves. They need something to do, like dote on a girl’s “needs”.
So instead of frittering away his time, he begins frittering away his time on the girl.
Girlfriend wants you to drive her here and there. Girlfriend wants you to hang with her friends. Girlfriend wants to watch lame movie. Whatever – it’s typically endless. And guy loses his time playing provider for his time-sucker vampire girlfriend.
No way.
If I’m not doing what I love – getting outdoors, working out, meeting girls, or having kinky sex with them – all fun, relaxing, and pleasurable for me – I’ll have nothing to do with it.
So my anti-girlfriend nihilism keeps my time my own – and free from the usual time constraints 99% of other guys have.
That’s my core philosophy… five great rules to live by. Give it a try.
Thursday, July 5, 2012
How to Make a Connection With a Woman
How to Make a Connection With a Woman
Men who are able to read the signals that women send out are less likely to be successful in getting dates than those who continue to misread these flirting signals. Truly, there are signals that spell a win for any guy who can sense it as soon as possible. Some guys, though, fall for the ploys that girls use to get free drinks from the men they reel in with smiles and fake interest.
To avoid falling prey to a woman’s charm and being taken for a ride without getting a single phone number back, you have to have the upper hand in any interaction with a woman. Read on for some more tips on how to do this.
1. Make her believe you understand her better than she thinks.
The effect of a cold reading can be scary and exciting for some women. It’s uncanny when a man can seem to read her after a few minutes of talking. She ends up thinking she might be too transparent, or you’re this superman who has x-ray vision and extra-sensory perception. Or, she could end up thinking you really are meant to be together, and meeting in the club like this is fate.
If you have her dancing to your tune and hanging on to every word you say, you can take it farther and tell her that you may be soul mates. Women are into those kinds of things.
When women are flustered by the ‘truth’ in your words, she either gets defensive or she opens up totally. Either way will work for you. Cold reading is a skill that requires you to think fast on your feet, and change your stories or predictions according to the woman’s reactions.
2. Push her buttons.
Teasing a girl you like should feel familiar; you’ve been doing this since you were in kindergarten. While there are many differences between pulling a girl’s pigtails when you were a lot younger and blatantly teasing a woman you just met, the principles behind these actions are similar.
The goal is to make her react, to challenge her, and to make her look at you in a different way. When you push a woman’s buttons, you get her attention and more importantly, you keep her hooked on you. Most women think of the interaction that ensues after a bout of teasing as ‘making a connection’, which is the most important thing in dating.
You don’t have to believe that skill in dating and picking up women comes only after you’ve dealt with rejection in every shape and form. Even if you’re new to dating, you can make a connection with a woman as long as you handle the interaction smoothly.
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