How Do I Convince My Girlfriend To Kiss A Girl ?

If the thought of two girls kissing makes you hot, then you will want to know how to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl. A lot of guys think that there is no chance that their girlfriend will kiss another girl, but the truth is many girls actually fantasize about kissing another girl. If you have the right strategy, then your chances of getting your girlfriend to kiss a girl are very high. Follow these simple steps if you want your fantasy to come true.

Talk about two girls you know who have kissed. Talking about other girls who have kissed can be a good start to convincing your girlfriend to kiss a girl. If you don't know any girls that have kissed, you can talk about girls on television that have kissed. Just casually mention that you think what you saw was very arousing. This will plant the seed in your girlfriend's heat that kissing a girl could be a hot experience.

Ask her what you can do to turn her on. If you really want to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl, then you will need to find out what turns your girlfriend on. Asking a girl what turns her on sexually will open the door for her to ask you about what turns you on. Many guys are surprised at what their girlfriends will do just because it turns their boyfriends on. You might even learn that the idea of kissing another girl is what turns your girlfriend on.

Make her feel confidant about your relationship. Many girls won't kiss another girl because they feel their boyfriend might like the girl they are kissing more than like them. To convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you are going to have to convince her that she is the most important person to you. Try telling her how beautiful she is and how she is the only girl for you; this will make her feel confident in your relationship. If she is totally confident in your relationship, then she will be more likely to kiss a girl for you.

Tell her you want to make her sexual fantasy come true. A good way to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl is to first tell her that you want to make one of her sexual fantasies come true. Once your girlfriend knows that you want to make her sexual fantasies come true, she is probably going to want to return the favor. She will be so grateful that you want to please her that she will probably do anything that she knows will please you sexually.

Don't try pressuring her into it kissing another girl. A lot of guys think that pressuring their girlfriend is the way to convince them to kiss another girl, but nothing could be further from the truth. The more a guy tries pressuring their girlfriend into kissing another girl, the more their girlfriend is going to resist the idea. Instead, tell your girlfriend that you would like her to kiss another girl, but you don't want to pressure her into it. Taking the pressure off of her will probably be enough to eventually get her to kiss another girl for you.

While these are the best steps to take to to get your girlfriend to kiss another girl, some girls just will not do it. Before trying to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you need to make sure that you will still want to be with your girlfriend even if she is never willing to kiss a girl for you.

How To Find Sex Partners

How To Find Sex Partners

Trying to figure out how to find sex partners? Who isn't? Sex partners can be tricky to find if you have no game whatsoever. What follows is a step-by-step tutorial that will enable even the lamest dude to find a sex partner.

The obvious way to find sex partners is to head to the internet. Thanks to an ultra-freaky culture in today's society, there are many sites that offer the chance to find a sex partner at little or no cost. 

These websites offer the opportunity to connect with other individuals seeking sex partners. A simple online search will turn up dozens in a matter of seconds. Simply sign up for a membership with the site, list all of your preferences, and start hunting down that perfect sex partner. But be careful! What you think you want may not always be in your best interest.

Another great way to find sex partners is to talk to your friends. Every person has some freak in her past that is willing to do all those crazy things you thought only existed within the covers of "Hustler." With any luck, your friends will be able to turn you on to some of their former sex partners that are perfectly willing to take on the challenge of having a sexual relationship with you.

Believe it or not, former sex partners are a great source for finding sex partners. Your ex-girlfriend or bedroom buddy knows what you like and will be able to match you with an acquaintance that will be the answer to all your sexual prayers. If you ended on good terms, give her a call.

For casual sexual encounters, a swing party will provide you with a number of sex partners. Swing parties can be found online with a simple search. Sign up for a party and jump right in. You can even bring a friend along if you are feeling a little shy.

With sex being discussed so openly these days, it is practically impossible not to find a willing sex partner. With good hygiene and a little self-confidence, you can easily find a sex partner.

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend To Kiss A Girl?

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend To Kiss A Girl?
If the thought of two girls kissing makes you hot, then you will want to know how to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl. A lot of guys think that there is no chance that their girlfriend will kiss another girl, but the truth is many girls actually fantasize about kissing another girl. If you have the right strategy, then your chances of getting your girlfriend to kiss a girl are very high. Follow these simple steps if you want your fantasy to come true.

Talk about two girls you know who have kissed. Talking about other girls who have kissed can be a good start to convincing your girlfriend to kiss a girl. If you don't know any girls that have kissed, you can talk about girls on television that have kissed. Just casually mention that you think what you saw was very arousing. This will plant the seed in your girlfriend's heat that kissing a girl could be a hot experience.

Ask her what you can do to turn her on. If you really want to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl, then you will need to find out what turns your girlfriend on. Asking a girl what turns her on sexually will open the door for her to ask you about what turns you on. Many guys are surprised at what their girlfriends will do just because it turns their boyfriends on. You might even learn that the idea of kissing another girl is what turns your girlfriend on.

Make her feel confidant about your relationship. Many girls won't kiss another girl because they feel their boyfriend might like the girl they are kissing more than like them. To convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you are going to have to convince her that she is the most important person to you. Try telling her how beautiful she is and how she is the only girl for you; this will make her feel confident in your relationship. If she is totally confident in your relationship, then she will be more likely to kiss a girl for you.

Tell her you want to make her sexual fantasy come true. A good way to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl is to first tell her that you want to make one of her sexual fantasies come true. Once your girlfriend knows that you want to make her sexual fantasies come true, she is probably going to want to return the favor. She will be so grateful that you want to please her that she will probably do anything that she knows will please you sexually.

Don't try pressuring her into it kissing another girl. A lot of guys think that pressuring their girlfriend is the way to convince them to kiss another girl, but nothing could be further from the truth. The more a guy tries pressuring their girlfriend into kissing another girl, the more their girlfriend is going to resist the idea. Instead, tell your girlfriend that you would like her to kiss another girl, but you don't want to pressure her into it. Taking the pressure off of her will probably be enough to eventually get her to kiss another girl for you.

While these are the best steps to take to to get your girlfriend to kiss another girl, some girls just will not do it. Before trying to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you need to make sure that you will still want to be with your girlfriend even if she is never willing to kiss a girl for you.

How To Impress Girls With Your Car

How To Impress Girls With Your Car
Car that girls like




I want to talk about your car. Your ride. Your automobile. Or lack of one.

Now, a lot of guys think that they need a hot car to impress a girl. Or at least a clean car.

And it’s true because the luxury car market is a multi-billion dollars business geared often to guys to impress girls, or bought by guys to impress their girlfriend or wife.

Since you’re more enlightened than the average guy, you probably don’t think you need a hot car either to get girls. BUT on the other hand, you also probably think that it wouldn’t hurt you, right? If you had a hot car, all else being equal, that would be better right?

But actually, desiring a hot girl to impress girls will only screw up your game. AND actually owning a great car to impress girls will screw up your game.

It comes down to a difference between having Core Confidence and between looking for External Validation.

Core Confidence is where you believe you’re the coolest guy on the planet, despite your material circumstances, despite your flaws, and despite your car. You are the coolest guy on the planet, period.

And if you’re driving a shitty, old car, you make the car cool, because YOU are cool.

External validation on the other hand, is you feel naked and unworthy of a quality girl, and you compensate by referencing your confidence from something external, like owning an expensive car.

Core confidence: You are the coolest guy on the planet, and by extension your car is cool too, even if it’s a piece of junk and dirty. Because YOU are so damn cool, that makes your car cool too, because everything you touch is cool. That’s core confidence, almost like a delusional self narcissism.

External validation: You feel unworthy and uncool, but if and when you have a fancy hot car, that value will transfer to you, and you’ll become a little cooler when the girl sees you with your fancy car. That’s relying on external validation.

And obviously, you want to have Core Confidence, not giving a FUCK what you drive.

Because worrying about your car, or deriving confidence from your car to impress a girl, is a subtle form of kissing ass, a subtle form of approval seeking, a subtle form of supplication.

And a guy with Core Confidence and 20 year old Ford Escort is more attractive than a guy with a fancy guy relying on it for external validation. And here’s why.

Number one. A kind of guy who doesn’t have core confidence and is worried about shit like the car he drives, is typically is too scared to approach girls in the first place, or physically escalate, or lead the girl to a date. So usually the girl will never see his fancy car anyway let alone find herself in his bedroom.

Number two. The guy relying on his car to impress the girl is subtly kissing ass, he’s supplicating, he’s looking for the girl’s approval, he’s looking for external validation from the girl. He’s looking to the car to fill a void inside himself, to be liked by the girl. In other words, HE doesn’t feel worthy of the girl and he’s using the car to compensate.

Number three. Having an expensive car screams wealthy provider to the girl. It does NOT indicate to her sexual bad boy. So even if you can get the girl out of the bookstore or bar into your car, she’ll see you as dating material, where she’ll want to date you for months on end before having sex because she sees you as provider. Whereas girls have sex with bad boys for good, wild sex, and they have sex more quickly with broke bad boys.

And that’s why a lot of wealthier guys, when they take the girl on a date in their Benz and show the girl their big house, the girl doesn’t want to have sex with him, because she’s eyeing him up for his provider resources instead. The material things makes her LIKE you as a potential longterm investment, but it doesn’t make her HORNY. There’s a big difference there, and you don’t want that.

Number four. If you’re deriving confidence from your car, you don’t feel worthy. So if you’re not with your car, like anyplace you’re actually going to meet women, you’re going to feel half empty because your crutch, your car, isn’t with you. And your state drops. Then, you get into your expensive car, you feel good again, and your state spikes… but there’s no girls there. So your confidence and state goes up and down, up and down, depending on where you are, and it’s not consistent, and it’s like a rollercoaster. You don’t want that either.

Number five. Circumstances change. Even if you buy that expensive car one day, you can’t guarantee that you’ll always have the money in the future to make the payments. You could lose a job. You could experience a drop in income. And you don’t want your confidence and sense of entitlement dependent on an expensive toy that one day you may not have in the future.

Number six. Cool, down-to-earth girls will like your expensive car because it indicates you’re a provider, which is a problem, BUT it’s also going to attract the gold-diggers. The gold-digger types, the kind of girls you DON’T want to attract, will gravitate to you because you’re relying on MONEY to attract women. And it can bring out the gold-digger side in normal girls as well. Bad, bad, bad.

So, if you are desiring an expensive car, that desiring will cripple you. And if you already have an expensive car, that car is crippling your game.

Really, I suggest some unorthodox advice here. If you’ve got an expensive car, SELL IT OFF.

You’re going to save yourself a LOT of money that you can use going out, or traveling, or taking a workshop, or whatever it is that will go much farther in bang-for-your-buck with girls than a car will take you.

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend

The Female Magnet Exercise

So, what kind of beautiful women DO you want?
For magnetically attracting beautiful women into your life with this exercise, list all the qualities and characteristics of the kind of girl you want to attract. If you know what these characteristics are, you will be more successful because you’ll know what to look for.

What kind of women would you like to have? Do you want an explosive one-night stand or a hot, passionate relationship? Take your time and list as many qualities as you want in a woman.

Here are some examples:

“I like a woman who is very sexual and is always eager to have a wild time with me in bed. I also like a woman who is down to earth and doesn’t expect me to pay for everything… a woman who is happy and open. I want a woman that knows when to get dirty but also knows when to act like a lady. Someone who keeps in shape and has a great body and nice breasts. Oh yeah, and one that treats me like a god!”

Now to do this female magnet exercise for attracting beautiful women,

-Think of the qualities you want in a woman that you listed earlier

-Begin to focus on feeling the presence of the kind of woman you’re wishing to attract. 

Imagine that she’s right there, right in front of you.

-As you do this, focus on the feeling of being connected to her.

-Imagine a cord of green sex energy coming from your chest to her breasts, connecting both of you… focus in on this feeling.

-Imagine a cord of yellow sex energy coming from your eyes to her eyes, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of red sex energy coming from your groin to her groin, really connecting both of you now, as you really focus in on this feeling.

-Imagine a cord of orange sex energy coming from the top of your stomach (the area where you feel butterflies) to hers, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of blue sex energy coming from your throat to her tongue, connecting both of you.

-Imagine a cord of gold sex energy coming from your forehead to her lips, connecting both of you. Really focus in on this feeling.

-Focus on all six sex connections and a feeling of well-being

-As you focus on the feelings of the six connections, notice what happens as you double the intensity of the feeling

-Now in your mind, switch places with her. Step into her body, feeling what she’s feeling, and have her step into your body, feeling the six sex connections.

-Hear her thoughts listing your best qualities from the inside of her mind.

-Step back into your body, continuing to feel all six sex connections.

-Send her the feeling of anticipation toward the day you meet in the near future.

-Count to yourself from 1 to 5, saying, “Now I will count from 1 to 5. And when I do, I will awaken, feeling much better than I have ever felt before…1… 2… 3… 4… and 5.”

Do this female magnet exercise no more than twice a week for attracting beautiful women. Go on about your normal life… you’ll find yourself drawn to go to new places… trust your intuition and follow this. When you meet this woman, she may or may not be everything you wanted. That’s ok. Just repeat the exercise, but be clear in the qualities you want in a woman.

This relates to the baseball player imagining his homers. You need to SEE a goal to get to it. The more concrete the goal, the better your chances.

You alert yourself – on both conscious and subconscious levels – to recognize the lady you want and you’d be surprised how many guys miss her because they’re too busy worrying about something else during the crucial moment.

And you make chance encounters with the right type of woman and attracting beautiful women MORE likely just be exercising the encounter.

Quick Success To A Girlfriend Through Baby Steps

Quick Success To A Girlfriend Through Baby Steps



You want a girlfriend or get laid more but not sure where to begin?

Sometimes you need to give yourself a 30 day challenge.

You commit to a goal for 30 days.

Maybe you’re going to say hello to a girl each day for 30 days.

Or you’re going to go out to a nightlife spot every day for 30 days.

Or you’re going to work on speaking more loudly every day for 30 days.

Or your challenge could be that you’ll be less reactive in your interactions for 30 days, or you’ll persist longer than you would normally, and do that for 30 days…

But a 30 day challenge that you’ll carry out every single day, for 30 days.

And during those 30 days, you absolutely commit that every day, no matter how you feel, whether you feel good or bad, or inspired or unmotivated, or you feel energized or not, you will partake in your 30 day challenge, and go up to the girl and say hello, or work on your voice, or hit the nightlife spots.

Every day, without fail!

Your brain might resist during those 30 days, but you just force yourself to do it.

And the reason to do a 30 day challenge, 30 days consecutively in a row, is that you want to build momentum.

Momentum Is Key

Let’s say you want to work on approaching women. If you just go out once a week, well those other 6 days you lose all your momentum!

So when the 7th day to go out comes back around, you’re not going to feel like doing. You’re not building a habit. And you just feel really rusty again on that 7th day.

It’s just like if you want to learn a new language, say Spanish. How fast can you really learn it, if you just study once a twice a week? You’re not going to become fluent.

Or with bodybuilding. You’re not going to get sexy strong if you just hit the gym once or twice a week. You lose momentum on those in-between days you’re not working out. So every day you feel rusty again.

It’s like jumping into a cold swimming pool. If you jump in everyday, the cold pool it never feels WARM. But you’re more likely to jump into the pool tomorrow if you did it today.

So what we’re really talking about is building up macro-momentum for 30 days.

Why 30 Day Goals Work Best

And a 30 day challenge is really a great way to build and develop a new habit. We all know that starting and sticking with a new habit the first week or two is the hardest part. But once you overcome the initial inertia holding you back that first week or two, it gets much easier to keep going.

So forcing yourself through for 30 days is about how long you need to take to really see improvement and build a new habit for yourself.

Also, 30 days is a reasonable goal. I can say hello to new girls every day for 30 days, and then I can quit and go back to my old habits. That’s easier than committing to a permanent change in habits, and it doesn’t seem so hard anymore. Do it for just 30 days, and then quit. Meet girls for 30 days, and then I can slack off.

Those 30 days will still require commitment, persistence, and discipline, but it’s not so hard as committing to a big permanent change. It’s just temporary to strengthen your habits in a positive direction. And you can count down the days until you’re finished.

So you get the benefits, you get macro-momentum, it’s long enough to build up and strengthen better habits, and yet you can count down the days until you’re finished. You can handle that.

And then you’ll have 30 days of success behind you. So you can then, if you feel like, commit to a new 30 day challenge. But this time it will feel a lot EASIER because you’ve already built momentum and you’ll have more experience and confidence to continue with a new challenge.

The First Days Are The Hardest

The key to completing a 30 day challenge is to continue despite feeling the ups and downs. Anytime you start out on a new habit or discipline or change in your schedule or routine, at first you’ll feel inspired the first day or two.

You’ll be eager to go out and say hello to girls on the first day of the challenge.

Than a few days into it, you won’t feel so motivated anymore. But that’s the most important time to stick with your 30 day challenge and force yourself to go through the motions.

Then a few days after that, you’ll have continued building the momentum, and you’ll feel enthusiastic again.

And then your enthusiasm will waiver, and then it will come back again. But you’ve got to stick with it for 30 days through the highs and lows.

And by the end of the 30 days, it will just feel more like something that you just do, like a regular habit, and your brain stops resisting or rollercoasting, and it just more accepts it.

And then you’re done, you’re finished, and then you can decide to give yourself a new, and modified 30 day challenge.

So that’s an easier way to learn how to pickup girls, by giving yourself challenges and focusing on 1 or 2 things you really want to focus on at a time and breaking it down into more manageable chunks.

The Newbie Challenge

Sometimes I like to go on a 30 day challenge for myself, where I straight up take the mentality of being a total newbie again. A student of the game. No ego allowed here. As if it were my first day ever going back out again. A newbie-style mission of taking my lumps.

Going out every night or every day, 30 days in a row.

Forgetting everything I did in the past, any accomplishment, any fuck-ups, it’s like I’m starting the slate clean from the beginning as if I have no history.

And going out for 30 nights in a row is pretty awesome. It’s all about building up momentum.

The first week is pretty tough of course. You get run down and tired and sleepy from not sleeping enough. Or you feel like your balls are getting busted and it’s a hard slog.

But if you stick with it, you’ll find that at the end of 30 days you’ll be just itching to get back out there and it will become the most anticipated part of your day.

It’s pretty simple. Sunday through Wednesday just hit up a bar for happy hour and stick with it for an hour or two to keep some social momentum, keep your social muscles alert and active. And talk to whoever you can find just to work those social muscles.

Thursday, Friday, Saturday, those are your nights to SHINE. That’s because that’s when the hottest clubs typically are open.

And you’ll see a real payoff from going out all week on the Mondays and Tuesdays and Wednesdays, because when you hit the weekend, instead of being rusty, you’ll already have social momentum right out of the gate, and you hit the ground running on the weekends.

And what’s cool about socializing every day for 30 days is that you’ll find talking to girls becomes more of an *automatic* process. Because you become so used to it, and since you’re going out every night your brain just comes to accept that it’s going to happen, no matter what.

And of course your criteria for success has to be really simple, as if you’re starting out all over again. And that’s just to open. The conversation just needs to last two minutes. And if you open, you’ve won the game.

Understanding Habits And Motivation

And if you don’t feel that you have the motivation to do a 30 day challenge, you’ve got to remember something about motivation.

Motivation is based on habits. And developing a new habit is all about momentum. If you want to develop a new habit, like going out and meeting girls, you’ve got to develop momentum.

So the first week will be very rough. You won’t feel like going out, because you don’t yet the motivation, you don’t have the momentum yet, you don’t have the habit yet. So the first week is rough, you’ve got to rely on willpower.

But after the first week, you’ll have the habit of going out, the momentum, and it will become easier and easier until after the 30 day challenge it will feel like a normal, everyday part of your life and will become much easier.

So seriously, a 30 day challenge of going out every day is something you want to DO for yourself. And it’s only 30 days, it’s not forever. That’s why you can do it.

And I guarantee you, there’s not a single guy in the world who does a 30 day “going out” challenge who regrets it, every guy finds it to be a great, growing experience for the better and is glad for having pushed himself to undertake the challenge.

My 5 Essential Rules For Finding Happiness – The Easy Way!

My 5 Essential Rules For Finding Happiness – The Easy Way!
I want to give you five essential rules I like to live by for having happiness. These five points guide a lot of my habits and thinking and they work – so listen up amigo!

Rule #1. Seek Feeling Arousal

Guys have different objectives. Some guys their objective is to find a girlfriend. Other guys want to find a soul mate. Other guys want to fuck 100 girls. Other guys want to fuck 10 girls and then get a girlfriend. Other guys want a threesome with two girlfriends. Some guys want validation from women, to be liked by women in general. Other guys want a blonde, or an Asian, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever.

So we pursue one of these goals in the pursuit of sexual happiness or a sexual satisfaction.

However, my argument here is that they’re all slightly off goals in a way if you’re seeking maximum sexual happiness.

The secret to living a fulfilling happy life for a man is, instead of chasing a type of woman or a type of relationship, what you should instead seek is arousal.

Creating arousal in yourself and creating arousal in women.

You’re going to feel the most satisfaction when you’re feeling increasingly aroused or creating arousal.


Examples of Arousal
For instance, let’s say that your next door neighbor is a 45 year old woman, and you’re not particularly attracted to her. But if she goes out of her way to seduce you, like show up at your door dressed in high heels and lingerie, and she’s wild in bed – that will arouse you. And you’ll have an awesome time and an awesome experience, even if she isn’t “your type”.

Or if you’re at a club, and you meet this girl that you would rate a 7 out of 10… let’s say cute, but nothing special… if she falls head over heels for you, and starts making sexual advances on you, that will arouse you and you’ll start liking her a whole lost more. You’ll experience a lot of happiness.

Or seeing a girl walking down the street in high heels and a tiny dress… that can arouse you. You suddenly feel pumped up, alive, energetic.

In all 3 cases, it’s sexual arousal that brings what I would call “happiness”.

Arousal at its most basic level would be taking interest in someone, then feeling stimulated or excited, feeling a connection with someone, and at a higher level would be physical arousal and feeling turned on.

That’s why I really like clubs and bars. There’s lots of opportunities for creating arousal in women and feeling arousal yourself, particularly physical arousal.

You can meet many women quickly and get physical and feel that arousal of connection and physicality, even if the girl you meet is, on the surface, quite average looking or no model.

And that arousal, I believe, to a man, is the root of happiness, feeling that arousal is the highlight of the day.

Same with having a new girlfriend. You meet a girl, and early on in the relationship and she sexually arouses you. You want to bang her silly every day. Being sexually aroused, stimulated, excited gives you that “being in love feeling” and sexual arousal and pleasure, and that’s when we feel most happy.

Indeed, in surveys people report that they’re most happy when having sex – the height of being aroused.

Now, the problem with long-term relationships is that after a year, you can typically get bored fucking the same girl day after day, she doesn’t turn you on like she used to, and you start to miss all the girls you could be meeting. What you’re really missing however, is that feeling of arousal… feeling aroused yourself, and the joy of creating arousal in women, that mutual arousal.

So you start longing to meet new women, for the fun of the hunt, for the fun of having sex with a new girl.

So, my recommendation is, instead of looking for a girlfriend, a soulmate, or looking for a particular type of girl like an Asian girl, a blonde, or a girl with a big butt, or whatever you tend to like – think about happiness in terms of creating AROUSAL both in yourself and the girl.

It’s actually that sexual arousal vibe that will bring you happiness and good feelings, independent of whether you’re in a relationship or not, independent of the physical characteristics of the girl.

In other words, just be creating arousal in women in bars and clubs, even on very average-looking girls, anywhere in the world you are, you can have a lot of fun. You DON’T need to be chasing a particular kind of woman of relationship to be happy.


Rule #2. The “Testosterone Buzz”


I call it the “testosterone buzz”, or having the “sledgehammer arms”.

One of the best feelings in the world is having a low-level testosterone buzz that makes you feel manly, energetic, and young. It’s something you had naturally as a teen, but lose quickly in your 20s.

So what I do is I hit the gym and hit the gym HARD. By working out fast and hard, I get this awesome, completely natural, testosterone rush or “buzz” that I can keep through the day which keeps me feeling energetic, enthusiastic, motivated, masculine, and sexual.

I also call it getting “sledgehammer arms” too because when I work out consistently and workout hard, I feel as if my arms are two huge sledgehammers that could break through a concrete sidewalk if I felt like pounding it apart.

And note it’s a gut *feeling* and not a physical characteristic of my arms – the feeling can come and go.

But a testosterone buzz can make you feel like a giant walking cock, as if a girl alone with you is in danger of being roughly fucked without mercy.

Now, lifting heavy weights and eating clean is KEY to my game.

Besides looking good and buff, working out makes me feel alpha, dominant, action-taking, and generally not giving a FUCK.

So instead of trolling around looking for permission to talk to a girl, I step up, naturally.

Getting ogled, stared down, eye-fucked, approached, and complimented by girls doesn’t hurt either. It feeds and fuels your narcissistic fire and deservedness.

The gym also fuels a champ posture. Looking in the mirror a lot and having all that blood rush through your body while pounding the weights makes a guy stand up straight and proud like a Superman. You walk like a King. And girls notice that – and notice BIG.

So yes, I love the buzz high the gym brings, and how the girls react with their wide-eyed “splay my legs and raw-dog penetrate my pussy” look.


Rule #3. Indulging All Your Sexual Fantasies With Women
The testosterone buzz from hitting weights like an athlete also fuels a man’s drive for hot, rough and wild sex.

Instead of “connecting” with a girl, you’re driven to simply bang her wet dripping pussy, into multiple O’s.

It fuels sexual fetishes, like having the girl dress herself in sparkling or bright stiletto heels and a super short micro mini-skirt to show off her legs and manicured pink nails.

And taking her out in public or to a hotel room and give her rough, nasty sex while talking dirty to her, or having her talk filthy back.


Rule #4. The Giddy Freedom Of An Anti-Girlfriend Nihilism


99% of men who get into pickup are “nice guys”, who want to find a “nice girl” that will “like them back”, and get a girlfriend … and be done with it.

Even the “players” and “PUAs” secretly just want to find a “steady girlfriend” or a “Perfect 10” or “soul mate” and drop out of meeting girls.

But there’s WAY too much variety out there, and it’s never been better to be a single man!

I call this particular approach “anti-girlfriend nihilism.”

This means no desiring of a girlfriend, on any level, for any reason, whatsoever!

According to this frame, women have one role – to fulfill a man’s sexual fantasies. Nothing more, and nothing less.

What’s more, being an unrepentant sexual carnivore takes a HUGE weight OFF of a man’s shoulders. It means you can chase down and fuck ANY girl, plain or pretty, as there’s NO chance it will ever be taken further.

It means you have NO fear and NO outcome dependence, because even if you met your “perfect girl”, you’re not invested in how it turns out anyway.

And since you’re not “searching” for anything, you actually get GIDDY on a daily basis… that the world is your oyster and ALL women are fair game!

So when I hit up a city, my attitude is that I’ll indiscriminately bang my way through the entire town.

P.S. It doesn’t mean you CAN’T have a girlfriend, but you DO need to be free from the outcome of trying to impress her, win her favor, or make her like you.




Rule #5. Every Day Free From Bullshit, Drama, and Time-Busters

Most guys fill up their life with time-consuming drama and bullshit. As Anthony Robbins says, “Most people major in the minor things of life.”

A guy buys a new car and he’s now a slave to his job to make the payments.

Or a guy is worried about how to approach girls “correctly” and instead dicks around the issue for years.

Or a guy watches the entire 100 hours of “Heroes” or whatever.

It’s even worse when you get a girlfriend.

Most guys want girlfriends – not just for the sex – but because they’re bored with themselves. They need something to do, like dote on a girl’s “needs”.

So instead of frittering away his time, he begins frittering away his time on the girl.

Girlfriend wants you to drive her here and there. Girlfriend wants you to hang with her friends. Girlfriend wants to watch lame movie. Whatever – it’s typically endless. And guy loses his time playing provider for his time-sucker vampire girlfriend.

No way.

If I’m not doing what I love – getting outdoors, working out, meeting girls, or having kinky sex with them – all fun, relaxing, and pleasurable for me – I’ll have nothing to do with it.

So my anti-girlfriend nihilism keeps my time my own – and free from the usual time constraints 99% of other guys have.

That’s my core philosophy… five great rules to live by. Give it a try.

How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

How to Pick up a Girl in a Club

A club can be a particularly frustrating place to meet someone, with all the noise, the crowd and the business of the participants. In fact, most women don't go to clubs to meet men. Yet, many men go to clubs to meet women. Here is a step-by-step guide on the best way to increase your chances of success.

Steps
1. Arrive early. By midnight, most people have already coalesced into groups, making them harder to approach.

2. Start conversations with people in the line-up. A good start is to ask someone if this is the event you are looking for.

3. After entering through the door, make eye contact with the first woman there. Again, "is this the event?" is an opening that will work. Since she's by the door, chances are she has just arrived and is also looking for someone to talk to.

4. Whenever you meet someone, ask if she's there alone or with friends. Then ask to meet her friends. Chances are she'll be happy to introduce. They tend to prefer the group dynamic in this setting.

5. Once you get names, and a few minutes of chit chat, move on. This shows them that you're not desperate and that you have things to do. You can come back to them later as someone they already know.

6. After moving away, you may need to write down the names you just got for later reference.

7. Whatever you do, DON'T BE A WALLFLOWER. Guys who stand against the wall looking longingly at the women gets you pidgenonholed as a typical desperate guy they like to avoid. If you get stuck in such a position, move from it to another vantage point every few minutes before you get another project going.

8. If you feel like resting, find a seat away from the crowd.

9. Have things to do: Bring a camera, explore the place, check out the bathroom, buy a drink, get a napkin. Have a look of Destination on your face. What does this look like? Simple: Just take a look at the busy-looking women as they go from place to place on some seelingly crutial mission.

10. If you see people you know, go over to them. They may end up introducing you to more people.

11. Talk to bouncers and security people. This makes you look important. These people are often bored and will be happy to talk to you.

12. Bring an entourage. It makes you attractive if you are part of a group.

13. If possible, come with a "wing-woman." A wing-woman is an attractive woman who is only a friend. This makes you look attractive.

14. Find someone to dance with. For this, an older or less attractive woman is ideal. They will be happy to dance with you and you will attract the attention of the young and pretty ones who are wondering why you chose this one as opposed to them. When the dance is over, compliment your partner and excuse yourself, then approach any one of the cute ones who will now be looking at you.

15. Talk to female wallflowers. They are open to meeting someone. Even if she is older or less attractive, engage them in conversation. This will make the cute ones wondering (same as #12).

16. Walk around with a big cool looking drink. This will get you attention. Ask the bartender for a recommendation on this.

17. Go outside. They stamp your hand so you might as well use it. Outside there is less competition and a it's less crowded and you can occasionally find a lone woman taking a break or a smoke.

18. Instead of asking for a phone number, ask for a business card. If she says she doesn't have one, ask if she has email.

19. Don't be satisfied with one email or phone number, even if you think she is the "woman of your dreams." Most women will not return a phone call from a guy she met at a club.

20. Make sure to circle around back to the women you met at the beginning. At this point, after missing you, they will be more open to talk.

21. The next day, email all the women. Give them some sort of way for them to remember who you are, and give them your phone number and tell them when you will be available.

Tips
1. If a woman insults you, just say "whatever" and turn away.

2. If a woman displays childish or otherwise condescending or inappropriate behavior, do not feel like you have to play into it: Simply say: "I thought you were interesting, but I see I was mistaken. Good evening," and then turn to walk away. If she's descent she'll apppologize and pull you back.

3. If you see a couple who looks like they might be just friends, try introducing yourself to the guy first. He'll introduce you to her if he's her "wing-man."

4. Don't feel like you have to spend the whole evening talking to one woman. She's there to be with other people too. So if things are going well, ask for an email.

5. Come clean, groomed and wear a nice, pressed, expensive looking dark shirt.

6. If a woman makes eye contact, go for it.

7. If a woman avoids eye contact, you have just been rejected. Move on.

8. If someone indicates that he or she would like to talk to you, for example, by making eye contact, talk to him or her even if you are not interested. This will make you look as busy as anyone else, and makes it look as though you didn't come there to meet pick up women.

9. Don't dance too much by yourself. It makes you look alone. If there's one song you must dance to, do it where you're not too noticeable.

10. For picking up women on the dance floor itself, see the wikihow on how to pick up a woman on a dance floor.

11. If you find yourself with nothing to do, look busy and important: Check your email, text your friends, call your mom, etc. If you don't know what "busy and important" is supposed to look like, just watch the busy and important women doing those things.

12. When choosing a woman to take your picture, pick one who has her own camera. This way (a) she probably knows what she's doing, and (b) after she takes yours, you can continue by offering to take one of her.

Warnings

1. Don't try to pick up the bartender. She's busy. If you must pick her up, only try it either very early or very late if she seems to have time.

2. Keep in mind that most women at clubs are not there to meet new people but to have fun with people they already know.

3. Realize that YOU WILL GET REJECTED as a matter of course by at least some of the women you approach. Some women enjoy the power surge of rejecting someone and get themselves all dolled up just to attract their next victim(s). If you cannot handle this, you should find other places to pick up women.

4. Beware of boyfriends. If you see a couple very close and lovey-dovey, give them space.

5. Occasionally, a woman will be downright rude and insulting. Learn to deal with this.

6. Don't wear cologne. It may attract women you don't want, and turn away others you do want.

7. Do not invest any emotion into any one individual, or the entire project in general. Remember that women who go to clubs are probably too vapid and superficial for the long term anyway.

How To Be Super Successful with Women

Be Successful With Women Using These Super Clever Tips

I've studied how to be successful with women and now have great results at getting women. Here's some pretty smart tips to being super-successful with women that I want to share.

1. Learn the principles of attraction.

If you can't attract a woman, you can forget having any kind of success with them. Most attempts to seduce a woman without first attracting her will FAIL.

If you're not attracted to a woman, would you let her seduce you? Probably not. The same goes for women.

2. Women are attracted to character rather than physical looks.

If you want to be successful, you have to develop some attractive character traits, such as strength (not physical strength but mental strength).

3. Character is conveyed by communication.

How you communicate to women and the environment around you lets women know your character. Communicate in ways that convey attractive character traits and women will be madly attracted to you.

4. Having fun with women is very attractive.

Women love to have fun and find men who have fun very attractive. Develop your natural ability to have with women rather than being all weird, boring or serious around them, which is how most guys behave with women. And which women don't find at all attractive.

5. Being outgoing.

It really helps to be talkative and extroverted as a person. This conveys confidence and mental strength. Again, this is attractive to women.

6. Once a woman is attracted to you, she'll start to want to get to know you.

You will know that a woman is attracted to you when she starts asking you personal questions, such as your name and what you do for a living. At this point, you can get to really know her. And from there you can start to seduce her successfully.

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Do You Really Need a Girlfriend to Feel Better About Yourself?

"I want a girlfriend" is a phrase I read and hear a lot. I also hear some men say "I need a girlfriend." I also have had men ask me "how do I get a girlfriend?". My usual response is "why do you want (or need) one so badly?"

Somehow, somewhere, some men have been conditioned to think that their lives would be more meaningful if they had a girlfriend. "But I feel like such a freak if I don't have one," says Jeremy, a 22 year old college Senior. "Most of my friends have one. I feel like a loser."

I hear this from men of all ages and backgrounds. The problem here I see is two-fold: first, that men who say these kinds of things do not have the different skill sets they need in order to secure a date virtually anytime they want. Secondly, there is an inherent problem in thinking that one needs to have a girlfriend in order to feel more complete, popular, or whatever other reason you can think of. Happiness and fulfillment should come from inside first and then having a partner, a girlfriend, or a romantic interest should be the icing on the cake. So if you are one of these men that feels and believes he has to have a girlfriend, that's a big red flag that you are using that as a crutch. A crutch for what, you might ask. It's a crutch for not facing the real, deeper issue(s) that drive that false belief that you have to have a girlfriend.

Men who want a girlfriend are coming from a place of weakness, not power. For the sake of this article, power is defined as the ability to take consistent action toward a very specific purpose. For example, my friend David constantly tells me he wishes he had a girlfriend, but he plays 30 to 40 hours of World of Warcraft each weak instead of learning how to improve his social skills. That is not coming from a place of power. When a man desperately wants a partner it makes him act and behave in a needy and desperate ways. Women pick up on this even before you approach them. They can see it in your posture, your eyes, the way you move your arms, and other aspects of your body language. Then when you talk they can hear it in your voice as well as where you place your hands. You shouldn't "want" a girlfriend or "need" a girlfriend. You should choose to have one when you meet a woman that fits your criteria, won't play silly games with you, and compliments your life, not impedes it.

Men sometimes want a girlfriend for the wrong reasons. Men should "choose" to have a girlfriend, not "need" one because they are succumbing to social pressure or a feeling of insecurity or loneliness. There are times in my life where I did not have a girlfriend for several months or even longer than a year. That did not mean that I did not date. I went out on plenty of dates, but I never called any of them my girlfriend because I was at a place in my life at the time where I did not want anything serious. I've had women tell me after a few months that they wanted to move in with me and when I told them "no", they gave me an ultimatum.

Either take the relationship to the next level or she would end it, she would say (after a few months? Come on!). I would always end it right there on the spot because I never give into selfish ultimatums. The fact is that my self-esteem and confidence are so high that I don't "need" a woman to originate my happiness. I think of my life as dessert and that any woman who wants to join me is simply the whip cream and strawberry on top of it. I realize that sounds a bit corny, but it's a very accurate metaphor. I'm not saying that having a girlfriend is a bad thing. In fact, it's a good thing when it is done for the right reasons.

So how does a man make himself more attractive? The list is nearly endless, but here are a few pointers that men need to seriously think about:

1. Physical Appearance And Hygiene - I used to worry about my height because I didn't think I was tall enough to date tall, attractive women. That was a huge waste of time and energy. I finally realized that I needed to focus on what I could control, such as my weight, my muscle tone, the way I ate, using only one spray of cologne (instead of half the bottle), the whiteness of my teeth, my hairstyle, etc.

2. Confidence - I'm talking about natural confidence that oozes from within, not the phony "I'm-such-a-bad-boy" confidence that immature men think is "cool". If you don't have it now there's only one way to get it: taking action; not just any action, but action that forces you outside of your comfort zone so that you actually grow. Think about it, if you have approach anxiety, you'll never overcome it if you don't approach. Remember the Rule of 25, which states you should eventually approach no less than 25 women per week until you can talk to any woman, any time, and any where. Some men achieve this in one week, others in 3 months because we are all different, have different shyness levels, and might have a bunch of other things going on in our lives.

3. Have A Life - Studies have shown that desirable men have active, social lives. Let's face it, when a woman knows that other women desire you, your social value skyrockets. One way to increase your own social value is to have hobbies and interests that help improve who you are. Playing video games versus going out an learning how to dance salsa, swing, or hip-hop might both be fun for you, but take a wild guess which one gives you more opportunities to meet women? If you couple this with a growing social network, you will naturally find yourself a very busy person with plenty of social events and opportunities to meet new faces. I can go to any major city in the world and within 90 days I can build a social network of new faces and friends that would take an average man a lifetime to build. That's only because I've done it time and time again. If you remained focused there's very little you can accomplish.

4. Having A Plan For Your Life - Are you starting to see a trend here? Have you noticed that the focal point has been to focus on yourself first? Most people go throughout life reacting to it instead of sitting down and writing some rough outline of what they really want out of life. Let's take Samuel, a 33 year old recently divorced accountant, as an example. For many years Samuel thought that having a girlfriend and eventually getting married was the true road to happiness, but he didn't have the social and relationship skills to find the right mate and ended up marrying the wrong woman. He began wondering if this was as good as it gets (sounds like the movie right?).

One day Samuel called me with his dilemma and I advised that he get away for a weekend and to take a notebook and pen with him. I wanted him to spend the entire weekend writing down what he really wanted out of life and the reasons behind them. When he called me a week later, he was a changed man. He started, "I thought that I always needed a girlfriend to feel good about myself. Now I realized that is just one facet to living. Real fulfillment comes from within, from a sense of contributing, and a sense of moving forward."

Samuel was starting to get it. And he eventually met a woman that complimented his own life and he's never been happier.

Do you still want a girlfriend? Or do you feel like you still need one? It's very important that you take a look inside yourself to find the answer. Remember, you should never "need" a girlfriend. You should reach a point in your life where you "choose" to have a girlfriend on your terms. And that makes all the difference in the world. Just ask Samuel.

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