How To Have Sex With Friend's Wife

How To Have Sex With Friend's Wife

The choice to have sex with the wife of your friend is a risky one, but you can learn how to have sex with your friend's wife, if you want to risk it. Sometimes the most forbidden fruits are the sweetest. Just because it is taboo, the desire to make love with your friend's wife can be overwhelming. If you have the guts, you can do it.

To learn how to make love with your friend's wife, you will need:

guts
to be willing to lose your friend

Make sure that you really want to have sex with your friend's wife. No beating around the bush here. This is a decision that will forever change your relationship with your friend, even if he never finds out. Make sure this is something you can live with before continuing.

If you decided you really want to make love with your friend's wife, then proceed cautiously. Send her small signals. Make dirty jokes. Touch her on her back. Don't do anything that you can't explain away as being just a little too friendly.

Wait for the right moment to approach your friend's wife for sex. Make sure that your friend is not around, and that his wife is in a good mood. Maybe make a joke about how hot she is. She will blush, and so that you are serious. Tell her that you think of her often, and imagine kissing her. If she does not seem disgusted, you are halfway home. Give her a kiss.

Know when to get out of the relationship. If you continue your romance with your friend's wife, you will risk losing our friend. Know when to end the fling. It is best to make sex with your friend's wife a one time only affair.

Make sure to keep up appearances. Don't do anything out of the ordinary with your friend. If you usually meet on Friday night, go. Don't ask questions about his wife, and don't worry that he is suspicious. If he was, he would not have met you.

Never tell your friend, or any friends that you had sex with your best friend's wife. It is just bad form.

How To Impress Girls With Your Car

How To Impress Girls With Your Car
Car that girls like




I want to talk about your car. Your ride. Your automobile. Or lack of one.

Now, a lot of guys think that they need a hot car to impress a girl. Or at least a clean car.

And it’s true because the luxury car market is a multi-billion dollars business geared often to guys to impress girls, or bought by guys to impress their girlfriend or wife.

Since you’re more enlightened than the average guy, you probably don’t think you need a hot car either to get girls. BUT on the other hand, you also probably think that it wouldn’t hurt you, right? If you had a hot car, all else being equal, that would be better right?

But actually, desiring a hot girl to impress girls will only screw up your game. AND actually owning a great car to impress girls will screw up your game.

It comes down to a difference between having Core Confidence and between looking for External Validation.

Core Confidence is where you believe you’re the coolest guy on the planet, despite your material circumstances, despite your flaws, and despite your car. You are the coolest guy on the planet, period.

And if you’re driving a shitty, old car, you make the car cool, because YOU are cool.

External validation on the other hand, is you feel naked and unworthy of a quality girl, and you compensate by referencing your confidence from something external, like owning an expensive car.

Core confidence: You are the coolest guy on the planet, and by extension your car is cool too, even if it’s a piece of junk and dirty. Because YOU are so damn cool, that makes your car cool too, because everything you touch is cool. That’s core confidence, almost like a delusional self narcissism.

External validation: You feel unworthy and uncool, but if and when you have a fancy hot car, that value will transfer to you, and you’ll become a little cooler when the girl sees you with your fancy car. That’s relying on external validation.

And obviously, you want to have Core Confidence, not giving a FUCK what you drive.

Because worrying about your car, or deriving confidence from your car to impress a girl, is a subtle form of kissing ass, a subtle form of approval seeking, a subtle form of supplication.

And a guy with Core Confidence and 20 year old Ford Escort is more attractive than a guy with a fancy guy relying on it for external validation. And here’s why.

Number one. A kind of guy who doesn’t have core confidence and is worried about shit like the car he drives, is typically is too scared to approach girls in the first place, or physically escalate, or lead the girl to a date. So usually the girl will never see his fancy car anyway let alone find herself in his bedroom.

Number two. The guy relying on his car to impress the girl is subtly kissing ass, he’s supplicating, he’s looking for the girl’s approval, he’s looking for external validation from the girl. He’s looking to the car to fill a void inside himself, to be liked by the girl. In other words, HE doesn’t feel worthy of the girl and he’s using the car to compensate.

Number three. Having an expensive car screams wealthy provider to the girl. It does NOT indicate to her sexual bad boy. So even if you can get the girl out of the bookstore or bar into your car, she’ll see you as dating material, where she’ll want to date you for months on end before having sex because she sees you as provider. Whereas girls have sex with bad boys for good, wild sex, and they have sex more quickly with broke bad boys.

And that’s why a lot of wealthier guys, when they take the girl on a date in their Benz and show the girl their big house, the girl doesn’t want to have sex with him, because she’s eyeing him up for his provider resources instead. The material things makes her LIKE you as a potential longterm investment, but it doesn’t make her HORNY. There’s a big difference there, and you don’t want that.

Number four. If you’re deriving confidence from your car, you don’t feel worthy. So if you’re not with your car, like anyplace you’re actually going to meet women, you’re going to feel half empty because your crutch, your car, isn’t with you. And your state drops. Then, you get into your expensive car, you feel good again, and your state spikes… but there’s no girls there. So your confidence and state goes up and down, up and down, depending on where you are, and it’s not consistent, and it’s like a rollercoaster. You don’t want that either.

Number five. Circumstances change. Even if you buy that expensive car one day, you can’t guarantee that you’ll always have the money in the future to make the payments. You could lose a job. You could experience a drop in income. And you don’t want your confidence and sense of entitlement dependent on an expensive toy that one day you may not have in the future.

Number six. Cool, down-to-earth girls will like your expensive car because it indicates you’re a provider, which is a problem, BUT it’s also going to attract the gold-diggers. The gold-digger types, the kind of girls you DON’T want to attract, will gravitate to you because you’re relying on MONEY to attract women. And it can bring out the gold-digger side in normal girls as well. Bad, bad, bad.

So, if you are desiring an expensive car, that desiring will cripple you. And if you already have an expensive car, that car is crippling your game.

Really, I suggest some unorthodox advice here. If you’ve got an expensive car, SELL IT OFF.

You’re going to save yourself a LOT of money that you can use going out, or traveling, or taking a workshop, or whatever it is that will go much farther in bang-for-your-buck with girls than a car will take you.

Self-Amusement And Making Girls And Dating FUN Again

Self-Amusement is a particularly important concept for nighttime game, like at bars and clubs. Less so if you’re doing day game, but the principles are still important.

The idea of self-amusement is that you want to have FUN meeting girls. That going out is not supposed to be so serious, and the state you want really is to be totally relaxed and giving out positive energy.

So self-amusement can be yelling, singing, busting jokes, chatting up the people around you, talking to your friends from across the room. Making silly faces at girls, poking girls, playing games with the girls like thumb wrestling. Saying things that are absurd, hilarious, offensive, non-sensical.

Basically have your own fun.

Be positive, radiate it!

So the key here is that you want to practice making yourself laugh. So that you can just walk up to the girls and just make yourself laugh, and the girls will instantly be into it.

Because if you’re going to go out, you might as well make it fun. Because if you’re not having fun, let’s face it, the club and bar are pretty miserable. So you’re number one question you should be asking yourself is, “How can I make this FUN for myself?”

Why Self-Amuse? It Draws Women In
Self-amusement draws the women in like crazy… because when everything is FUN for you and no big deal, everything because FUN and no big deal to the girls either, because of state transference.

So you can say shocking and wild things that might otherwise make a girl pissed off, but she’ll feel good about it, because YOU feel so good. Meaning she’s going to pick up on your good state, not the content of your words.

And that’s part of the self-amusement, is positive leading. Plow over any bullshit or negativity a girl has. Just ignore it. Ignore any bullshit or negative nonsense and plow the girl over with your positivity and what will happen is, the girl will be attracted to your better state and you’ll pull her in, she’ll want to enter your reality of fun and positivity if you just persist a little.

And then you never look like you’re getting rejected either. It’s more like the girls are simply leaving your party which is more fun than theirs.







Don’t Be So Logical And Serious

Because here’s the thing. Most guys in bars and clubs are being too logical. They’re too logical and they’re too safe. It’s like they’re giving the girl their resume. “Hi, my name is Joe, I’m a cool guy you should get to know and I have X, Y, Z going for me, and listen to this funny routine I memorized.”

Screw logical approaches, screw rational thinking. You want to become the party, even if it feels retarded. You want to approach, be positive, fun, and dominant.



Self-Amusement Versus Reacting


So let me breakdown a comparison of self-amusement to reacting to the environment.

Self-amusement: you control how you feel from inside, instead of letting the outside environment and outside stimulus determine how you feel. So whether you’re getting good reaction or bad reactions, it doesn’t matter, your state is internally generated.

Self-amusement: stronger emotions, you are where the party is at.

Self-amusement: you persist, you stay in set, because how you act and respond doesn’t depend on how the girl is reacting to you. You bring the fun, and you allow the girl to react to you.

Self-amusement: total fun and nonsense instead of being logical and calculating.

Self-amusement: you’re generating the fun instead of looking for other people to make you happy and bring the fun.

Self-amusement: you’re making fun to amuse yourself. It is NOT meant to impress the girl or convey value.

Self-amusement: you don’t care about the girl’s reactions, you have self-trust that all people on Earth respond well to fun and positivity through the law of state transference.

Self-amusement: You’re pumping your own state instead of looking to the girls to pump your state.

Self-amusement: You’re in your own personal universe, in your own reality of fun and positivity, sucking girls into your vortex, instead of looking to the girls to make you happy with validation.

Self-amusement: You generate your own positive energy internally, you’re not pinging off the environment or girls to determine how you should feel.

So that’s a basic breakdown of how a guy who is self-amusing himself sees the world, versus a guy who is reacting to everything in his environment and looking for positive validation from girls to make him feel happy.

Make Everything Self-Amusing
So the best way to self-amuse yourself and be a cool, charismatic guy is to find everything in the world as funny and entertaining to you.

Instead of being pissed off or down, or walking around depressed, instead by the fun, positive guy who finds everything self-amusing and funny. And the girl will feel lit up just by being in your presence.

If the girl is having fun then she’ll keep coming back to you for more of it. Look at it as like you’re offering her a gift of good feelings. Not that you’re trying to pump up her feelings, but by making yourself amused and happy and feeling good, you’re giving her a part of yourself.



Lower Your Standards

The key to becoming self-amused then is you’ve got to lower your standards for having fun. You’ve got to be able to make everything fun and be able to have your own fun, even if you’re by yourself. You can clap your hands to the music, smile, say hello to girls in funny and strange ways to see what kind of funny and strange reactions you’ll get.

It’s like if your household chore is that it’s your job to wash the dishes, and you hate washing dishes. You’ve got to decide that washing dishes will be your favorite task and start to love it. You’ve got to lower your standards of happiness.


Don’t Be A “Dancing Monkey”

Now, here’s a word of warning.

Self-amusement is not about getting giggling attraction from girls or acting like a clown to entertain them and get their approval or make the girls like you.

It’s more about pushing the boundaries of pissing them off and breaking rapport. You’re trying to make yourself laugh, not the girls. That’s very important. This is NOT about impressing the girls and making them like you, but about having your own FUN.

So it’s not funny to the girls. It should be funny to YOU.

You’re getting your pleasure and kicks from the girl’s reactions, positive OR negative. And because you draw her into what YOU think is funny, now the GIRL will often think it’s funny.

You Sill Need Sexual Intent

Another thing. You also want to have sexual intent when you do self-amusement. You can have a lot of fun and shenanigans and get tons of interest from women and own the bars and clubs and have girls all over you.

But just having FUN itself is not enough to get you laid. You also need to have sexual intent and physical leading and persisting in the set as well. You still need to man up and push the set. So you’ve got to balance self-amusement with making a connection with a girl and moving it forward.

Make Going Out FUN

Focus less on the goal of “getting a girl to like me” through a trial of sweat and tears, and work, and trial by fire, and needing manly balls of steal, or needing to go through this incredible regimen of constant self-improvement to just make a girl like you.

But transform the process into what it should be. FUN!!

Transform it into a process that actually RECHARGES your batteries, and doesn’t tire you out.

So that you can go out in a single day or single evening and meet a bunch of new girls being very CHILL, very easily, with NO pressure, get a lot of girls instantly-on attracted to you, and having a casual FUN time doing it.

So that you feel better, there’s far less pressure, it feels good, you feel happy, and meeting women becomes like your time off.

It’s chill, it’s all cool, it’s fun, it recharges up your batteries, and as a side effect to just being this glorious aspect of your life, you get laid with cuties! As just part of the process of going out being cool and FUN.

Spending more time of your day happy and smiling and feeling energized and positive.

Itching to go outside, because you KNOW you’ll be meeting beautiful new girls, you know that they’re going to be into you, and you know you’re going to get physical with them.

Where going out is FUN.

Going out is a blast.

Going out is truly awesome.

As a great way to have new adventures.

And to bring happiness and aliveness and vitality BACK into your life!

To develop a full dating life where you can meet a hot girlfriend who’s really into you.


“What To Say” to girls and self-amusement
 Now if you’re having issues with your conversation being boring, or not having something to say, it’s because you’re being too serious in what you want to say and trying to impress the girl.

Instead, you want to move toward being positive, playful, silly, not trying to impress her, and think of how you can make this FUN. How can you self-amuse YOURSELF with this girl?

And if you make the conversation about having some silly fun, and self-amusing, the girl will have fun too.

Force The Fun

Basically, you want to FORCE the fun. Be the party. That no matter what is going on, you’re going to make this fun somehow, you’re going to force it.

That’s what being the guy who is the life of the party is!

You know, the guy where everyone in the room can be tired and beat and slow, and this guy shows up and the whole energy of the room changes. Him being around, you start getting excited, laughing, it’s fun, because the guy is forcing the fun.

So how do you force the fun?

Basically having a really strong frame of positivity and that everything is awesome and any situation can be made fun!

Also, you did it by lowering your threshold to have fun. You see, most people set a very high bar for feeling happy. They think they can only feel fun and happiness if they’re on vacation on a tropical beach, or if they’re getting laid with a hot girl. They need all these conditions checked off before they think they can feel good and positive.

But really, having fun and feeling positive is always a choice.

You can just DECIDE to have fun in any moment.

And if you FORCE it, even if the girls around you are being bitchy or neutral or boring, if you FORCE the fun, they’ll enjoy your state more than they enjoy their own, and they’ll gravitate to your fun, literally getting sucked into your frame of positivity no matter what.

Now this forcing the fun, and self-amusement is really critical in a club environment where it’s essential to suck women into your positivity, and somewhat less so in day game.

But even day game you can still be laughing with the girl, joking around, and she’ll love your for that. The key is not to be canned, but to ride on the edge of chaos and let it free flow.

So just self-amuse yourself, enjoy life, and girls will want to be around you. Don’t look for things in your environment to tell you now is the time to be happy, don’t wait for someone else or something else to pump you up with happiness, being happy is a decision you make in every moment.

Having Fun Takes Energy

And that takes energy. Feeling good and having fun and sucking girls into your reality does take energy. It takes work to force that smile, to force that positive energy, to laugh, and to embrace what the moment is giving you and express that.

It’s really easier to sit down and fuzz out in front of the television, it conserves energy to chill out.

So while intellectually we think, “Yeah, I want the girls, I want the party, I want the fun and happiness,” in reality it’s easier to just sit back and check our email.

So you do need to take action, and massive action at that to start the self-amusement process and start changing your habits and neural circuitry to be conveying fun and positivity – to be fantastically fun throughout your day, in a way that DRAWS people in.

But once you’ve got that, girls are attracted to you because you exude the party, they want to be around you, and they want to be just like you.

Shy Guy's Dating Guide to Success With Women

Shy Guy's Dating Guide to Success With Women

There are thousands of websites, eBooks, guides, course etc. out there that teach you how to approach women. Yup, you can learn everything from what type of shoes make you appear more sexy in a woman's eyes, to sleazy straight to the point pick up lines that are more likely to get you slapped than in bed with a beautiful girl.



But no matter what these courses teach you, they have one thing in common. And that is they all teach that CONFIDENCE IS KEY to approaching women.

So knowing all the stupid pickup lines, magic tricks and "secrets" in the world might help out your day dreams, all this wont do you much good when trying to approach a women unless you have the confidence to look her in the eyes and tell her how you feel and what you want from her.

For many men, approaching a pretty girl they like can feel as if they have an anxiety disorder. The nervousness and anxiety can become so bad when trying to "pick up" a pretty girl, that you might actually experience symptoms that are similar to those of a panic attack!

Now let me ask you this, when you are thinking about or are about to approach a beautiful girl that you like.

Do you experience any of these symptoms:

    Hyperventilating
    Jitteriness
    Racing thoughts
    Racing Heart Beat
    Feeling sick
    Stuttering
    Flustered
    Words come out wrong
    Difficulty breathing
    Lump in throat
    Difficulty swallowing
    Mind drawing a blank
    Butterflies in tummy
    Fear of stuffing up
    Fear of rejection
    Sweaty palms


If so, this guide will help you over come your fears and approach beautiful women with ease and confidence. No fear of rejection, no sweaty palms, no overwhelming anxiety. Just "hey baby, how's it going" with no problems of any kind!

But before we get into the "meat" of this guide, there is some very simple facts you absolutely MUST know about women that are sure to make you feel better as you go over them:

Simple Facts About Women - Most women are just as nice and friendly as you and me, they are not mean to strangers and will NOT slap you or scream "Pervert" when you approach them.

Check Your Confidence Level - When it comes to dating, a confident guy always has an edge over shy guy. As a matter of fact, you could rarely see woman approach a guy and ask for a date. Guy will make the first move, most of the time.

Eliminating Negative Self Talk - Your subconscious mind will often try to do everything within it's power to prevent you from doing what you want by telling you all kinds of nonsense.

Creating Positive Self Talk - What you ask yourself WILL directly affect your self-esteem and confidence therefore increasing your anxiety when faced with approaching a woman.

Building Your Confidence - There are many ways to build your confidence, you can work out to look and feel great, try to always look your best, or even drink a little alcohol to get a little "Liquor Courage". What I'm going to talk about is how to build your confidence by way of affirmation.

Preparation Before Approaching Woman - Have you ever approached a girl, got her attention and then had nothing to say? That can be a big braw back because silence and awkward moments will NOT help you get anyone's phone number.

Planning Your Conversation Topics - Planning your conversations, where were we? That's right, getting out the pen and paper and planning what you will say, starting with your greeting.

Dating Conversation Topics Examples - I have quite a large number of questions I have banked up that I use often on people. But I won't list all of them here. Besides some of them may not be suitable for me to mention here and I don't want to offend anyone.

Proper Breathing to Calm Down - If you hyper-ventilate or find it hard to breathe when approaching women, then this part of the book can be of great help to you.

Exercise to Reduce Anxiety and Depression - Exercise gives you more energy, helps you sleep better, makes your heart stronger, helps your circulation, increases your lung capacity expand, makes your muscles stronger.

Removing Negativity Thoughts - What can happen once you actually approach a woman, start talking to her and is that you might go blank for a second and might start getting negative thoughts.

In the beginning of this section, I gave you some simple facts about women. I reassured you that most women are just like men, they are not evil rejection machines that are out to embarrass every guy that approaches them.

Women are not the enemy, in most cases men are their own worst enemy when it comes to approaching women.

It is your negative thoughts, anxiety and fear of rejection that stops you from getting the girl you like. Of course you already know this, so what's my point?

My point is that instead of learning all kinds of crazy pickup lines, sleazy tricks to get women into bed and tricks to get women to like you. You should simply work on your confidence and in most cases the rest will take care of itself.

And the sooner you realize that you are worthy of just about any women on the planet, and know that women are simple people just like you and me you will be able to approach girls no problem with your confidence growing every time you talk to a girl.

For shy guy that has concern in their physical appearance and suffer "emotional block" that holding you back from meeting woman, the following articles will serve as a guide.

Why Lose Weight ? - It is already understood that a person's self worth and self-confidence can be shattered if they gain excess weight.

When is the best time to hug or kiss a woman

When is the best time to hug or kiss a woman


It depends on the situation, but don't think of it as "hugging, kissing, or shaking hands." Think of it as basically physical touching, and do it whenever it could come off as the most natural thing to do.

For example, when talking to a woman at a bar (which might be crowded and noisy), lean in and talk very close into her ear while touching the side of her arm or elbow. This type of touching is also known as a "kinesthetic approach", kino for short. You want to a women, soon after meeting her, to feel comfortable (and possibly aroused) with this type of touching from you. It displays to her that you are a sexual being and are not afraid to move in close or make contact.

Don't treat touching like a business affair, treat it like subtle animalistic human contact. Your hand stroking her hair, touching her hand, arm around her shoulder, whispering in her hear and making sure your lips brush against her lobes. That sort of thing. Obviously not done when first running into a woman on the street but over time with practice you'll learn when the right time is.

But keep in mind that if you wait too long before first starting kino, it may come off as unatural. First and foremost, you want to be congruent with how you act.