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Friday, July 6, 2012

Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

The fact is, any red-blooded 85 year old man would make love to a teenage, 18 year-old girl if given half the chance and given her blessing.

And yes, it’s perfectly NORMAL to desire far younger women.

Any guy who says, “Oh I wouldn’t ever sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way.

Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women.

And women are most sexually fertile when they hit puberty at around age 14, and continuing into their early 20s.

As a man, you’re programmed over millions of years to be attracted to young women coming right into puberty, with their budding breasts and widening hips.

And most men, regardless of their age, are exclusively attracted to younger women.

You’re not going to see Hugh Hefner cavorting with 40 year olds, even though he’s over 80.

So it doesn’t make you “bad” or “creepy” to desire far younger women. Men have always secretly desired very young women and they always will, regardless of what others think of it.

Yet many will label an older man “a pervert” for even admitting he’s attracted to younger girls.

That’s ridiculous.

Advertisers rub hyper-sexualized, young women into our faces non-stop to sell products, and then society tells us it’s wrong and shameful to admit our desire for them.

If 18 year-old girls were attractive back when you were 18, why wouldn’t you still be attracted to them because you’re 40? Or 60? …or 80!

So ignore those who think there’s something wrong with being sexually attracted to younger women, even ‘barely legal’ women. It’s both natural and normal to sexually desire them, and you shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your natural desires as a man.

Instead, EMBRACE your God-given sexual desires and embrace your male sexuality. Make no apologies to anyone for it!

What Younger Girls Really Think About Older Men

And here’s why, as an older man, you can actually pick up younger women, far younger women like 15 or even 25 years younger than yourself, and why women actually like, and in many cases are looking for, older men.

Or when if you’re a younger guy, say 25 and you are attracted to that 18 year old hottie, you shouldn’t be self-conscious about going for her, or even if you’re 35 or 45 you can make it work.

In fact, it’s very normal for hot young girls to date older guys. And most women are dating or are married to older guys, and sometimes much older guys. This is fact. This is reality.

Because the attraction switches are different for women than it is for men. We’re looking for youth, appearance, looks in women. But women are attracted to a myriad of factors. They’re looking for a guy you leads, who can get physical with them which means your confident, and they’re looking for indications of status and power.

And looking older, particularly if you are still eating healthy and you workout and look halfway decent, is an indication to women of status and power. Age indicates maturity and decision making ability. And women are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability, and emotional maturity.

And every woman’s secret wish is to be taken care of. I don’t mean just economically, but to find a guy that unconditionally loves her, is faithful to her, gives her attention, and is dedicated to her and making the relationship playful, fun, and make it work.

And that’s not something most younger guys are really in a position to do. Younger guys are still sleeping around, aren’t faithful, aren’t into self-development or figuring out how to make relationships work. So most young girls are very disappointed in their relationships with young men. It’s full of drama and disappointment.

And these young girls feel an older man won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.

Why Young Girls Are Easier

And most older guys who are say 25 to 50 years old think of younger women as being age 25 to 30 or so. But actually, the very, very younger girls like ages 18 to 22 are sometimes the MOST attractive to older men.

In fact, a girl in her early 20’s is often easier to game than a girl in her late 20’s or early 30’s.

Because a 21 year old girl is just out to have fun, she’s looking to have new experience, and dating a much older man is just another one of those experiences she’s looking to have. She’s in that experimental age and she wants to explore.

But by the time a woman hits 30 and she’s still single, she’s feeling that biological clock ticking. They feel the pressure that they’re not so young anymore and that their beauty is fading. A woman is 29 or 30 or 31 is looking more for a man who’s closer to her own age because she’s more desperate now to settle down and get married and have kids.

So actually, if you’re an in-shape 45 year old, you can actually get more interest in many case from a woman who is 21, as opposed to a woman who is 31 who feels her youth slipping away and is more resistant to older men.

And as far as the younger girls, you know some of these girls ONLY want a guy their own age.

BUT these girls tend to not be as feminine and have lower sex drives. The more sexually open, sexually driven, crazy-for-experimentation driven, and hyper feminine and sexual girls tend to go for older men and bad boys. They tend to like older guys, and that type of young girls also is much better in bed.

So usually you have better luck with the more feminine, hyper sexual girls than the young girl who is more frumpy and unfeminine.



Older Men Are Better For Younger Women

And really, objectively, younger women are generally better off with older men.

You’ve got more to offer her. Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, more varied sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed.

In fact, studies show that the relationships that last, and marriages that are least likely to end in divorce, is when the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man. When the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man, relationships tend to be more stable.

So if you’re an older guy, and you take care of yourself physically, you’ve actually got some big advantages when it comes to getting far younger girls and you’re most likely a better fit for a younger girl than a boy her own age.

So don’t feel shy or shameful about desiring or seeking out younger women, it’s perfectly natural, good for you, and good for the girls too.


Older Guys – Avoid Being The “Nice Guy”!
 
Older guys especially get wrapped up in doing “Nice guy game” with younger women.

Nice guy game is looking for indicators of interest from the girl before you’ll talk to her or move forward.

Nice guy game is looking for permission to do anything with the girl.

Nice guy game is being too much of a sweet, sweet grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl.

Nice guy game is all light conversation, asking her questions, but there’s very little conversational leading or getting physical or touching the girl.

Nice guy game is all about reacting to the girl instead of physically leading the girl, or leading the conversation.

Nice guy game is all about trying to impress the girl by not doing anything wrong, instead of not giving a fuck what the girl thinks.

Nice guy game is all about being super friendly with a big smile on your face… but in a supplicating, kiss-her-ass kind of way.

And that’s the problem with older guys in particular, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational but not physical, they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.

And they’re just that nice older man to talk to, but ultimately kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like their Dad and not enough like a bad boy.

Basically, you have to run the same game at 35, at age 45, at age 55, at age 65, as if you were the bad boy kid at age 25. The game doesn’t change based on your age when you’re hitting younger girls.

And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue.

You’re not going to find any lines or outer game routines that makes it okay for you to approach younger girls. It’s all core attitude, beliefs, entitlement, vibe, and manhood that attracts both younger women and older women to you.

Don’t look for IOIs either

Particularly this waiting for permission or waiting for IOIs (“Indicators Of Interest” )from the younger girl will just sink you completely.

And that’s because, although younger women are attracted to older guys for what they can provide, like more maturity and experience and status and power, younger girls will generally NOT approach you or give you indicators of interest of permission. They make you do ALL the work.

And that’s because what holds a younger woman back, is not what she thinks of you being an older man, but fear of judgment from her friends and peers.

In the same way women fear being labeled sluts if they like to have sex, so they don’t act overtly sexual, they don’t want to be labeled negatively by their friends if they blatantly go after an older man by giving him all sorts of IOI signals to come on over.

So younger girls will generally HIDE their interest from older men for fear of being judged, even though it’s something they’d secretly like to try.

That’s why, as an older man, the ball is completely in YOUR court to go up and talk to the girl, to lead the conversation, and to lead her physically because the much younger girl will in general do nothing to help you. It’s all on you, and being the super nice guy, waiting for permission, light conversation man will generally get you nowhere with younger women.

An Easy Pick Up Formula To Attract Younger Hotties With Frames, Threads, and Nonverbals

An Easy Pick Up Formula To Attract Younger Hotties With Frames, Threads, and Nonverbals


So how do you seduce a girl – what is a good formula?

First, it started with Inner game—> which this is then outwardly expressed through body language, the sub-communication that all woman read.

Inner game and body language is what hits her reptilian circuitry to telegraph that we are the prize (or are of only miniscule size).

Finally comes “outer game”, which is used to tactfully lead a woman from point A to point B. Outer game is mainly used to handle contingencies and obstacles that will arise in social interactions.

However to execute the master plan you need attitude, confidence, and the belief that you will close the deal. So bottom line, project high status body language and an attitude nonverbally.

The Inner Game, or your attitude and body language, is by far the most important factor for seduction mastery in Night Clubs.

I want to talk about the importance of:

-Dominant Frame Control
-Adding value to open, engage, and attract women in mixed sets
-Multiple Thread Theory
-Importance of Leading and escalating the interaction with a woman

So let’s start with the most important concept,

Dominant Frame Control

Remember the one with the stronger belief system and reality dominates those in the vicinity.

What does this mean: Be contagious like cancer, suck the oxygen from the room. “All eyes on me baby” …Get it. Elvis has walked in and I am here to give all of you women my sexy offspring but first I am going to see if you have what it takes to interest me legitimately, offsetting the face value, make up and fake up induced stares that most guys fall trance to simply by a woman’s looks.

Also, when you walk into the club, act like you own the place. Socialize with everyone. Come as if you have your hands full already, like you’re already sexing 10′s , models, high class, A list women of exceptional quality and beauty.

See, what this does is when you talk to a woman, she can feel that you are pre-selected and are just here to have fun and bring the vibe and party to the others.

Remember, women can feel if you are sexy or not to others. When you are just out to fuck around, be playful, fluid, mis-interpret, and be ballsy, it implies a “chilled-out middle finger in the air mentality.” And believe me, women know and decide “Non verbally” before you even open them if you are sex-worthy.

That is why I advocate Inner Game. So beef up your body language and non verbal components. That is why the first phase of my 7 point model groups all of these nonverbal factors into their own phase called the “PRE OPENER – VALUE CALIBRATION” phase where we beef up our nonverbal value. How?

How To Build Nonverbal Value

-Chat up everyone.

-Flash Game – Have girls in your near vicinity engaged by you, embracing you.

-Laugh and vibe with your wing.

-Talk to everyone – ADD Value to other people’s lives.

-Remember the mentality “Don’t look for the party.” You bring the party to their lonesome soles.

-Talk to and engage women, then merge that set with a hotter set or just next the “Pivot” set for the set with the hotter women and it will open so much easily.

-Act as if you are already sexing two or three model-type women. You already got your hands full and are just here because you are bored. Let me ask you, if you had 9 bottles of coke in your fridge, would you care about scoring the tenth bottle? No.

-Misinterpret everything a woman says as wanting you, as wanting to take you home.
IF a woman shit tests you or acts rude, then laugh it off.

-Add value to the group; Remember you are the party and are bringing it to them, not going to them for the party.

-So, when you approach a group, bring value to them. Tell them cool stories that have DHV spikes that demonstrate your alpha traits indirectly to the women and subtly convey that you have higher value than the males in the set.

-Make the guys feel good about themselves but in a very smooth way that simultaneously raises your value in relation to theirs.

-Make the friends or cockblocks feel great about themselves.

-Actively show disinterest to the target, but at the same time… do not ignore her. That is not what group theory is about. You need to “bait her and keep her in set” by bait & hook comments like “Oh shit what is up with your hand”. Or “Hey let me ask you something daddy’s girl…”

A lot of guys make the mistake of completely ignoring the Object Of their Desire. This will make her bored and she will think that, you like the males and are gay or
like her average friends






How To Touch Escalate

Also lead the interaction and touch escalate. How do get a nice gradual touch escalation curve? Here is how:

First, touch her from the very beginning. SO you appear to be just a touch guy from the start and so when you touch her later, it doesn’t surprise or freak her out.

Also remember, you must escalate the interaction and LEAD HER.

She expects nothing less from you when given an open window. If you don’t take that window, you will be in the LJBF (Let’s just be friends) or even worse “DMS” (Dancing Monkey Syndrome).

A lot of guys spend too much wasted time and energy on attracting a woman. That is not needed. Especially in clubs, you don’t need long ass routines, just RFT (Rapid Fire Threads). A lot of it is your attitude, your playful vibe, your charismatic tone, body language and your non-excusing personality to get close to a woman and touch her that will attract her. Also smile, have piercing eye content, engage all sets, groups, win them over, be the loudest, coolest mofo on the block, and that’s it!

How To Build Connection And Comfort

And remember that attraction is only a means to get her to want to connect with you. It is not an end in itself.

For instance, when I get a positive vibe from a woman, I always lead her to the bar and move her around to get her used to the idea of…

Building comfort with me.
“Venue changing with me”
We get drinks together.
Or lead her by the hand to a couch.
Also you must lead her all the way around and through obstacles.


How To Lead A Woman

For instance, on Monday at this upscale lounge, I took my girl by the hand to the bar where a couple of lamo’s were trying to talk to her. So I grabbed her by the hand and turned her to face me and her back to them. She expected that, to be lead by touch and body movement. She went to buy a drink for her girlfriend at the bar and instead of letting her give her girl the drink, I said, “Here sweety I’ll give it to her”. This way I “locked her in” with the beer bottle. I know she will not go away. We went up to her girlfriend and after giving the drink, I had to disarm the obstacle. So after vibing with her for a bit, I said “Okay we (me and my girl) will be there. Come join us”

She was cool with that. Now my student, due to his lack of experience, wasn’t able to engage the friend and on top of that she was mercilessly being hit on by a crew of drunken’ British boys, so the logistics got a bit sticky. But here is the point.

-Always lead your woman
-Guide her
-Dominate the situation for her
-It is your job to keep you and her in a “bubble,” and move her down the seduction tunnel.

Another example, I ran into the two hot Vegas Deluxe show girls type models and just grabbed them and said, “Hi remember me. How are you guys. Come let’s finish our photo.” They were so into it. Then a whole bunch of guys started seeing me doing it and wanted to get their picture with the hotties, so I said girls “Go make ‘em happy… it will make his day I am sure”.

So after a quick snapshot, the other guys were trying to game them. I just grabbed my hotties by the arm, arms around both waist, led them close to me and SNAP! It was on. DO you guys see this… that you must lead, a woman is very turned on by a guy who

Dominates the situation with her
Demonstrates more alphaness and survival value and “infectiveness” to male competition.
Remember, lead the men and the women will follow.

Bottom line, I just took them, guided them, led them away, all with a stronger frame. I didn’t acknowledge anybody else in the vicinity or other guys, or anything else.

Multiple Thread Theory

The whole goal of a pick up is to move the girl from a non-sexual disposition to a playful, flirtations, and sexual direction. How do we do this without creeping her out? Multiple threading.

Here is what most men do:

Guy: “Hey girls, what color do you like pink or blue?”

Girl: “I like blue.”

Guy: “But why, blue is boring.”

Girl: “Yeah, but it is also…”

See how the guy is talking logically and boring her. He is setting up a very bland, friendly frame with her. So what he will do is sequence into asking her for her number… but with no sexual innuendos being implied, no flirtation, and no playfulness. She will feel awkward and will think he is socially inept.

Remember, you must turn the conversation from the opener into things that will make you flirt with her, turn it into a sexual direction, and make you close the space with her and touch her. Here is how it works:

Guy: “Hey girls, what color pink or blue?”

Girl: “Blue.”

Guy: “Oh my god… you are conservative aren’t you…? Goody two shoes…”

Girl: “Why do you say that?”

Guy: “I can see it in your water hands. Do you know you have water hands?”

Girl: “What is that?”

Guy: “Here give me your hands, let me show you… but first let me ask you… what do you have going on for you more than your looks? I mean you are cute but so what…”

See how you are multi-threading from the opener with each thread slowly getting closer to getting her contact info, an isolation, turning it sexual, intimate, and flirtatious?

How to Quickly

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