Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

Seduce Young Women Uncensored: Your Step By Step Guide

The fact is, any red-blooded 85 year old man would make love to a teenage, 18 year-old girl if given half the chance and given her blessing.

And yes, it’s perfectly NORMAL to desire far younger women.

Any guy who says, “Oh I wouldn’t ever sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way.

Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women.

And women are most sexually fertile when they hit puberty at around age 14, and continuing into their early 20s.

As a man, you’re programmed over millions of years to be attracted to young women coming right into puberty, with their budding breasts and widening hips.

And most men, regardless of their age, are exclusively attracted to younger women.

You’re not going to see Hugh Hefner cavorting with 40 year olds, even though he’s over 80.

So it doesn’t make you “bad” or “creepy” to desire far younger women. Men have always secretly desired very young women and they always will, regardless of what others think of it.

Yet many will label an older man “a pervert” for even admitting he’s attracted to younger girls.

That’s ridiculous.

Advertisers rub hyper-sexualized, young women into our faces non-stop to sell products, and then society tells us it’s wrong and shameful to admit our desire for them.

If 18 year-old girls were attractive back when you were 18, why wouldn’t you still be attracted to them because you’re 40? Or 60? …or 80!

So ignore those who think there’s something wrong with being sexually attracted to younger women, even ‘barely legal’ women. It’s both natural and normal to sexually desire them, and you shouldn’t be ashamed or embarrassed by your natural desires as a man.

Instead, EMBRACE your God-given sexual desires and embrace your male sexuality. Make no apologies to anyone for it!

What Younger Girls Really Think About Older Men

And here’s why, as an older man, you can actually pick up younger women, far younger women like 15 or even 25 years younger than yourself, and why women actually like, and in many cases are looking for, older men.

Or when if you’re a younger guy, say 25 and you are attracted to that 18 year old hottie, you shouldn’t be self-conscious about going for her, or even if you’re 35 or 45 you can make it work.

In fact, it’s very normal for hot young girls to date older guys. And most women are dating or are married to older guys, and sometimes much older guys. This is fact. This is reality.

Because the attraction switches are different for women than it is for men. We’re looking for youth, appearance, looks in women. But women are attracted to a myriad of factors. They’re looking for a guy you leads, who can get physical with them which means your confident, and they’re looking for indications of status and power.

And looking older, particularly if you are still eating healthy and you workout and look halfway decent, is an indication to women of status and power. Age indicates maturity and decision making ability. And women are attracted to an older man’s accomplishments, economic stability, and emotional maturity.

And every woman’s secret wish is to be taken care of. I don’t mean just economically, but to find a guy that unconditionally loves her, is faithful to her, gives her attention, and is dedicated to her and making the relationship playful, fun, and make it work.

And that’s not something most younger guys are really in a position to do. Younger guys are still sleeping around, aren’t faithful, aren’t into self-development or figuring out how to make relationships work. So most young girls are very disappointed in their relationships with young men. It’s full of drama and disappointment.

And these young girls feel an older man won’t break their hearts the way younger men have done; they believe that an older man will have the commitment and the willingness required for a long term relationship.

Why Young Girls Are Easier

And most older guys who are say 25 to 50 years old think of younger women as being age 25 to 30 or so. But actually, the very, very younger girls like ages 18 to 22 are sometimes the MOST attractive to older men.

In fact, a girl in her early 20’s is often easier to game than a girl in her late 20’s or early 30’s.

Because a 21 year old girl is just out to have fun, she’s looking to have new experience, and dating a much older man is just another one of those experiences she’s looking to have. She’s in that experimental age and she wants to explore.

But by the time a woman hits 30 and she’s still single, she’s feeling that biological clock ticking. They feel the pressure that they’re not so young anymore and that their beauty is fading. A woman is 29 or 30 or 31 is looking more for a man who’s closer to her own age because she’s more desperate now to settle down and get married and have kids.

So actually, if you’re an in-shape 45 year old, you can actually get more interest in many case from a woman who is 21, as opposed to a woman who is 31 who feels her youth slipping away and is more resistant to older men.

And as far as the younger girls, you know some of these girls ONLY want a guy their own age.

BUT these girls tend to not be as feminine and have lower sex drives. The more sexually open, sexually driven, crazy-for-experimentation driven, and hyper feminine and sexual girls tend to go for older men and bad boys. They tend to like older guys, and that type of young girls also is much better in bed.

So usually you have better luck with the more feminine, hyper sexual girls than the young girl who is more frumpy and unfeminine.



Older Men Are Better For Younger Women

And really, objectively, younger women are generally better off with older men.

You’ve got more to offer her. Maybe you can’t have sex 3 times a day like you did when you were 21, but you offer stability, wisdom, comfort, meaningful companionship, more varied sex… far more so than a young guy who isn’t developed.

In fact, studies show that the relationships that last, and marriages that are least likely to end in divorce, is when the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man. When the woman is 10 to 15 years younger than the man, relationships tend to be more stable.

So if you’re an older guy, and you take care of yourself physically, you’ve actually got some big advantages when it comes to getting far younger girls and you’re most likely a better fit for a younger girl than a boy her own age.

So don’t feel shy or shameful about desiring or seeking out younger women, it’s perfectly natural, good for you, and good for the girls too.


Older Guys – Avoid Being The “Nice Guy”!
 
Older guys especially get wrapped up in doing “Nice guy game” with younger women.

Nice guy game is looking for indicators of interest from the girl before you’ll talk to her or move forward.

Nice guy game is looking for permission to do anything with the girl.

Nice guy game is being too much of a sweet, sweet grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl.

Nice guy game is all light conversation, asking her questions, but there’s very little conversational leading or getting physical or touching the girl.

Nice guy game is all about reacting to the girl instead of physically leading the girl, or leading the conversation.

Nice guy game is all about trying to impress the girl by not doing anything wrong, instead of not giving a fuck what the girl thinks.

Nice guy game is all about being super friendly with a big smile on your face… but in a supplicating, kiss-her-ass kind of way.

And that’s the problem with older guys in particular, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational but not physical, they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.

And they’re just that nice older man to talk to, but ultimately kind of boring to a younger girl because it’s too much like their Dad and not enough like a bad boy.

Basically, you have to run the same game at 35, at age 45, at age 55, at age 65, as if you were the bad boy kid at age 25. The game doesn’t change based on your age when you’re hitting younger girls.

And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue.

You’re not going to find any lines or outer game routines that makes it okay for you to approach younger girls. It’s all core attitude, beliefs, entitlement, vibe, and manhood that attracts both younger women and older women to you.

Don’t look for IOIs either

Particularly this waiting for permission or waiting for IOIs (“Indicators Of Interest” )from the younger girl will just sink you completely.

And that’s because, although younger women are attracted to older guys for what they can provide, like more maturity and experience and status and power, younger girls will generally NOT approach you or give you indicators of interest of permission. They make you do ALL the work.

And that’s because what holds a younger woman back, is not what she thinks of you being an older man, but fear of judgment from her friends and peers.

In the same way women fear being labeled sluts if they like to have sex, so they don’t act overtly sexual, they don’t want to be labeled negatively by their friends if they blatantly go after an older man by giving him all sorts of IOI signals to come on over.

So younger girls will generally HIDE their interest from older men for fear of being judged, even though it’s something they’d secretly like to try.

That’s why, as an older man, the ball is completely in YOUR court to go up and talk to the girl, to lead the conversation, and to lead her physically because the much younger girl will in general do nothing to help you. It’s all on you, and being the super nice guy, waiting for permission, light conversation man will generally get you nowhere with younger women.

Do you ever “run out of things to say” to a girl?

Do you ever “run out of things to say” to a girl?


Well, it doesn’t really matter WHAT you say.

It truly doesn’t.

This is from my own experience: what you say, the actual words you use, is NOT what creates the attraction.

First of all, attraction is largely nonverbal.

It’s how you stand, your posture.

It’s whether you’re using trying-for-rapport tonality or breaking rapport tonality.

It’s whether you touch the girl right away in some manner and demonstrate to her that you’re comfortable with touch escalation.

It’s whether you’re coming from a needy place of trying to impress the girl, or whether you’re just cool and calm and trust in yourself.

So it’s everything like body language, eye contact, tonality, projection, where you’re coming from… THESE are the factors that ACTUALLY convey what you’re saying to the girl.

How Men Talk

When men talk to each other it tends to be more informational. Like one guy asks a straight question, and the other guy answers. Or one guy makes a statement and the second guy adds to it.

Like, “Hey did you see that new iPad from Apple?”

And the other guys says, “Yeah I was at the Apple store last week and did this and this and that on it!”

So question and answer. Or statements that relate to each other.



That’s how men talk.

But it’s NOT how women talk.







How Women Talk



When you talk to a girl, instinctually you go in the direction of being very logical with her. And so you think to yourself, “Uh man, I need to say the ‘right thing’ that will impress her. I need to logically pull out the logical thing that will logically make her attracted to me.” Right?

But actually, women like it when what you’re saying is more all over the place, randomly disconnected, doesn’t really make sense from A to B.

Because it’s more exciting that way to girls. It keeps them guessing what you’re going to say next. You’re not trying to impress them or kiss their ass. And if you speak dominantly with breaking-rapport tonality and loud projection, it’s very attractive to women.

So more fluff talk.

Vibing.

Talking about what you find interesting and being passionate about that, even if it’s a “boring” topic.

Jumping around from topic to topic. And so on.



The Mistake Of Talking About What SHE Likes


Another big mistake is trying to find out what SHE likes and talking about THAT.

First of all, trying to talk about the girl’s interests to make her like you, is a subtle form of kiss-ass approval seeking.

And if you’re too interested in everything about her, she’ll pick up that you’re a “nice guy” who is needy and grasping for her approval and for sex from her.

And you have this problem of seeming incongruent. Because you’re not really interested in much of what she has to say, you’re only interested because she’s a cute girl and you want her to like you. Otherwise you wouldn’t be there wasting your time listening to her.

So if she’s talking about something stupid her friends said and did, and you don’t really care, and she goes on and on about it, and you pretend like you’re interested, you’re going to get bored.

And if you are getting bored, through state transference, the energy will fall in the room, and she’ll get bored too.




Talk About What YOU Find Interesting


So you want to stick with things that YOU find interesting, even if they’re about computers or philosophers or economics or travel, and speak with some PASSION.

When you talk about things YOU like, you never run out of things to say.

When you’re speaking with passion, through state transference, she’ll FEEL that passion. The girl wants to FEEL your passion, your leadership. And as long as you’re interested and engaged and leading the conversation, in other words charismatic, she’ll be engaged and interested as well!

And that’s why you have complete license to talk about ANYTHING. If you find it interesting to YOURSELF, and you can speak from a place of passion.

Maybe it’s your bug collection. It doesn’t matter. When you’re passionate about that, about whatever it is, that’s what makes you unique, it makes you real and authentic, and therefore CUTE.

So the topic doesn’t matter. It’s what’s coming through behind the words in your passions.

In other words, women don’t care about WHAT you like.

They just want you to like SOMETHING.



Lower Your Criteria For “What’s Good”


So that means you need to lower your criteria of what is okay to talk about. It doesn’t need to be a string of all of these value-conveying super duper routines that you memorize.

Like you don’t want to say to the girl, “Oh yeah, last weekend I drove my ex-girlfriend who worked at a strip club to this off the hook party and I spotted Keanu Reeves there and it was off the hook…”

None of that really happened and the ex-girlfriend stripper doesn’t exist, they’re just these routines to convey your value to the girl and that you’re cool.

Just doing that is a form of kiss-assing, of approval seeking, of neediness and grasping. You don’t come across as real or authentic and you go inside your head trying to pull out “right thing to say to impress her.”

So screw that! Just say something more like, “Yeah I went to the movies last night and saw Avatar. And I was really impressed with the new technologies they used to do that. And did you know that James Cameron designed a special camera just for that movie to capture realistic movements on actors and convert that to computer graphics.”

And speak with interest and passion about it.

Speak in statements so that you’re leading and sure of yourself. Trust whatever you say is the coolest thing on the planet.

And then jump topics, keep her guessing where you’re going.

“Oh yeah, I made this weird salad last night…”


What Random Thread Jumping Conveys


When you’re just jumping around from topic to topic, talking about what you like, what does that say about you?

Are you trying to impress her and kiss her ass?

No.

It says that you’re completely cool being yourself, being a real guy, in front of a girl of her level of beauty.

It says you’re entitled to that and you’re confident.

So talk about what YOU like. Talk random stupid stuff. And that’s way more authentic than trying to impress the girl with how much money you make and your job or what cities you’ve been to or trying to be overly interested in what she likes.

You see now… your words don’t matter!


How To Handle Silences


Sometimes you get to that “dreaded” silence where you’re thinking to yourself, “Okay, what do I say now to impress this girl?? What do I say now to continue making her like me?? What do I say now that will be really funny and keep her continuously laughing???”

Or you have the girl pumped in the first few minutes, and then it just seems like the conversation begins to wane, lose its energy, or just transition into a normal friendly conversation where all sexual tension is lost and pretty soon it starts to feel uncomfortable.

Now, the reason guys run out of things to say or don’t know what to say next is because their mind, cranking away, is very much focused on “How am I going to IMPRESS the girl? What is the right thing to say to IMPRESS her???”

So your mind is constantly calculating out of fear, trying to force perfection to come out of your mouth, like you’re on a job interview with a very critical boss who is scrutinizing your every response.

So every one of your thoughts goes through the filter, “Is THIS cool enough to say? Nah. What about this? No, I need something cooler. What about this. Okay I’ll try that, that might impress her.”

And there’s too much delay, too much lag between your words and sentences.

And not only is everything you’re saying filtered and conservative, but it comes across as slightly stiff and forced, like you have to go back inside your head to make sure that you can impress the girl, and the girl picks up on that.

It’s a subtle form of supplication, of kissing ass, and the girl can sense that you’re stifled with her and that you see her as being higher value than yourself.


Again, It’s HOW You Speak, Not What You Say


So to get out of this rut and be able to speak with 100% confidence like a really cool guy, the first thing to understand is that HOW your speak is far more important than the actual words you’re using.

So how loud you speak, speaking in neutral and breaking rapport tonality, your eye contact, your body language, says a lot more about how attractive you are than the words you’re using, and the words are just an excuse to display these nonverbal cues.

So when you let go of trying to impress the girl, and just speak unfiltered about what YOU want or whatever comes to your mind… even if it’s how you got dressed that morning or “boring” subjects like what you ate that day…

It allows you to let go enough to focus on the nonverbals like speaking loudly, proper tonality, strong eye contact which conveys confidence and the conversation will go GREAT because the woman is reading your nonverbals behind what you’re saying.

And that’s what makes you attractive.

That, and that you’re not trying to impress her. You’re not putting her up on a pedestal.


Trying To Impress Girls Doesn’t Work


For instance, if I feel I need to impress her by talking about getting a carwash for my car, or my ex girlfriend who was a model, or my trip to Costa Rica, in effect you’re putting the girl up on a pedestal.

But if you walk about how you lost your sock in the laundry, how you ate at an Indian buffet and your stomach almost burst and what the food was like… that’s actually much STRONGER stories, because counter-intuitively they make you look much cooler.

First, they make you seem real and authentic to the girl, and that builds more trust and comfort with the girl, because you’re connecting on a real level.

And second, it tells the girl you’re not trying to impress her. In fact, you talk to hot girls all the time and it isn’t a big deal to talking to her WHATSOEVER in ANY WAY so you feel perfectly find and confident talking about any mundane, normal nonsense.

That’s why you can really lower the bar of what you can say and actually come across as far more real, authentic, and attractive to the girl.

AND it allows you to focus more on your nonverbals like proper volume, sexy tonality, and eye contact instead.

And since you’re not trying to come up with “the perfect thing to say” always, you don’t run out of things to say, because you’re lowering the bar of what’s acceptable.

And that’s win-win-win-win all the way around.