Speed dating

How to succeed at speed dating

Speed dating is one of the easiest, fastest and most fun ways to meet a lot of women in a single evening.

If you’ve never tried speed dating before, it’s a little bit similar to the game called ‘musical chairs’. Basically, the women are seated at tables and the men rotate around the room until each man and woman has had a chance to meet each other. You will sit and talk to a woman for about 5 to 10 minutes and then you’ll hear a signal that tells you it’s time to switch and you’ll move to the next woman.

Each person is given a ‘score card’ and if you like a woman (or several women) and would like to get their contact information, you will mark their name(s) on the card. And if those same women also have an interest in seeing you again, they will mark your name down.

At the end of the speed dating event or soon after, the event’s organizers will compare the cards. If the women you meet are also interested in you, you will each get the other’s contact information (e-mail or phone number). And then you contact the woman to talk further or to arrange a date.

However, if she likes you but you weren’t attracted to her or vice-versa, then neither of you will receive the other’s contact information. No rejection worries there. These events are often held at bars or clubs and there’s usually a nominal fee to participate. You can find speed dating events in your area advertised in your local newspaper or the Internet.

The best part is that if you’re not feeling it with a particular woman, your ‘date’ will only last a few minutes. Plus, even if you have to talk to a woman you’re not interested in, it’s a great way to get you relaxed and ready to talk to a woman you do you like. Okay, now that you know the basics, let’s get down to how to succeed at speed dating.

Of course you’ll want to look your best. That doesn’t mean you have to wear a suit (unless it’s appropriate to the event), but you do want to wear something nice and be properly groomed.

Since the women will be meeting many men, you’ll want to make a memorable first impression. This is the perfect time to stand out from the crowd by using your sense of humor and teasing her a bit. Just be sure not to use the same jokes and teases with each girl since you often will be sitting close to the last woman you spoke with and if she overhears you, you don’t want her to think that you were giving her a line. Lines are lame.

To come up with some funny to say, you might notice what a girl is wearing and say (with a smile), “That’s looks like an expensive outfit. I don’t know – you look kind of high maintenance to me…” Or you might take a similar tact and say something like, “My wife forced me to do this…she’s at home waiting to see how man yes’s I get…”

The point is to tease her, shock her, say something funny and throw her off her game a bit so she laughs and remembers you.

The subject of what you do for a living will invariably come up. This is another chance to stand out and not give a boring recitation of what you do for a living. For instance, if you are a construction worker, you might say something like, “I play in the dirt all day and build things…” Or if you’re an accountant, you might answer, “I make sure that the numbers add up and I help people to get rich.” If you’re a student, you might comment, “I spend my day working on my future…”

No matter what you do, just figure out a way to discuss your occupation in an interesting and unusual manner. Remember, you’re not at a job interview, so don’t hog the conversation and don’t be formal – it’s supposed to be fun and interesting. Get her to talk about herself and listen to what she’s saying.

Even if you’re not attracted to the woman you’re talking with and spot someone more striking a few tables over, don’t keep glancing over at the other woman. You’ll get to her soon enough. Women rarely attend these events by themselves and that gorgeous gal you’ve been eyeing, might turn out to be the friend of the girl you’re ignoring. When they compare notes later, if the beautiful woman thinks you were rude to her friend, even if it was because she was the object of your attention, you’re probably going to be a goner. So focus on the woman you’re with. It’s good practice and good manners.

When you’ve been talking to a woman you do like and you realize that your time is going to be up, smile and say, “Finally – I get to talk to someone else! That was the worst 10 minutes of my life!” Then tell you’re kidding and say, “No, I’ve enjoyed talking to you…you seem pretty cool. We should chat again sometime” and get up and leave.

It’s just that easy. Why not give speed dating a chance and practice your skills with women?

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The Art of Approaching Women

 All men want to be able to talk freely with women.  It’s the first step to winning their hearts, getting them to go on a date with you, or getting them to go home with you.  However, approaching a woman has to be one of the most daunting tasks there is. 

You may second-guess yourself, stutter, say something stupid or inappropriate, and fail to impress her. 

You may be afraid that she’ll laugh at you instead of with you or turn you down before giving you a chance. 

Mastering the art of approaching women is one way to get over all of those insecurities and fears.  Below, find a lot of helpful tips to use when approaching any new woman for the first time.

First impressions are everything, so think carefully about the first words you say to a woman.  The best approach is to always say something genuine.  Don’t spout out clichéd pick-up lines like “what’s your sign?”  These overused lines are the most unoriginal thing out there. 

More often than not, they fail to grab a woman’s attention because they’ve heard them before.  Of course, some men can’t think of anything else to say.  If you have to use a well-known pick-up line, then try to have an original delivery.  Getting a woman to laugh while using an old pick-up line will help you get your foot in the door.

A better approach than pick-up lines is to compliment the girl.  Don’t act sleazy while you do it, though.  If you approach a woman and obviously check her out while telling her she looks hot, she may feel insulted. 

It’s because no woman likes to be looked at as if she’s a piece of meat you want to sink your teeth into.  However, if you approach her and smile and compliment her hair, her eyes, or her outfit, you may really flatter her.  Telling her that you couldn’t resist coming over to talk to her is another good approach. 

If nothing else, it’ll get her talking and give you a chance to learn her name.  She may even lead the conversation from there, which takes away the pressure of finding a topic of conversation.

Doing a little research before you approach a girl is never a bad idea.  If you’re at a store and you see her in line, take the time to examine what she’s buying.  If it’s a movie or CD you know something about, you can approach her and tell her what a good purchase she’s making and then introduce yourself.  

If you spot her at a bar and she’s ordering a certain kind of drink, then pay attention to when she finishes it.  Then you can buy her a second one and use it as an excuse to approach her.  Of course, buying her a drink doesn’t guarantee that she’ll want to talk to you, so don’t expect anything from it. 

However, it’s a good way to get her attention.  If she’s at a sports game and cheering for a certain team, you can either cheer with her or lightly tease her for supporting the wrong team (depending on which side you’re rooting for).

Why does doing a little research first work?  When approaching a woman, starting a conversation is often the hardest thing to do.  Once the two of you start talking, everything is fine.  So, if you approach her and bring up a topic you know she’s interested in, it’s much easier than if you go in blind. 

So, use your powers of observation to figure out something she may like to talk about.  Don’t listen in to her conversations or overtly stare at her all night trying to figure it out, but some subtle “research” can’t hurt you.

Another important tip to remember when approaching women is that confidence is key.  Even if you’re completely nervous, you have to work up the confidence to approach her.  Be brave and you won’t stumble over your words and embarrass yourself.  

A friendly smile can show this confidence, even if you don’t feel it.  And as long as the woman sees that you look confident, she’ll be impressed.

Along with confidence, you need to master some basic rules.  Don’t appear too needy or clingy.  Don’t hang all over her or invade her personal space.  Approaching women is an art form because you have to learn how close is too close and know when to back off. 

A good rule of thumb is to stand a foot or so away from the woman and speak clearly.  However, if you speak a little quietly, she may lean into you to hear you, which means she gets to choose how close you get.  Letting the woman take control is a great approach.

Finally, you have to realize that you won’t always have a successful approach.  Some women won’t be won over by your charms.  There can be many reasons for this – she’s already taken, she’s just out with the girls tonight, she’s just had a bad break up – but it doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you.  

If you have one failed approach, don’t let that stop you.  If at first you don’t succeed, try again with a different woman.

For most men, practice makes perfect.  Not all women will react to your approach in a manner you desire, but that doesn’t mean you should ever quit.  Put yourself out there and use the above tips to conquer your fears.  A lot of women will respond if you are genuine and if you act natural. 

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