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Wednesday, July 4, 2012

Tips to Seduce Women


Tips to Seduce Women 
5 Easy Tips !!


Transitioning from talking to a girl to having sex with her can be a difficult process.

While it's easy to engage a woman in a conversation, it can be hard to move things into the bedroom and get more intimate. Unless you come across that rare woman, you'll need to learn the art of seduction.

So if you're having problems getting a girl to have sex with you, have no fear!

All you need to seduce a woman is the proper technique and a bit of practice. Today, I'll provide you with five tips to seduce women. If you take the time to learn each and implement them when you're with a woman, you'll find it's pretty easy to make things more intimate.

Let's get started...

Tip 1- Make her attracted to you

Before you can seduce a woman, you have to make sure she's attracted to you. Without this, the other tips to seduce women won't help. So it all starts here!

When you're talking to her, flirt heavily and introduce the topic of sex into your conversation. Also, don't be afraid to tease and fun with her.

The more relaxed she is in your presence, the easier it'll be to seduce her.

Tip 2- Initiate physical contact

This is one of the most important tips to seduce women!

During your conversation, touch her when you want to make a point. In addition, initiate physical contact as much as you can without going overboard.

Seduction is not about whipping your clothes off and jumping in the sack. It's about building attraction and chemistry.

By initiating physical contact, you're getting her comfortable with you. If she keeps on shying away when touching, then that means she's probably not interested in you in as a sexual partner.


Tip 3- Move things to a private location

Again this one of those tips to seduce women that has to be done before the last two can work.

In order to seduce her, you have to be in a location where you can do the deed. Unless you like the idea of having sex in the middle of a bar, you need to move things back to one of your places.

Now in order to do this, she has to trust you!

So when you're flirting with her in your conversation, work on being trustworthy. Don't do or say anything off the wall. The more she trusts you, the easier it is to seduce her.

If she knows you won't bite (unless she asks), then it'll be fairly easy to move things to a private spot.


Tip 4- Kiss her passionately 

After you're in a private spot, it's time to start making things more physical. Here's how to do it...

Once you've been touching her and see the signs that she's attracted, you can kiss her. Now it's important to go slowly and not ram your tongue down her throat.

Instead, kiss her slowly and lightly. Then when you see her respond, you can make things more intense.


Tip 5- Build up the intensity

To conclude these tips to seduce women, you'll move from kissing her to having sex.
After kissing her for awhile, start to tease her. Kiss her neck, nibble a little bit on her neck and lightly pull her hair.
Your focus here is to do all you can to her on. So take your time and concentrate on HER pleasure, not yours.After teasing, you can start with other means of foreplay. If you've done the previous steps properly, it'll be easy to transition into having sex with her.

Just remember to take your time and build things up slowly.If you follow these five tips to seduce women, you'll find it's easy to have sex with a woman.

Sunday, July 1, 2012

How to Seduce Women: Seduction Techniques

How to Seduce Women: Seduction Techniques 

1-SEDUCTION 

This is one of the words I've tried to stay away from. I also don't like talking about "seduction techniques" either. Why? Mostly because I always felt that "seduction" had a bad meaning underneath it. It sounds like sneakiness and angry male behavior, honestly. And I've also never felt that learning "seduction" or "seduction techniques" is what men REALLY wanted. But then I came to a realization... The first thing I realized is that most guys are actually very ethical about pursuing women. We're not trying to harm or manipulate women, even when we're talking about 'seducing' women. We really do want to please women - and ourselves - by being the kind of confident man she wants. We all feel validation when a girl likes us back. It's what we all want. And when a guy wants to know how to seduce women, he's actually talking about the same things I teach, but we're just using different words. You see, when guys want to learn a seduction technique, they're not really talking about "seduction" at all... They're talking about creating gut-level ATTRACTION POWERFUL, hypnotizing attraction techniques. The kind of techniques that get a woman's attention like a clap of thunder... 

The kind that makes a woman's heart stop for a beat or two, and the man instantly becomes the center of her attention. This kind of attraction also lasts long after the night ends. She's thinking about him constantly. And the key word here is "powerful" because that's what men love to feel. Like we've got a mysterious POWER over women.

 This is the kind of seduction that a woman actually WANTS from a man, believe it or not. However, most women will not like the term seduction. The same way they don't like the term "pickup artist." After all, a pickup artist is simply an "Attraction Artist." But we guys like the title of "PUA," don't we? It's like the King of Seduction walked up and said, "I confer upon thee the title Pickup Artist!" :) Now I'm going to get to some specific ways you can create that kind of attraction with women in just a minute, but first let's agree on what seduction techniques should do, and how you can seduce women in an ethical way. 

The most important thing I teach men is how to be a better man by choosing methods that you don't have feel creepy or ashamed of. Seduction techniques should do the following 2 things for you: 1. They have to be simple and easy to use. Most guys don't have the time or the interest to learn all these huge systems to seduce women, and all these thousands of seduction techniques. We might want to be an expert, but we need something to just get us going, quick and easy. If we can just meet women, start attraction, and keep it going, you know the rest takes care of itself. 

2. They have to be AUTHENTIC. You don't want to feel like a creepy guy that just learned some slick lines to scam women into liking him. Even the guy that's out there using a ton of "routines" and scripts - this guy wants to come up with his own genuine attractive persona that women will respond to NATURALLY. But sometimes you have to memorize a few things that will get you by. Nothing wrong with that. Because if you're at all like me, you probably just had NO idea where to start, and all you want is just an example of WHAT it is that naturally attractive guys say to women, right? And THAT is why I'm not the kind of guy that will give you some lame ass advice about how you should "never" use anything you've memorized or rehearsed. What I advise is that you should never rely *ONLY* on memorized routines. That's when you're fake, and women won't respond to it. Be REAL with women and you'll have much more success. And let's be clear: this is NOT the same thing as "just be yourself." So now let's get going on the seduction techniques (or attraction techniques) that a confident Alpha Man can use to get women... 

SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 1: Don't try to be the clever 'player' guy. Yeah, you know him. He's the guy with the fake front that he always puts on with women. Sometimes with guys, too. He ACTS confident, but you can tell that it's just a thin mask because he's trying so hard to look like he knows he's cool and that he can get any woman he wants. He practically wears a t-shirt that says: "Yeah, I seduce women, and they love it!" I saw a guy like this at a party last week, and he had this five-o-clock shadow, the "hip" t-shirt, and that swagger that just makes you want to throw up. Again, this is what is know as BRAVADO. It's showing off, which screams out "I'm REALLY insecure! But if I'm if I'm loud enough, you won't know the difference!" But we do. This is what you might have heard of as "selling the sizzle, not the steak."

SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 2: Don't be too "planned out." The kind of seduction techniques that feel best to girls are the ones where the conversation really feels like it's happening in real-time. This means that while you can memorize a FEW clever things to say, the best approach is not to try to memorize a lot of stuff, no matter how cool it might sound when you read it. First of all because the second you feel ANY stress or anxiety, you'll immediately go blank in your head. I'm sure you've had this happen enough to know what I mean. Most guys go blank when they DON'T memorize something, so it seems to make sense that when you memorize a few things, you'll conquer this problem. But it doesn't really work, does it? In fact that leads to my second point, which is that if you memorize too much stuff to say, she'll see when you start digging back into your head for clever lines or things to say. 

Here's my rule for memorizing. It's so simple, you don't even have to memorize my rule because it's so damn simple! CARLOS' RULE FOR MEMORIZING SEDUCTION MATERIAL: You only need ONE approach, ONE fun thing to talk about, and ONE close to meet any woman out there. ONE of each. Not ten! The more options you try to use, the more you confuse yourself and trip yourself up. By the way, one of the easiest techniques I know of to have a lot of cool stuff to talk about without having to memorize it is to watch a lot of movies, and maybe a couple funny television shows. You can use the plots and the clever "catch phrases" to spice up your conversation anytime. Just use the fun & funny stuff, not the obscure lines that Bruce Willis used in the old "Die Hard" movies, okay? 

SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 3: The secret to getting a woman attracted to you is being able to ask the right QUESTIONS. We're often told that we need to know the right answer for everything a woman says to get attraction started. If you know how to ANSWER her the right way, she'll realize that she wants you, right? First she tests you... ...and then you respond. But that's not really true, and it's one of the big mistakes in pickup today. Your job is to lead the conversation - all the time, not wait to react to the woman. If you just wait to give her clever responses, no matter how cool they are, it sends a hidden signal to her that you're reacting to her. Again, a woman knows when you're reactive rather than PROactive. By learning a whole bunch of witty comebacks, you're just setting yourself up to be the passive one in the interaction. You'll be led around by your nose, until you make a mistake. Women respond most to initiative. The secret key to conversations that seduce women is to know how and WHEN to ask a woman questions to get into deep rapport with her. Questions are the power tool of conversations. The sad fact is that deep rapport is a skill that most guys never learn, and it's the most powerful technique to seduce women you can possibly use. Because, ultimately, the amount of trust she feels for you will ultimately determine whether you seduce her, or you get shot down yet again. 

 SEDUCE WOMEN TIP 4: Learn how to touch women correctly. Once you get past all the "talk" and chit-chat (and even DURING it), a woman has to feel your physical presence. This is the element that will push her over the top into seduction. You may hear this talked about as "kino" or "kinesthetics," and it's just another bit of pickup jargon that means project your confidence with your physical presence. It's the way you stand, the way you walk, and how you communicate underneath your words. It's how close you stand at the right - or wrong - time. And once you get the hang of it (it's super easy, man), you'll know what I mean. You know, there was a time I felt ashamed and completely trapped in my inability with women. I was weak and supplicating. I came on way too strong with the girls I dated, and I drove them all off. The more women I dated, the more I scared away, and the sicker I felt inside. I got desperate, man. Trapped in that sense of futility that I could never learn what it was that got women attracted to me. There was even one woman I was on a date with that some people actually saw what I was doing and laughed at me from across a parking lot. I kid you not. I felt like a complete loser. It was humiliating. I'm pissed just talking about this, but it's important for you to know. I promised myself that would never happen again, to me or any other guy I could help. I've created some home study courses that will get you past a lot of this pain and fear, and a LOT of the rejection. 

Whether you want to talk about seducing women or attracting women, or learning seduction techniques versus learning attraction tactics, it's all the same thing. Learning how to be the man you want to be to get the girl you want. You can learn the skills of "seduction" or attraction - or whatever you want to call it. And never feel that frustration again...

Friday, June 29, 2012

How to Get a Girlfriend

How to Seduce a Woman

How to Get a Girlfriend


 

Manage your image. Before you can seduce a girl, you must have a good, positive image. Make friends and be charming with every one you come in contact with. Never hesitate to tell one person what you admire about another, as it will eventually reach that person and appear undoubtedly genuine. Never argue (arguing is anti-seduction). No girl can resist a guy whom everyone likes, unless she's the type to rebel against popular opinion just because it's popular opinion (in which case the remainder of the steps will probably wear her down).

Subtly reveal your human side with talk of taboo and sexuality. If you cannot insinuate, skip this step. When you talk about sex, say it in a way that Shakespeare would approve of. For example, "Sleep is my second favorite thing to do in bed" or "my neighbors are noisy during the day, but that's okay because they put up with me at night."

Do the opposite of what other guys do. If the girl is drop-dead gorgeous, ignore her. After hearing about your rakish reputation, she will wonder why you are not attracted to her. If other guys ignore her, shower her with the attention she has been craving. 

Do not hint that other girls like you. Women hold each other's opinions very highly and they get jealous easily. Yes women get jealous easily but their jealousy will cause them to become moody , non-tolerant and distant when around you. If you hint that plenty of women like you, you will be seen as a Playboy and not taken seriously. Women like to feel like they are the only ones in the world and many desired. They prefer to be chased not the chaser. Hinting that other women like you in a major turn-off.

 Speak seductively. Never start a conversation focused on work, school, MySpace, family, TV shows, or other everyday things. Never talk about yourself. Talk about exotic vacation spots, mythology, sex (sometimes), history, astrology, dreams, fate, and anything else pleasurable and intangible. Don't express any opinions except for your preference for pleasurable things and for things that she likes. Keep a powerful gaze while talking about these things. The eyes are very important.

Never apologize. Never worry when you are talking with a girl, because it will be written all over your face and interpreted as a sign of timidness, which, for many girls, is a turn-off.

Show strategic weakness (optional). This step is optional, but it will speed up the seduction. If you naturally come off as weak, skip this step. For more masculine guys, a flash of weakness and sensitivity will make you seem honest, romantic, harmless, and more akin to a girl's idea of "the one." All girls are frightened of guys on some level. The more feminine and skittish the girl is, the more necessary this step is. The key to performing this step correctly is to bend the truth. Don't talk about breakups or events that you really are sensitive about. As with dancing, it is your job to lead. Don't lead her into a depressing discussion topic. Add a masculine angle to feminine subjects. A good idea would be to say, "yeah, I watched The Notebook. I liked how he didn't give up hope after he saw her with the other guy."

Give her plenty of space. There are bound to be things about you that she doesn't like. Give her time to forget about those things and fantasize about the good things you have to offer.
Make her laugh. When a woman laughs, she feels more relaxed and lowers her defenses (and inhibitions).
Touch her. Reach for her hands, hair, shoulders, ankles, and back. Don't just always wait for her to do it first. If she doesn't like it, she'll definitely let you know. But touching someone communicates to them that you find them attractive, and also that you're reasonably confident. Both of these things can make someone feel more attracted to you.

Make her feel irresistible, like you have to restrain yourself around her. Try it by telling her something seductive, starting with rejection of this desirable thing - ex. "Please don't wear short skirt tonight, as I will not resist the temptation!" or something like that "Please don't touch me like that, cause I like it more than I should!" She'll probably keep doing it (consider it a form of reverse psychology).


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