Monday, July 23, 2012

How to attract younger Women if You’re A Much Older Guy


So you’re an older guy – perhaps much older – and you want to meet far younger women. It IS possible, so here’s the problem and the solution…

Most older gentlemen simply look OLD and don’t feel entitled to chasing women. They don’t do cold approaches are they’re just super-duper nice and they hide their true intent.

And if you’re over the age of 40, the number one thing you can do to not look like the creepy old guy is to get into great physical shape.

Because when you don’t work out, and you don’t eat right, it conveys to women that you don’t value yourself. Or that you don’t give a shit of what you put into your body.

(P.S. It’s perfectly NORMAL to desire younger women. Any guy who says, “Oh I’d never sleep with an 18 year old,” is either lying out of fear of being judged, or because societal reprogramming tells him to react that way. Because from a biological standpoint, men are driven to mate with the most sexually fertile women. In other words, younger women.)

What makes you look old, is not your actual age or the fine lines on your face, and gray hair can be easily colored back in, but actually how your body carries itself.

Because even having gray hairs and fine wrinkles on your face is sexy to young women. But it’s the lack of muscle, the lack of muscle keeping your posture straight, that’s what makes you look like “an old guy”.

And as you get older, and you’re someone who does not work out at the gym with heavy weights, what happens is you gradually lose muscle mass each year.

So in very subtle ways visually, your posture begins to show signs of age by bending inward, the skin around your shrinking body and muscles gets lax and loose, and your body begins to shrink.

So an older gentlemen over the age of 50 is really going to show his age, not because he’s 50, but because of the muscle shrinkage in his body. And instead of looking like a handsome 50 year old cutie, he’s going to look like a “old geezer”.

The other thing that happens as you get older and you don’t workout is you start putting on weight. You lose muscle gradually, your metabolism slows down as a result. And all those calories start going in as fat. Some guys put the weight on their bellies, most guys put the weight all over their body, but that weight gain is a glaring sign of old age to the girl, and a sign that you don’t care about yourself and you don’t care about dying from diseases like diabetes and heart disease.

And that’s where older guys go wrong, is that they just LOOK old in their profile, when they really shouldn’t if they were working out religiously. They’re really out of shape, and that’s a dead giveaway that you are low value, that you don’t respect your body, you don’t care enough to stay physically young looking and healthy.

So why would a young cutie girl have sex with you, and potentially have your children when you physically look like you could keel over any day.

Because older men can get diseases like diabetes and heart disease. So lack of muscle indicates to a woman on an older gentlemen proximity to death. And she doesn’t want to spend her best years being your nurse.

So it’s not a good genetic strategy for the young woman to have sex with you.

But, fortunately, you can rely defy this attraction decline, just by working out religiously. Because women will forgive just about everything else about your age as long as you’ve kept physically in really great shape and you’ve got the muscle of a younger man.

Because it’s that muscle that says you’re still healthy, that you take in your body and you’re proud of your body, that you have the physical ability to give her children, to protect the children, provide for the children, fend off rivals, and so on. A young woman wants to see that you are physically able, just like a guy who would be in his 20s.

And that physical fitness and retaining muscle and building new muscle is the key to staying attractive into your 40s, 50s and 60s. Period.

Because a young woman, ideally, wants to meet an older man with a younger man’s body.

A young woman wants to combine the maturity, status, and power of the older man, with the health and youth and vitality of the young man’s physical strength. That’s like the ultimate guy to most younger women.

So if you’re an older guy, and you want the “magic pill” to getting laid, the magic pill, if you want to call it that, is to have a good BODY.

A body that has good posture because muscle is key to posture, looks healthy, has a respectable amount of muscle definition, and is lean with minimal fat.

And for an older guy, a good body will get you far. A good body, with game, will bring you into Don Juan territory where you can literally blow away these younger guys because women want, ideally, to meet an older guy with a good body and game, not a younger guy who doesn’t know what he’s doing.

That means working out every day. It means lifting weights. It means eating very strictly nutritious and proper food.

Working out, eating right also gives you a sense of entitlement.

Because what’s holding back older gentlemen is that they know they physically look bad, they know that the girl physically looks good, and that there’s a fundamental mismatch there.

So n older guy sees a cute girl that is perhaps 10 or 20 years or even 30 years younger than himself… and what’s going to happen? He just freezes up. Or more likely, he won’t even allow the girl to catch him looking at her. Because he doesn’t feel entitled to even be talking to a younger woman.

Because he knows he looks old. He knows he eats badly. He knows he doesn’t work out or do anything to try to correct the situation. And he FEELS old. Fundamentally, he FEELS old.

So when you don’t feel entitled to have a younger woman, that holds you back. Not only do you not approach, but you avert your gaze.

Or, at best, you do a really timid Nice Guy, Fatherly sort of game on the girls. Where you’re always looking for IOIs to first make a move. You’re always really sweet, like a grandfatherly gentlemen to the girl. You’re always looking for permission to make a move. You’re really concerned about being liked and getting acceptance so you don’t do anything. You’ve got a big smile on your face, in a very supplicating, kiss-ass kind of smile that’s overly friendly.

And that’s the problem with older guys, is that they’re too nice, they’re too permission seeking, they’re too approval seeking, they’re conversational asexually like the girl’s Dad, but not physical, and they’re looking too much for permission and IOIs to escalate or continue.

That all stems from a complete lack of entitlement. And lack of entitlement comes from feeling physically old, looking physically old. And feeling and looking physically old comes solely from lack of lean muscle tissue, which is what makes you look good, makes you look young, makes you feel good, gives you good posture. But you’re lacking all of that, and you know it, you won’t feel entitled and you won’t get girls, period.

So hitting the gym and eating properly to put on lean muscle tissue is absolutely fundamental. And if you’re not 50 yet, you should start now. So that by the time you reach 50, you look fucking fantastic and you’re still can pickup up the teenage girls and the college girls and feel good doing it, and look congruent. Where at least if you’ve got a strapping hot body at 50, the really young girls will WANT to hook up with you, will WANT to talk to you, and you’ll still feel like a cool guy that hooking up with young girls feels normal and natural.

And that’s why there’s really no special “trick” or line or routine for an older guy to pickup younger girls. Because this is a strictly inner game issue that stems largely from how well you’ve maintained and built your body, or how you’ve neglected it.

So again, this is why physical fitness, and becoming that hunky older gentlemen, and starting now is so important.


Attract A New Girlfriend

The Female Magnet Exercise – 

Magnetically Attract A New Girlfriend



So, what kind of beautiful women DO you want?

For magnetically attracting beautiful women into your life with this exercise, list all the qualities and characteristics of the kind of girl you want to attract. If you know what these characteristics are, you will be more successful because you’ll know what to look for.

What kind of women would you like to have? Do you want an explosive one-night stand or a hot, passionate relationship? Take your time and list as many qualities as you want in a woman.

Here are some examples:

“I like a woman who is very sexual and is always eager to have a wild time with me in bed. I also like a woman who is down to earth and doesn’t expect me to pay for everything… a woman who is happy and open. I want a woman that knows when to get dirty but also knows when to act like a lady. Someone who keeps in shape and has a great body and nice breasts. Oh yeah, and one that treats me like a god!”

Now to do this female magnet exercise for attracting beautiful women,

Think of the qualities you want in a woman that you listed earlier

Begin to focus on feeling the presence of the kind of woman you’re wishing to attract. Imagine that she’s right there, right in front of you.

As you do this, focus on the feeling of being connected to her.

Imagine a cord of green sex energy coming from your chest to her breasts, connecting both of you… focus in on this feeling.

Imagine a cord of yellow sex energy coming from your eyes to her eyes, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of red sex energy coming from your groin to her groin, really connecting both of you now, as you really focus in on this feeling.

Imagine a cord of orange sex energy coming from the top of your stomach (the area where you feel butterflies) to hers, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of blue sex energy coming from your throat to her tongue, connecting both of you.

Imagine a cord of gold sex energy coming from your forehead to her lips, connecting both of you. Really focus in on this feeling.

Focus on all six sex connections and a feeling of well-being

As you focus on the feelings of the six connections, notice what happens as you double the intensity of the feeling
 
Now in your mind, switch places with her. Step into her body, feeling what she’s feeling, and have her step into your body, feeling the six sex connections.

Hear her thoughts listing your best qualities from the inside of her mind.

Step back into your body, continuing to feel all six sex connections.

Send her the feeling of anticipation toward the day you meet in the near future.

Count to yourself from 1 to 5, saying, “Now I will count from 1 to 5. And when I do, I will awaken, feeling much better than I have ever felt before…1… 2… 3… 4… and 5.”


Do this female magnet exercise no more than twice a week for attracting beautiful women. 

Go on about your normal life… you’ll find yourself drawn to go to new places… trust your intuition and follow this. When you meet this woman, she may or may not be everything you wanted. That’s ok. Just repeat the exercise, but be clear in the qualities you want in a woman.

This relates to the baseball player imagining his homers. You need to SEE a goal to get to it. The more concrete the goal, the better your chances.

You alert yourself – on both conscious and subconscious levels – to recognize the lady you want and you’d be surprised how many guys miss her because they’re too busy worrying about something else during the crucial moment.

And you make chance encounters with the right type of woman and attracting beautiful women MORE likely just be exercising the encounter.

Thursday, July 12, 2012

How To Seduce Beautiful Big Women

Learning how to seduce beautiful big women is not any different than how to seduce any women. There are just some subtle things you may want to change in how you go about seducing bigger women than smaller women. An important thing to remember is that seduction is an art and men and women are wired differently when it comes to the art of seduction.

To seduce beautiful big women, you will need to:

Learn patience. You cannot rush beautiful big women into seduction. You need to show her how you can be a patient man. Take the time to learn about her, what she likes and dislikes. Many beautiful big women are uncomfortable with their bodies, this is not to say all are, but some can be. What you may find attractive about her she may hate about herself. Learning about these things will take you to be patient.

The art of seduction points. Seduction points are simply the way a beautiful big women can be seduced. In other words some women can be seduced by the way you look at her, or by the way you talk to her. One of the most important things you can do to seduce a women is to show confidence, beautiful big women will come to you by the dozens if you can show confidence and power.

Use your body language to seduce beautiful big women. It’s amazing how women know if you’re watching them or not, call it sixth sense if you will. The way you carry yourself will quickly tell a women a lot about yourself. If our trying to hard she will know and you will lose, its important to be comfortable and confident in who you are and let that carry out in your body language.

Don’t fake it. There is nothing worse than trying to seduce beautiful big women by faking things. Don’t make up things to make yourself seem more important than you are. Don’t push your body language to be different than what comes off naturally, there is nothing worse than watching a man fake it as he tries to seduce a woman it comes out comical. The last thing you want is that beautiful big women laughing at you.

Seduction by laughter. You can seduce beautiful big women by laughter. If you can charm her with witty humor that is not out of line or stupid you are sure to win her over. Try to remember not to use any fat jokes or comments about food as you never know how a woman will take it. Stick to natural topics.

How to have Sex With A Teacher

How to have Sex With A Teacher

Do you want to know how to have sex with a teacher? Oh, how so many guys would love to have sex with a teacher. Most students, it is safe to say, are younger than their teachers. 

Even if they are not, the whole idea of the occupation is rather exciting. Those textbooks, those reading glasses, yes, those are enough to intrigue any man. There are some rules, however, when you wish to have sex with a teacher.

Make sure this is something you both are sure about before passion runs its course. Like most other things in life, this cannot be undone. There should always be a level of respect when having sex with a teacher. They can be quit different than other women and have more liabilities to think of.

Dress nice and keep yourself clean. Teachers are professionals and usually they prefer a man who is at their level or only slightly under. Do not overdo it, though, because teachers are usually not into fast talkers and over dressers. They tend to be practical people.
Know the rules when attempting these kinds of sexual activities. There are rules when dating or having sex with teachers. If you are a student of said teacher, then you will have to keep the relations quiet. It is against the rules to have sexual relations with your teacher. Although this can be exciting, the teacher could lose her job and even go to jail for such activities. Take extreme caution in this instance.

Know her rules for the game. Teachers may have a different outlook on the content of sexual activities, while some of them may not. Communicate beforehand on how sex will go between you two. You could be surprised and get to spend adventurous time with the teacher, as may be some cases.

Having sex with a teacher may not be any different than having sex with any other girl, but it is always good to have some basic guidelines. Pay attention to signals, signs and small gestures that will help you to know just how to get on the same page with the teacher.

Tuesday, July 10, 2012

How Reckless Sexual Intent Makes Women Get Horny For You, Even If You’re Damn Ugly!

How Reckless Sexual Intent Makes Women Get Horny For You, Even If You’re Damn Ugly!

So, how do you make women feel horny and wet between the legs for you – even if you’re not the best looking guy?

What most men do, is that when they see an attractive woman that they like, they actually bury their sexual feelings and desires deep down inside of them.

They look away from the girl, maybe they just peek at her from the corner of their eye, but they don’t want the woman to know that she’s checking her out.

Or, the guy goes up and says hello to the woman, maybe opens by asking her opinion about something, and maybe tells a story or joke to make her laugh. But he still hiding his sexual desire to fuck her by being super friendly, and as a result the interaction doesn’t have any sexual tension, it doesn’t have any sexual undertone or vibe.

He’s not being raw and masculine, so the woman cannot feel raw and feminine in return. He has no chance awakening a primal lust in her.

So the guy might be liked by the girl, but she’s putting him into the nice guy “let’s just be friends” category because no hard attraction is being sparked.

And the reason that guys hide and bury their masculine sexual intent is because they want approval from the girl, they want to be liked by the girl. They’re more worried about being liked then to actually get the girl into their bed. They want to be liked more than actually risk a rejection by showing their true feelings of attraction.

And when you do this, it’s very easy to get the girl to giggle and laugh, but generally the interactions won’t go anywhere farther than that if the girl doesn’t know why the fuck you’re talking to her.

Sexual Intent And State Transference
And remember that concept that whatever you feel, the girl will feel. If you’re hiding your true intentions, and you remain completely asexual, not only will that make you feel lame yourself, but the girl is not going to feel sexual for you in return.

If you want a woman to feel that hard, I-want-to-fuck-this-guy feeling, you have to go there first.

If you want a girl to feel that tingle of lust, you have to go there first. You lead her state.

On some level, you need to feel that testosterone fueled fury, that fire blazing up through your body of sexual intent.

On some level, the girl has to feel like you are deeply attracted to her.

On some level the girl has to feel that she is in imminent danger of being fucked.

On some level, she has to feel like you would follow her to the ends of the earth to pursue her all the way to better.

On some level, the girl has to feel like a sex object and this is going down at any moment.

And you expressing your sexual intent openly will allow her to feel that rush of underlying sexual tension.

And you’ll generate that hard attraction, because finally she’s meeting a man who’s not afraid to project that kind of energy, who’s not afraid to express the truth, was not afraid to be real with her, who’s not looking for her permission to express himself, a man who makes no apologies for having a Dick. She’ll feel that sexual tingle because women are inherently, biologically attracted to men to take the lead in goal for the girl’s permission to act recklessly.

Embrace The Sexual Man In You

Because remember women want to be fucked. They want men with masculine dominance and masculine intent to fuck them. Women want to meet a real man with every intention of bending them over. And women love to be physically dominated and checked out shamelessly. It makes them feel feminine.

So the first thing is, to embrace that identity of being a sexual man.

That you were born with a Dick, and you make no apologies for your sexual desires as a man. But you won’t bury your true self or your true feelings or your true desires, but you let them shine through and you make no apologies for it.

You embrace that role as a man who lets women know what he’s about and why he’s talking to her. Any make no excuses for being a sexual guy. Any make no excuses that fucking hot girls and expressing yourself is your manifest destiny.

And again, like I said before, that open expression of your masculine sexual intent, is what the game is really now. Because that’s where the fun, and the rush, and the feeling of youth and vitality and happiness and that you’re 10, comes in. It’s not in getting laid. It’s not in getting the girl. It’s who you are, expressing your raw masculinity, and taking complete reckless action that defines you as a man and will sustain you day after day and ground you in fun and motivation.

And by doing so, women will feel that shine through, and feel hard attraction as a result just as a side effect of who you are.

How To Express Sexual Intent

That begs the question, what is then a sustaining motivation to keep going out, to keep meeting women week after week, and just having sex as merely a side effect of who you are — without getting laid been a conscious and the goal?

What can you do to feel alive, to feel vital, to be happy, to have fun, despite whatever else is going on, despite if sex is happening or not — and yet you’re still attracting massive quantities of women in your life, as a side effect of who you are?

Your goal each day, and your motivation for going out, is most healthy and sustaining when it’s about being a man who expresses recklessly his masculine sexual intent. That’s the magic formula to stay motivated and be healthy about this.

Reckless sexual intent is looking hard-core into a woman’s eyes, and then her lips, and then at her breasts, checking out her body shamelessly as he talked to her.

Reckless sexual intent is running up to a woman and telling her that she’s the cutest thing on the planet as he smiled big and say it with 100% conviction.

Reckless sexual intent is speaking loudly and dominantly with breaking rapport tonality.

Reckless sexual intent is ignoring a woman’s tests and powerfully plowing through like a steamroller over all opposition to express yourself to her.

Reckless sexual intent is imagining putting your one hand on her breast and another hands on her but in pulling her in for a wet kiss as a speaker.

Reckless sexual intent is making women feel like they are in danger of immediately being fucked if they were to be alone with you.

Reckless because you take action without permission. Reckless because you take action to try to create a social disaster in dealing with the consequences only later.

That’s the core sexual expression that makes you feel like a raw, alive, blood coursing through your veins, masculine man. And that’s what will ultimately make you feel a rush, feel alive, feel young, feel happy, feel complete freedom, feel proud about yourself and happy that you are you, that you can make women feel this way at your will. You feel like a man.

Sex Cannot Be The Only Goal

Regardless of whether sex comes from that, because the sex cannot be the goal. Getting laid cannot be the goal. Pining after a girlfriend cannot be the goal. Expressing your sexual masculine intent can be your only goal for the day. And when you express your sexual intent, shamelessly, recklessly, without permission from anybody, that’s far more powerful then the act of getting laid itself.

And that’s what attracts women as a side effect of who you are, and you can just allow the sex to happen when it comes, without reaching for, without grasping for, without dreaming about it, without it being part of your agenda, in your head as some thought based goal. Because the thought based goals set in the future come into the present moment and destroy it. Thought-based goals basically cancel out your happiness for today because of the goal you feel you haven’t succeeded, you feel you aren’t complete. So self acceptance and happiness go right out the window.

But if you’re out there, in the field, taking action, expressing your sexual masculine intent to women, that’s its own reward because that’s what will make you feel awesome and feel like a complete man. It’s not getting approval from the woman in the form of getting laid that will make you feel that way.

So your motivation to go out each day is to recklessly take action. And if you’re doing that now, you’ve reached the pinnacle. You are already there. You don’t need to achieve anything more. Just enjoy that. Just enjoy that you are a man who takes action. And that’s all you need to be. Enjoy the rush. Enjoy the adrenaline. Enjoy feeling young and vital. Enjoy the power. Enjoy that you’re leaving. Enjoy that you’re making women blush, making women smile, making women slap you, making women run away, making women flustered, making women fall head over heels, and just getting all these crazy intense reactions from women.

And listen, this is why so many relationships fall apart. Because the guy was originally motivated to get laid or find a girlfriend. So he gets into a relationship, has his girlfriend, and gets laid.

But — he loses his opportunities to express his masculine sexual intent. He’s prevented by his new girlfriend from going out and expressing himself to women or expressing his desires to women. and yes, the relationship he’s in is comfortable, but he starts to feel neutered. He starts to feel a longing. He starts to feel something is missing. But something is missing.

Because a man is most fulfilled when he’s expressing his sexual intent, making women feel that hard attraction, blowing up girls realities, and acting recklessly and dominantly.

It’s not about the girl. It’s not about the sex. Those things don’t last. What it is about is you, and who you ar, and how you act – that’s what lasts. That’s what brings you lasting fulfillment and joy, happiness, and motivation to keep going out.

So your goal is really, each day, to go on expressing your sexual intent with recklessness, without seeking permission to do it, and cleaning up the social disaster and consequences afterwards.

That is far more sustaining because every day is a new opportunity to live in the moment, to have fun, and have loads of success.

Sunday, July 8, 2012

Speed dating

How to succeed at speed dating

Speed dating is one of the easiest, fastest and most fun ways to meet a lot of women in a single evening.

If you’ve never tried speed dating before, it’s a little bit similar to the game called ‘musical chairs’. Basically, the women are seated at tables and the men rotate around the room until each man and woman has had a chance to meet each other. You will sit and talk to a woman for about 5 to 10 minutes and then you’ll hear a signal that tells you it’s time to switch and you’ll move to the next woman.

Each person is given a ‘score card’ and if you like a woman (or several women) and would like to get their contact information, you will mark their name(s) on the card. And if those same women also have an interest in seeing you again, they will mark your name down.

At the end of the speed dating event or soon after, the event’s organizers will compare the cards. If the women you meet are also interested in you, you will each get the other’s contact information (e-mail or phone number). And then you contact the woman to talk further or to arrange a date.

However, if she likes you but you weren’t attracted to her or vice-versa, then neither of you will receive the other’s contact information. No rejection worries there. These events are often held at bars or clubs and there’s usually a nominal fee to participate. You can find speed dating events in your area advertised in your local newspaper or the Internet.

The best part is that if you’re not feeling it with a particular woman, your ‘date’ will only last a few minutes. Plus, even if you have to talk to a woman you’re not interested in, it’s a great way to get you relaxed and ready to talk to a woman you do you like. Okay, now that you know the basics, let’s get down to how to succeed at speed dating.

Of course you’ll want to look your best. That doesn’t mean you have to wear a suit (unless it’s appropriate to the event), but you do want to wear something nice and be properly groomed.

Since the women will be meeting many men, you’ll want to make a memorable first impression. This is the perfect time to stand out from the crowd by using your sense of humor and teasing her a bit. Just be sure not to use the same jokes and teases with each girl since you often will be sitting close to the last woman you spoke with and if she overhears you, you don’t want her to think that you were giving her a line. Lines are lame.

To come up with some funny to say, you might notice what a girl is wearing and say (with a smile), “That’s looks like an expensive outfit. I don’t know – you look kind of high maintenance to me…” Or you might take a similar tact and say something like, “My wife forced me to do this…she’s at home waiting to see how man yes’s I get…”

The point is to tease her, shock her, say something funny and throw her off her game a bit so she laughs and remembers you.

The subject of what you do for a living will invariably come up. This is another chance to stand out and not give a boring recitation of what you do for a living. For instance, if you are a construction worker, you might say something like, “I play in the dirt all day and build things…” Or if you’re an accountant, you might answer, “I make sure that the numbers add up and I help people to get rich.” If you’re a student, you might comment, “I spend my day working on my future…”

No matter what you do, just figure out a way to discuss your occupation in an interesting and unusual manner. Remember, you’re not at a job interview, so don’t hog the conversation and don’t be formal – it’s supposed to be fun and interesting. Get her to talk about herself and listen to what she’s saying.

Even if you’re not attracted to the woman you’re talking with and spot someone more striking a few tables over, don’t keep glancing over at the other woman. You’ll get to her soon enough. Women rarely attend these events by themselves and that gorgeous gal you’ve been eyeing, might turn out to be the friend of the girl you’re ignoring. When they compare notes later, if the beautiful woman thinks you were rude to her friend, even if it was because she was the object of your attention, you’re probably going to be a goner. So focus on the woman you’re with. It’s good practice and good manners.

When you’ve been talking to a woman you do like and you realize that your time is going to be up, smile and say, “Finally – I get to talk to someone else! That was the worst 10 minutes of my life!” Then tell you’re kidding and say, “No, I’ve enjoyed talking to you…you seem pretty cool. We should chat again sometime” and get up and leave.

It’s just that easy. Why not give speed dating a chance and practice your skills with women?

Online Dating - Pros y Cons online dating

Pros and Cons of Online Dating

If you haven’t been dating in a while, if you’re new to dating or if you’re want to improve your skills with women, online dating can sometimes be a good stepping stone. The truth is that online dating is best used in combination with actually going out and talking to women in bars.

However, since many guys are interested in online dating these days – let’s have an honest look at the pros and cons.

Online dating wasn’t very popular before the late 1990s and early 2000s, but today it has become a much more viable option to make initial contact with women. Unlike in the past, you’ll find that there are more women who are also looking to meet their match online. It’s no longer just the homely girls who frequent the online dating sites. Many beautiful women, especially those with busy careers, are now finding that meeting someone online suits their busy lifestyle. After all, they don’t have to get dressed or deal with the noise and crowds generally associated with the club scene and they can better fit it into their schedule.

Today, there are free sites with many active members, but sometimes paying a small fee with give you access to women aren’t being flooded with messages by free users.

While you can correspond with women internationally and nationally, some sites will give you the option to search for women within a short drive from where you live. It’s a good feature, because unless you’re ready and willing to move to the other side of the world if you become serious with the woman, or you simply don’t want to have to spend a fortune traveling back and forth to date, you might want to limit your search to a girl who is relatively close to you; at least within the same state, country or region. Remember, if you’re going to have a true relationship with, or at the least, have sex with your new lady, you’re actually going to have to be in the same room. (Online sex doesn’t count for anything).

Let’s cover some of the other pros and cons.

Pros

You can target potential women not only by looks, age and location but also by common interests.

Before you even begin corresponding with the woman, there is usually some information on her available on the site that will make ‘starting a conversation’ easier.

You can talk to many women at the same time.

On the outside chance you don’t hit it off with a woman you like; you’re only a few key clicks away from your next potential conquest. No fear of rejection there.

You can determine how quickly or slowly you want to get to know the women. Although, due to the removed nature of online dating, people have a tendency to open up more quickly about themselves.

You can apply your skills of flirting online before going out into the real world to experiment.

When you finally do meet in person, you’ve already established a relationship or at least have a familiarity with each other.

Cons

Women aren’t always honest when they put up their photo. You can’t tell how recent her picture is or if it is really her. Some women feel that once you get to know them, their appearance won’t matter as much so they are deceptive about the photos they upload.

You can easily get into the bad habit of using online dating as a substitute for going out and meeting women in person.

Some sites charge a recurring fee, while others are ‘pay as you go’. You could end up spending a lot of money over the course of a year.

The so-called ‘relationship’ you build with a woman online (sometimes over months) might not match the actual relationship you have once you meet in person. Many guys report feeling worse when they rejected by an online love than if they got rejected by a woman they met briefly in a bar.

Most women use online dating to boost their self-esteem, so they are more confident when they meet guys in person. The check their online dating accounts before going out on the town to see all the adoring messages from guys (sometimes 100s of messages per day). Most guys say the same thing, “Hi, you’re beautiful – I’d like to get to know you” and boring stuff like that.

Online dating has to be one of the slowest ways to get a girlfriend when compared to just walking up to women in bars, shopping malls, etc and starting a conversation. Online dating relationships tend to take many months to build up, whereas you can get a phone number in one minute by walking up and talking to a woman in person. If you fear approaching women, watch this free video on how to overcome any fears or anxiety you might feel before walking up.

Going on a date

If you do decide to use online dating and score a date in the real world, make sure you take proper precautions so you aren’t stuck on a date with an overweight woman or a psycho chick. Choose a public place with lots of people and plan for it to be a quick initial visit such as meeting for drinks, lunch, coffee or some other arrangement that will allow you to make a graceful and speedy exit if necessary. You don’t want to spend several hours at dinner with a woman that you have no real chemistry with. On the other hand, if you’re enjoying yourself, you can always extend the time of your date.

Online dating can be a great way to meet women as long as you don’t substitute online dating for the real thing. The best way to use it is in combination with actually going out on weekends and talking to women in bars. Talking to women in bars is the fastest way to improve your conversation skills with women as well as your confidence. Women EXPECT to be approached in bars and they WANT it. You are doing them a favor by approaching and talking to them, so don’t ever feel bad about it in anyway.



How To Find Sex Partners



How To Find Sex Partners

Trying to figure out how to find sex partners? Who isn't? Sex partners can be tricky to find if you have no game whatsoever. What follows is a step-by-step tutorial that will enable even the lamest dude to find a sex partner.

The obvious way to find sex partners is to head to the internet. Thanks to an ultra-freaky culture in today's society, there are many sites that offer the chance to find a sex partner at little or no cost. 

These websites offer the opportunity to connect with other individuals seeking sex partners. A simple online search will turn up dozens in a matter of seconds. Simply sign up for a membership with the site, list all of your preferences, and start hunting down that perfect sex partner. But be careful! What you think you want may not always be in your best interest.

Another great way to find sex partners is to talk to your friends. Every person has some freak in her past that is willing to do all those crazy things you thought only existed within the covers of "Hustler." With any luck, your friends will be able to turn you on to some of their former sex partners that are perfectly willing to take on the challenge of having a sexual relationship with you.

Believe it or not, former sex partners are a great source for finding sex partners. Your ex-girlfriend or bedroom buddy knows what you like and will be able to match you with an acquaintance that will be the answer to all your sexual prayers. If you ended on good terms, give her a call.

For casual sexual encounters, a swing party will provide you with a number of sex partners. Swing parties can be found online with a simple search. Sign up for a party and jump right in. You can even bring a friend along if you are feeling a little shy.

With sex being discussed so openly these days, it is practically impossible not to find a willing sex partner. With good hygiene and a little self-confidence, you can easily find a sex partner.

Saturday, July 7, 2012

How To Naturally Avoid Impotence

How To Naturally Avoid Impotence

Make some changes to your lifestyle in order to learn how to naturally avoid impotence. Impotence, also known as erectile dysfunction, occurs when you are unable to ejaculate or unable to get an erection in order to have sex. It is a frustrating condition for many men, but steps can be taken to naturally avoid impotence.

Get out and exercise at least several times a week. Sustaining an erection requires proper blood flow. One way to naturally avoid impotence is to improve your blood flow by strengthening your heart and muscles. Try to exercise for at least a half an hour a day, five days a week to start and work your way up. Take things easy at first, start out by walking, then work your way up to running or bicycling. You can also play a sport you enjoy.

Cut back on alcohol and quit smoking. Maintaining a healthy lifestyle is necessary to avoid impotence. Smoking messes up your circulation, in addition to damaging other parts of your body, which leads to impotence. Talk with your doctor if you need help quitting or join a support group. Too much alcohol also leads to impotence. Limit yourself to no more than two drinks a day, though less is even better.

Calm down. Too much stress in your life can make cause erectile dysfunction. It may be hard to eliminate all stress from your life, but you should do the best you can to reduce much of it. Try relaxation techniques, talking with a friend or loved one or generally avoiding taking on too much in order to avoid impotence. If your stress levels are extremely high, you may need to seek medical help in order to reduce them.

Get any diseases under control. Some diseases, such as diabetes, heart problems and kidney problems can lead to impotence. With the help of your doctor, make adjustments to your diet, such as cutting out or back on sugary or high fat foods. You may need to take medication to get your condition under control in order to avoid impotence.

Sex Tourism

Sex Tourism


Sex tourism is the act of traveling to another location for the purpose of having sex with prostitutes. There are many countries known for this, including but not limited to Costa Rica, Thailand, Cambodia and Kenya. Las Vegas is a popular sex tourism location in the USA because prostitution is regulated by the state.

France's culture minister, Frederic Mitterrand, wrote about his sex tourism adventures in Thailand in his autobiography, "The Bad Life". Frederic sparked a controversy after he wrote about sleeping with young boys on his trips abroad while lamenting about the atrocities of human traficking. Unlike the regulated sex industry of Las Vegas, Thailand depends on slavery and human trafficking to fuel its prostitution profits. The Thai government has been working with western countries such as the United States to alleviate the problem.

The sex tourism industry of Costa Rica is composed of more willing sex workers than in some other countries. Like Las Vegas, Costa Rica regulates the sex industry as an alternative to prohibition. Unemployed mothers often sell their bodies in cities to feed their kids and send them to college. The demand for such jobs skyrocketed after the global economy sunk in 2008. Thousands of women from neighboring countries moved to Costa Rica to cash in on the sex tourism trade. By 2010, there was a shortage of sex tourists to help them pay their bills as the market became saturated.

The child sex tourism industry is alive and well in Kenya, where the government officially denies that the industry exists. Mombasa is a major tourist destination in Kenya, especially for men looking for young boys to sleep with. The poor kids in Mombasa are usually bribed by pimps to prostitute themselves. Some bars even allow these kids to drink despite underage drinking laws. Officials rarely enforce such laws. To them, the leniency boosts the economy. Mombasa once had a thriving economy due to normal tourism. After a violent election and a sunken economy, this once thriving city turned to sex tourism to keep from going bankrupt.

How To Have Sex During Her Period

How To Have Sex During Her Period
If it's that time of month for your girlfriend, you may want to know how to have sex during her period. That messy time of the month is often times when you may avoid having sex. However, there are ways to learn how to have sex during her period to make sure that you won't have to stop having sex just because she is bleeding.

Timing is everything. Try and pick out the days that are lightest if you want to learn how to have sex during her period. Those days are a lot easier and a lot less messy for you and your partner. Plus, it won't make you sick if you don't like looking at blood as much.

Keep lights down or off. Nothing is better for having sex during her period then making sure you can't see what is going on. This will work great if you're not quite sure just how much blood may be down there. Make sure you wash yourself off and don't look to see how much blood there was.

Put a towel down. You want to make sure that you keep a towel under the girl when you want to know how to have sex during her period. Pick that towel up and throw it in the wash as quickly as possible so you don’t notice just how much blood there was.

Take a shower first. Though it won't stop the bleeding, it may clean her up enough to really know how to have sex during her period. That bit of washing may be enough to hopefully make it easier to have sex.
Douching. It may be enough to slow down the bleeding just enough to have sex.

These are all great ways to have sex during her period. Why wait those three to seven days to have sex again? Of course,. there is always her performing oral sex on you instead of intercourse!

How To Kiss On First Date

How To Kiss On First Date

If you are excited about a first date, that you have planned, then learn how to kiss on the first date. Women never forget the first time that they kiss a man, so you want to be at the top of your game. In the heat of the moment, it is easy to forget what you are doing, so you need to have a solid plan before you try to kiss on a first date. Having a plan ahead of time will put your mind at ease when it is time for that big first date kiss. Follow these steps and you will have a memorable kiss on your fist date.

Carry breath mints with you. The first thing you need to know about how to kiss on a first date is that you have to have fresh breath. Just like a woman won't forget the first time you kiss her, she also won't forget if you had breath doing your first kiss. Carry a small pack of strong breath mints with you, so you can pop them in your mouth throughout your date. Many guys make the mistake of chewing guy to keep their breath during a first date. However, many women are turned off by the sound of chewing gum.

Ask her if you can kiss her. This might sound dorky, but women actually love it when a man asked permission to kiss her. To kiss on the first date, you need to gaze into your date's eyes and ask her if you can kiss her. If you look into her eyes and are sincere when you ask her, she is sure to give you permission to kiss her on the first date.

Slowly press your lips to her lips. Lean your face to her face and slowly press your lips to her lips. To kiss on a first date your lips need to be moist. If your lips are dry, lightly lick your lips to moisten them before you press them on her lips. To get her even more excited, run your hand slowly through her hair, while your lips are touching her lips.

Open your mouth and move your tongue in her mouth. Once your lips are on her lips, you want to slowly open your mouth and put your tongue in her mouth. When you do this, lightly run you tongue over her tongue. Once your tongue is in her mouth, put your hand on the back of her head and pull her closer to you to deepen the kiss.

Let her take the lead. Once you have followed the first four steps on how to kiss on a first date, you will be ready to let your date take the lead on the kissing. If she starts kissing you hard and fast then follow her lead and kiss her fast and hard back. If you notice that she is letting her lips linger on your lips then follow her pace and keep the kisses long and slow.

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend To Kiss A Girl?

How Do I Convince My Girlfriend To Kiss A Girl?
If the thought of two girls kissing makes you hot, then you will want to know how to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl. A lot of guys think that there is no chance that their girlfriend will kiss another girl, but the truth is many girls actually fantasize about kissing another girl. If you have the right strategy, then your chances of getting your girlfriend to kiss a girl are very high. Follow these simple steps if you want your fantasy to come true.

Talk about two girls you know who have kissed. Talking about other girls who have kissed can be a good start to convincing your girlfriend to kiss a girl. If you don't know any girls that have kissed, you can talk about girls on television that have kissed. Just casually mention that you think what you saw was very arousing. This will plant the seed in your girlfriend's heat that kissing a girl could be a hot experience.

Ask her what you can do to turn her on. If you really want to convince your girlfriend to kiss a girl, then you will need to find out what turns your girlfriend on. Asking a girl what turns her on sexually will open the door for her to ask you about what turns you on. Many guys are surprised at what their girlfriends will do just because it turns their boyfriends on. You might even learn that the idea of kissing another girl is what turns your girlfriend on.

Make her feel confidant about your relationship. Many girls won't kiss another girl because they feel their boyfriend might like the girl they are kissing more than like them. To convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you are going to have to convince her that she is the most important person to you. Try telling her how beautiful she is and how she is the only girl for you; this will make her feel confident in your relationship. If she is totally confident in your relationship, then she will be more likely to kiss a girl for you.

Tell her you want to make her sexual fantasy come true. A good way to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl is to first tell her that you want to make one of her sexual fantasies come true. Once your girlfriend knows that you want to make her sexual fantasies come true, she is probably going to want to return the favor. She will be so grateful that you want to please her that she will probably do anything that she knows will please you sexually.

Don't try pressuring her into it kissing another girl. A lot of guys think that pressuring their girlfriend is the way to convince them to kiss another girl, but nothing could be further from the truth. The more a guy tries pressuring their girlfriend into kissing another girl, the more their girlfriend is going to resist the idea. Instead, tell your girlfriend that you would like her to kiss another girl, but you don't want to pressure her into it. Taking the pressure off of her will probably be enough to eventually get her to kiss another girl for you.

While these are the best steps to take to to get your girlfriend to kiss another girl, some girls just will not do it. Before trying to convince your girlfriend to kiss another girl, you need to make sure that you will still want to be with your girlfriend even if she is never willing to kiss a girl for you.

How To Have Good Hard Sex

How To Have Good Hard Sex

Every now and then, a couple will be interested in how to have good hard sex. While in fact a consistent sexual relationship with a partner is a good thing, and healthy for the relationship; having variances in the type of sex is something that can take it to an entirely different level. Adding in a good hard sex session here and there will help increase the passion between partners, as well as add an element of surprise. This article outlines some basics in having a nice and rough sex session to help heat up that fire.

Get a little rougher than normal. In looking to venture into having good hard sex, one important aspect is changing the mannerisms of the sex itself. These mannerisms mainly revolve around the style in which the sex is portrayed with variances in speed and overall roughness. Obviously, it is not necessary to transition from traditional sex or making love to full on on biting and blood draw; however, getting a little more primal and gently pulling hair or spanking can really heighten the moment and take the sex to a new level.

Talk dirty. During intercourse, try talking dirty to your partner. Whether it is simply saying something naughty that comes to mind, or verbally expressing the passion you are experiencing, communicating in these ways during intercourse will allow each partner to feed off the other's excitement and how into the moment they appear to be.

Try some different positions. One important aspect of learning how to have good hard sex is to switch up the positions. This is particularly important for couples who tend to use the same few positions on a regular basis; switching things up a bit can result in different angles and points being hit within the vagina. These new sensations will result in a heightened intensity that both partners will feed off of and freshen up the concept of sex in general to a new and unexplored facet of the relationship.

How To Get A Girl In The Mood

How To Get A Girl In The Mood

So you just called that hot girl from the dog park and she agreed to a third dinner date tonight, and now you’re wondering how to get a girl in the mood. Depending on her personality, this may be a lot easier than you’re thinking. Here are a few tips to get you closer to your goal.

Don’t be pushy. If your aim is to get a girl in the mood, it’s very important that you don’t allow yourself to come across as being pushy. If you can’t hold a normal conversation without constantly hinting at having sex, you’re never going to get any. Same rule applies to being overly touchy. If you want to get a girl in the mood frequently touching her with no reason at all is going to sabotage your plan for fun.

Compliment her. Everyone loves a good compliment, especially women. Although, the type of compliments you offer can make or break how successful you are. Make sure you’re listening to what she has to say, and compliment her on achievements and other things that are not necessarily visibly noticeable. Try to stay away from compliments that are geared toward how she is looking. Unless your date is incredibly shallow, telling her that you adore her dress is not the way to get a girl in the mood.

Create a romantic atmosphere. Romantic is in the eye of the beholder- for some, a romantic night out is the characteristic expensive dinner date with wine. Although, others may find that a cozy night sitting in front of a warm fire is more to their liking. If you have already gotten this far into the relationship as wanting to know how to get a girl in the mood, you should already have gotten the gist of what her personality type is.

Just go for it! After you’ve done your best at not being overly zealous, taken the time to compliment her and worked at creating the right atmosphere, just go for it! Try initiating it with a sensual shoulder rub or by deepening a kiss. Regardless of how you decide to initiate some further intimate fun, just remember not to be hesitant. Women like a man that knows what he wants and doesn’t waste time beating around the bush. If you have already been successful in your attempts to get a girl in the mood, she’ll more than likely let you know about it by reciprocating!

There are many different ways to get a girl in the mood. Most of them depend entirely on her personality and of course how fast you are trying to move. The best piece of advice you can follow is to just give it a try! The worst that can happen is she tells you that she isn’t ready to move that far yet.

How To Attract Married Women

How To Attract Married Women

If you would like to meet a woman, but do not want to deal with the hassle of commitment, then follow these steps and learn how to attract married women. While some may consider it wrong to try to attract married women, it is really just a simple way of satisfying both your needs and that of the woman, without the burden of a long-term relationship.

To attract married women, follow these simple steps:

To attract married women, you will have to consider what may be missing in her marital relationship. Most women report that they miss the excitement and passion of dating, and that they would like to receive more compliments from their husband. That is where you come in. In order to attract married women, you have to be the one to give her what she is missing at home. Smother her with compliments and praise. For example, tell her that she is beautiful, comment on her hairstyle, or marvel at what a graceful walk she has. Or, if you feel bold, let her know that you find her sexually attractive. Even if she does not act right away, she will be thinking about the things you've said.

Become her confidante. If you are already on friendly terms with the woman, you can spend quality time listening to her problems, and offer advice on how she can improve her relationship. Women are attracted to men that can sympathize with their problems, and they are naturally drawn to men that offer solutions. By being the strong man that she turns to when she is feeling down, she will come to see you as a sexual being.

Remember that women are very emotional creatures. By tuning in to their emotions, and opening up a sensitive side of yourself, you can learn how to attract married women. Most women have extramarital affairs because they feel unfulfilled and under appreciated at home, thus, if YOU can make her feel good about herself, that may be the only thing you'll need to do to attract her.

If a woman is satisfied at home, there will be no need for her to look to the comfort of another man. Thus, don't feel guilty for wanting to learn how to attract married women. You will only be helping an otherwise lonely woman.

How To Have Sex With Friend's Wife

How To Have Sex With Friend's Wife

The choice to have sex with the wife of your friend is a risky one, but you can learn how to have sex with your friend's wife, if you want to risk it. Sometimes the most forbidden fruits are the sweetest. Just because it is taboo, the desire to make love with your friend's wife can be overwhelming. If you have the guts, you can do it.

To learn how to make love with your friend's wife, you will need:

guts
to be willing to lose your friend

Make sure that you really want to have sex with your friend's wife. No beating around the bush here. This is a decision that will forever change your relationship with your friend, even if he never finds out. Make sure this is something you can live with before continuing.

If you decided you really want to make love with your friend's wife, then proceed cautiously. Send her small signals. Make dirty jokes. Touch her on her back. Don't do anything that you can't explain away as being just a little too friendly.

Wait for the right moment to approach your friend's wife for sex. Make sure that your friend is not around, and that his wife is in a good mood. Maybe make a joke about how hot she is. She will blush, and so that you are serious. Tell her that you think of her often, and imagine kissing her. If she does not seem disgusted, you are halfway home. Give her a kiss.

Know when to get out of the relationship. If you continue your romance with your friend's wife, you will risk losing our friend. Know when to end the fling. It is best to make sex with your friend's wife a one time only affair.

Make sure to keep up appearances. Don't do anything out of the ordinary with your friend. If you usually meet on Friday night, go. Don't ask questions about his wife, and don't worry that he is suspicious. If he was, he would not have met you.

Never tell your friend, or any friends that you had sex with your best friend's wife. It is just bad form.

How To Seduce Sister-In-Law

 How To Seduce Sister-In-Law

Learning to seduce a sister-in-law means learning how to make alluring suggestions.

If you want to make love with your sister-in-law you must be tactful, or you risk creating a family disaster. But, if you are sure you want to seduce your sister-in-law, it can be done.

Go slow. Really slow. One false move, and you will become the black sheep of the family. Don't attempt to seduce your sister-in-law with a bold moves, or too quickly
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Watch for non-verbal signals. Your sister-in-law will probably not come right out, and ask you to take her at the next family reunion. You may notice that she dresses sexually when you see her, or perhaps she will touch your back, or hand, if given the opportunity,

Mimic her. If you are sure the two of her are on the same page, when it comes to the affair, start to mimic her. If she touches your back, touch hers. If she takes your hand, take her hand. If she is receptive to your touch, you can proceed knowing she wants more.

Have your affair out of town. Be sure that you get as far away as possible before having the affair with your sister-in-law. Try to take a trip ot of town, or at least out of the immediate area. Be quick. Do the deed, and separate.

Avoid feelings. Don't fall in love. Don't tell her you love her. Don't allow her to fall in love with you either.

Know when to end the affair with your sister-in-law. Don't allow the affair to continue for a long time. The longer the affair lasts, the more of a chance you will fall in love, and the chance of someone finding out about the affair will increase. Just have your fun, and end it.

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